Perhaps every self-respecting man wants to see a wise woman next to him, someone who would not be ashamed to show to friends and parents, with whom it would be fun and interesting. She must certainly be affectionate and seductive, sweet and attractive. Why do I attribute all these qualities to a wise woman, because the concept of “wisdom” has a slightly different meaning, you say? And you'll be right.

The fact is that women's wisdom is very specific. And if in the usual understanding, and here I am guided by V.I. Dahl’s dictionary, wisdom is the property of the wise: wisdom, the combination of truth and goodness, the highest truth, the fusion of love and truth, the highest state of mental and. A woman’s wisdom is a kind of art of being loved and keeping a worthy man near her, surrounding him with affection, care and love.

A wise woman knows that it is better not to argue with a man, otherwise his anger cannot be avoided. She also knows that you shouldn’t be more successful than your man, otherwise his pride will suffer, and his strong belief in his dominance will be undermined. It is not without reason that they say that a woman’s strength is in her weakness. Men are happy to help and protect a fragile and, perhaps, partly naive woman, but they often bypass successful career women. Whatever you say, it has always been this way, and I am sure that it will continue to be so, because the laws of nature are the most unshakable.

There is one wisdom that every wise woman should keep in mind (and the tautology, please note, is quite appropriate here). I learned this wisdom, hidden from me for some time, just a couple of years ago, I read it in the work of a psychologist. Its essence is ridiculously simple, because it is absolutely logical. So, wisdom: while a man is in love with one woman, he simply cannot fall in love with another!

I think that each of us should remember this. How much unnecessary energy we sometimes spend on suspicions and fears, on scenes of causeless jealousy, offending the feelings of our beloved man and forcing him to justify himself. But all these forces could have been used to strengthen the fortress, and not to an empty war with an invisible and not yet existing enemy. By strength, I, of course, mean your man’s feelings for you. In summary, a woman’s strength is not only in her weakness, but also in knowledge.

Instead of racking your brains and constantly being afraid that your beloved will begin to show signs of attention to another girl, it is better to remember this wisdom. If a man is in love with you (love also counts, because falling in love implies infatuation with someone, and love is nothing more than increased infatuation), then for him there are no other women besides you, at least, no women like you. It turns out that your man in love sees and desires only you.

In this case, if you want to keep everything as it is, stop being afraid and worrying, just be a muse and an object of desire for your man. If you managed to make him fall in love with you, then it’s not for me to tell you what you need to do for this. By the way, for this purpose you can listen to your man. They usually tend to talk about their desires, about what they would like to see in you. That's all science =)

Of course, the time in which we live dictates its own conditions, and much of what is written above can be attributed to the concepts of the “last century.” But love and happiness existed and will always exist. And it doesn’t matter whether you are a fragile young lady or an iron lady, the main thing is that love and happiness will certainly find you!

Today we will talk about real wisdom, not only female, but also male, and about wisdom in general. Well, most importantly, you will understand what true female wisdom is expressed in a relationship with a man, and in general wise behavior in life, because we hear this phrase so often, but we cannot say for sure what a wise woman she really is.

So, all traditions of worldview and education of the world have two paths: external and internal. External path is the way to achieve visible results. Such actions are directed outward towards external success. People who succeed in this are called smart.

The internal path represents actions to achieve an internal result, which may not be noticeable from the outside, but is realized upon deeper consideration. And in fact, it can be an order of magnitude more effective than the first way. Therefore, people who more often use the internal path of development are called wise.

What is the mistake of modern women in relationships with men?

And the mistake of most modern women in relationships with men is usually that they throw all their strength into achieving external results.

How else? The competition for a good man among unwise women is now prohibitive, and therefore the body must be in order. Today's fashion actually makes women half naked and this is considered normal.

Men also add fuel to the fire by running after long legs, motivating women to further develop the external path. Only the number of unhappy women is growing exponentially. Everywhere you hear that there are no normal men, but on your avatar you definitely need to emphasize some part of the body, not realizing that normal men don’t fall for it.

True, it is worth noting that there are no “normal” men, and “not normal” ones either. A man becomes either one or the other in accordance with the woman who is present near him.

Why does a man run away after the first sex?

Women's wisdom in relationships with men is that a woman who places emphasis on the external path can only arouse lust in a man. But only. And here you need to understand that for men, sexual intercourse (in the absence of internal intimacy) is no different from the behavior of an animal.

If we consider sex symbolically for a man, then ejaculation can be compared to marking territory in animals, which is known to be carried out by males. As soon as a man cums, he feels that this territory is his. He needs to go further to expand his domain. But this is only if the woman cannot penetrate his heart.

The same woman who grabs not a man’s penis, but his soul, automatically erases other women from a man’s consciousness. Now all the strength of a man is directed towards achieving heights only to bring his trophies for his queen. He no longer sees other women; they cannot intoxicate him with their “external” beauty.

You need to understand that as soon as a man meets an internally developed woman, he immediately becomes normal. But here’s the problem. The inner path for women today is a sealed secret.

The main thing for a wise woman is to understand herself

The idea of ​​the inner path for women is an evolution of understanding oneself as a woman. The cult of external beauty forces women to spend all their energy on achieving external results, both in the body (clothes, cosmetics, plastic surgery, etc.) and in relationships (the fanatical desire to get married is also an external attribute).

This behavior does not allow a woman to get to know herself more deeply, because this is the main thing that a woman who wants to get long-term family happiness, which is incredibly rare in our time, should do first.

The inner and wise path for women precisely implies a deep awareness of oneself as a woman. This is an awareness of your body and your sexuality and your feminine power, which can manifest itself in a thousand different ways, and not just as a way to “pull towards yourself.”

By developing inner strength, a wise woman becomes attractive at the level of consciousness, at the level of the soul. If a man begins to feel this, then he automatically feels his masculine spirit. He begins to want to perform feats for the sake of his beloved and accomplishes them. Such a woman is doomed to happiness in her personal life and she is the one who can be called a truly wise wife.

Can a girl not give energy to a man?

But many women may see in this note excessive pickiness towards the weaker sex. Like, the author is a man, he puts all the responsibility on women. After all, if men were immediately strong and responsible, then women would develop their inner selves next to such men.

Yes, there are such examples. Next to a strong man who has revealed his spirit, a woman immediately stops waving her mental penis, which she so needs in female competition, and becomes a weak, feminine, real woman.

She, like an ideal wife, follows her man even to hell, she is a support and support and does everything that a man wants from her. She becomes incredibly happy and finally feels her true nature. But there is one thing: a man, as a rule, weakens next to such a woman who may look perfect, but she herself does not invest her energy in this relationship, but throws all responsibility onto his shoulders.

A woman should be happy without a man

I call these women “Shadow Woman.” These are women who realize themselves only through the energy of a man. Her happiness is her man. But she is only his shadow. Without him, she is in constant sadness and loneliness. All her inner wealth disappears along with the man if he decides to leave her. All her power evaporates like moisture under the scorching sun.

No one needs her without her strength. But the fact of the matter is that this is not her strength. She never had one. She never had inner wealth, and therefore she no longer shines without her man. You could say she