Why does he want to see each other? How to tell if a guy is using you for sex

Men do not talk about their feelings when communicating with you, because they themselves are not always fully aware of them.And for some of them, saying “I love you” is a very big problem.

But don't worry!

You can find out what the man you're dating thinks about you without asking him. In addition to words of love, each person shows some signs of his feelings. If you are more observant, you will understand and learn the whole “truth” about a man’s true feelings.

You want confirmation of love right away on the first date, but the man is only looking at you. And even if he likes you very much, he needs time to understand his feelings for you. But if his further behavior contains these six signs, he is clearly in love with you!

Sign 1: He makes you feel special.

A man can like a woman or not, there is no third option.

A man cannot play like a woman - not call specifically to test her feelings and look at her reaction (except in pickup situations, but there you can still figure out a man’s insincerity).

A man either communicates with a woman or does not communicate.

If he doesn’t call a woman, it means he doesn’t want to communicate with her, and nothing can make him want to do this.

A man will not put much effort into pleasing any woman and pleasing her.

If he makes some effort to make sure your time with him is fun and interesting, it's because he cares about you and he loves you.

If he does something for you that makes you feel special, it's a sign that he really loves you.

If he thinks in advance what you will do during your date, if he gives you not just gifts, but takes into account your interests and knows exactly what will make you happy - this is a very good sign for your relationship.



Sign 2: He hangs out with you on weekends.

Saturday and Sunday are special times for free men. They always make plans for these days to have a good time.

After a working week, I want to really relax and unwind.

So, if a man is not very interested in a certain girl, he would rather spend this time with his buddies.

But when a man asks you what you will do on Saturday and Sunday evenings, he is clearly interested in you, he is interested in communicating with you.

If he is going to spend this time with you, then he knows that this time is guaranteed to go well.

If you want to spend the whole weekend with him, he is really in love with you.


Sign 3. He begins to make life plans with you (he includes you in his life).

When a guy calls you or texts you, it means he really enjoys spending time with you.

If he invites you somewhere to spend time together, he really wants to see you.

If a man only wants sex, he will invite you to a hotel or rent an apartment.

But if a man invites you to a movie, to a concert, or just for a walk, he really wants to be with you and see you.

If a man asks you about your plans for the next day, week, holidays, summer - this is a sign that he is interested in you, that he is in love with you.

And he wants to make sure that you include him in your plans and spend time with him before you have anything else planned.



Sign 4. He wants to touch you and hug you.

If the man you are dating likes to touch you, for example, on your hands when talking, on your hair and face when kissing, this is a sign that he is in love with you.

Men are always ready to hug the women they love.

All men have sex, but they are affectionate and gentle only with the women they love.

A man who meets for sex will never stroke a woman’s hair or kiss her, he will not whisper tender words to her.

A man who meets a woman just for sex will try to leave after it; heart-to-heart conversations are not always included in the meeting program.

But if you spent the night with a man and in the morning he hugs you, if in the morning he is as gentle and affectionate as he was at night, this is a very good sign for your relationship.

This is a sign that this man is in love with you!

Sign 5. A man is jealous of you.

If a man is in love with you, then he will want to be the best for you.

And any comparison with other men that is not in his favor will make him angry.

He may also be angry with your male friends or any men you greet on the street.

Sign 6. He introduces you to his friends and parents.

A man is never afraid to show a woman to his family and friends if he is happy with her.

And if he introduces you to his friends, that's a good sign.

If he introduces you to his family, that's great!

This means that he really appreciates you and is in love with you, and he wants everyone to know it.

It is difficult for a man to bring just any girl to his home.

So, if he introduces you to his family and circle of friends, and does everything to make them like you and you, he is in love with you.

If these signs are not present for a long time, then perhaps you need to talk to your man about his intentions.

These signs will not immediately appear in his behavior. This takes time.

And if you don’t rush a man, don’t reproach him for not being in too much of a hurry to trust you, but if you simply love him and enjoy communicating with him, then everything will end very well!

P.S. These, unfortunately, are not signs that a man will marry a woman, although everything is possible in our world......

At all times, the relationship between a man and a woman was difficult and resembled a kind of game.

It’s the same today – boys and girls are not used to talking directly about their feelings, intentions, or simply desires.

And this happens not only because it is not customary to talk about such things directly, but also for such a simple reason that men themselves are often not sure of what they want and what they feel. However, human psychology is such that gestures, glances, and behavior can reveal hidden thoughts.

Therefore, a sufficiently attentive and observant girl will always be able to guess that the guy is not indifferent to her. And words are often completely unnecessary for this.

How can you reliably understand that a man wants you? Especially if he doesn’t show it in any way and doesn’t talk about his hidden desires?

Simple signs will say everything for him!

There are simple actions that will definitely reveal a man's desires. Just don’t confuse lust with falling in love - such a misconception often confuses women and girls.

If a man really wants a woman, this means that she attracted him with her sexuality, attractiveness, she attracts him and makes him dream, be in sweet fantasies.

But this does not mean at all that the man is in love, has some serious feelings and wants to be with this girl! Perhaps this will come later, but sexual lust often goes away after an intimate relationship.

However, a wise woman knows how to turn a man's desire correctly. And if you use your feminine power correctly, you can achieve a lot from your lover.

Of course, if you give yourself to a man right away, then you are unlikely to get anything other than fleeting pleasure. And if you show cunning and intelligence, you can really tie him to yourself and build a good, strong relationship.

But to do this, it’s worth learning to recognize the signs that indicate male desires. Let's figure out how to understand that a man really wants a woman?

  • He behaves differently with the young lady he likes than with others.
  • His gaze is literally “magnetically” drawn to her.
  • He gives compliments and shows other signs of attention.
  • The man is clearly trying to look good when meeting.
  • He is looking for a reason to touch unobtrusively, to be closer, to smell the woman.
  • In a general company, this man tries to stand out from others.

There are many more signs, but these are the most obvious. From them you can unmistakably understand that your friend is clearly experiencing attraction. Let's consider each sign separately.

Special treatment is a sure sign!

When communicating with a man in a company, it is easy to notice if he sets you apart from the rest. Pay close attention to how he communicates with other representatives of your sex - his intonation, speech, expressions, his gestures, where his eyes look.

Therefore, compare these signs with the same ones, but in relation to you. If they are clearly different, you can draw conclusions.

Look at his gestures. As a rule, during a conversation, a man’s hands are at the level of his stomach or chest.

And when he talks to a woman he really wants, all his gestures will be concentrated in the pelvic area (if he is sitting). This is psychosomatics, and you can’t argue with it: gestures reveal inner desires and thoughts.

A man can also make involuntary movements with his hips or knees, this happens very naturally and is almost imperceptible to him. And it is the surest sign that in his mind he is already making passionate love with you.

The man's speech and voice will also be different. Listen to how he talks to other ladies and compare. If in a conversation with you he tries to be more polite, his voice is softer and quieter, this is also a clear sign of his attraction to you.

The eyes will tell everything!

If a man looks at your lips, neck, chest, legs during a conversation, it is obvious that he wants you. Moreover, such views are most often not intentional.

This is how the stronger sex works - his gaze is simply attracted by attractive parts of the female body, there is nothing to be done! So watch your eyes, they can say a lot!

And this is especially noticeable if you are on the sidelines. When a man is passionate about a woman, he will glance at her every few seconds.

When in general company, step aside and try to observe. While he is busy with some of his own affairs or, for example, talking with someone, he will periodically glance in your direction.

If you work together, this is especially easy to notice: such a man will look at your legs, high-heeled shoes, and breasts from time to time. When talking about business or something abstract, he will not be focused enough, and it will not be difficult to understand this from his eyes.

Signs of obvious attention

In fact, it’s not difficult to understand whether a man wants you. He won't hide it too much.

It is important for women not to show their sympathy and to be modest, mysterious, intriguing and making men suffer in ignorance. But the stronger sex is structured differently - its representatives are usually very direct, open and persistent.

Most likely, the man will begin to show signs of attention, because he doesn’t just want a woman - he certainly thinks about how to get her. And to achieve this, you need to persistently look after her, give nice gifts and flowers, say beautiful compliments, and so on.

The presence of sexual lust will make him choose special gifts and say special words. This will be different from romantic youthful impulses, and will certainly have subtle sexual overtones. This way you can reliably and accurately understand what’s on your gentleman’s mind.

If he presented you with sexy lingerie, a peignoir or a robe, this is already an open offer, and not even a hint. But this rarely happens, more often a man who wants a woman gives her very cute trinkets - soft bears, cute jewelry, bouquets and sweets.

Suddenly he became so beautiful...

Every man understands perfectly well that in order for you to fall into his strong arms, he must be attractive.

So he suddenly transforms - he puts on fresh shirts, he always starts to smell nice, and you can no longer remember when he was unshaven.

Appearance will give you a direct answer - if he always looks neat and fresh when going to meet you, it is likely that he is attracted and hopes to get you.

Hands reach out like a magnet...

For every man, the female body is an object of admiration. And if a man wants you, then first of all he will experience an irresistible desire to touch you. It is very easy to distinguish simple, friendly touches from those that carry sexual overtones.

If his touches are gentle, very light, often seemingly random, this is a clear sign of sexual desire.

It is also worth knowing the places to which men's hands are drawn. This place is slightly below the waist (a well-mannered man is unlikely to grab your buttocks, although he will certainly have such a desire), hair and neck, face, wrists, hips, knees, legs.

Also, men are always very aroused by the smell of women. Therefore, you will be able to notice that a man is trying to smell you - say something in your ear, while inhaling the smell of your hair, kiss you, inhale the aroma of perfume.

He's better than the rest!

If you are with the man you have chosen in a common company, and there are other representatives of his sex, then he will clearly try to be better than the rest.

Men by nature are leaders, conquerors, it is very important for them to be first. So he will try with all his might to be much better than others in order to achieve your favor.

In general, it is not difficult for a woman to determine that a man really wants her. Everything about him betrays this desire: his eyes become clouded, his gaze wanders and cannot stop at your eyes, he is a little nervous, pays obvious attention and seems to be watching you like a predatory animal.

Even the most modest and timid guy will not be able to hide his desire. It is too strong, and one way or another it will still be manifested.

Another thing is how to use this knowledge. A woman is born to be admired, to be an object of desire and dreams.

But at the same time, you should remain a woman - behave with dignity and not vulgarly, do not forget about modesty and manners. Then the man will not only experience a strong sexual desire, but also want something much more...
Author: Vasilina Serova

Falling in love is a wonderful flight of the soul, it is a time of crazy actions and romantic encounters. This is the time when the whole world begins to revolve only around your loved one. A woman in love certainly wants to know how seriously her chosen one takes her and whether his feelings towards her are strong. Therefore, a woman tries to catch any signs of a man’s love, in words, actions and deeds.

Smiles, laughs and jokes. When a person is in love, both a man and a woman, he constantly walks around in a very good mood, the whole world makes him happy, so he jokes a lot, laughs and even just smiles. At the same time, the eyes emit all the light of the feeling that he experiences. Life becomes easy, all problems can be solved and in this state nothing spoils a man’s excellent mood for a long time. All unpleasant situations are resolved with humor, fun, easily and quickly.

Looking for a meeting. What does a man in love do when there is some distance between him and his beloved? Of course, a man will be looking for a meeting, any contact, which can be just a glance or a “random” encounter in a certain place, for example, at home, office or even in a store. A man becomes very inventive and constantly finds a reason to approach a woman, talk to her, touch her and in every possible way demonstrate to her that he is not indifferent to her. If a man very often catches a woman’s eye and at the same time looks at her with an eloquent gaze, then it’s worth thinking about whether all these meetings are really as random as it seems at first glance.

He lets you into his territory. The man is the owner, so he is extremely intolerant of intrusion into his territory. If a man let a woman into his house, offered to live together or just meet with him, then this is already a very big step in the relationship, which indicates that the man clearly has a serious relationship with this lady.

Looks after appearance. A man is a slightly matured child, so his actions are sometimes very similar to the actions of teenagers. This is what a guy does when he loves or just really likes a certain girl? The very first thing he tries to please her, so he chooses clothes more carefully, monitors the cleanliness of his shoes, hairstyle and appearance in general. After all, it is very important for him to make a good impression on the lady of his heart, so that she notices him and distinguishes him from the crowd of other men.

Shows concern. If a guy loves his chosen one very much, then the manifestation of care will be felt in every gesture. He will always offer his hand when exiting public transport, pull up a chair, and lead you not just to the house or entrance, but to the door. The guy will be sincerely interested in his girlfriend's affairs, how her day went, if anyone upset her, if she has any problems that he can solve. He will be interested in his girlfriend’s social circle, her parents and friends. He will want to share interests or hobbies, maybe not completely; embroidery or cooking is unlikely to interest a guy, but the guy will definitely show a lively, sincere interest in these things, because his girlfriend is passionate about this.

If a guy starts introducing a girl to his friends and relatives, then this is a clear sign that he is serious about her. And if at the same time, a guy can make sacrifices, for example, not go somewhere with friends, but spend this time with his beloved, then such behavior cannot be called anything other than a manifestation of love.

The only way you can truly understand whether a man is in love or not is to feel it with your wise feminine heart. Women's intuition is very well developed, and if you trust your feelings, throw away unnecessary worries and worries, then your heart will certainly tell you the most correct answer.

Incredible facts

Everything is not as difficult as you think.

Many women make guesses, trying to understand why a man doesn’t call or write.

Despite the obstacles that a woman thinks may prevent a man from taking the initiative, the real reason is that he doesn’t like you enough. This must be understood immediately and forever.

He's not shy. You don't scare him. And he has no problems with self-esteem.

If a man is interested, no distance will stand in his way. But if he's not interested in you, you could live in the apartment next door and it would be too far for him.

How to understand that a man likes you


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A man has a strong desire to take initiative in relationships. This is part of demonstrating his masculinity. He wants to get what he wants.

The man loves the chase. Believe me, when he sees what he wants, he starts chasing it. If the man you like is not pursuing you, he is not interested in you.

Men can come up with thousands of excuses why they don't want to pursue a woman. They can say anything, often beat around the bush so as not to hurt her feelings, and not directly say that he is not interested.


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He may say that he is busy, that he is overwhelmed at work, that he has a lot of other things to do, he may even simply disappear from your life.

He can be very handsome, and his smile will drive you crazy. He may open the door for you and even ask you out on a few dates.

But what about those strange messages that you don't know how to interpret? What about those times when you were trying to figure out what you did wrong and why he disappeared for a while?

How does a loving man behave?


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Stop chasing someone who isn't willing to make time for you, who doesn't bother to talk to you. The moment you start to doubt whether you matter to him, you need to stop communicating with him.

Don't become a woman who allows men to play with her mind, feelings and body. A woman should be confident enough in herself, know her worth and not waste time waiting for a man who is not ready to achieve her.

This may seem old-fashioned to you, but think about this. A man shows himself when he meets you, when he communicates, courtes and tries to impress you.


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A real man will pursue you. He will motivate you to be better, he will admire you and your shortcomings. He won't use them against you when he's angry or annoyed, like an immature boy would. He will respect you no matter what.

He will help you get closer to your goals because he wants you to succeed. He wants you to be happy.

A real man does not play with feelings like with a toy, and will not ask you out only when it is convenient for him.


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We all get busy, but if he really cares about you, he'll make time for you and won't try to squeeze you in when he has nothing better to do.

Be with the man who shows his interest, who doesn't make you doubt or rack your brains, and for whom you will be a priority.

Of course, loneliness is difficult, but waiting for someone who is not interested in you can be even more painful. Let time do its work. And while you are waiting for him, love yourself with all your heart, so that a truly brave man will want to pursue you.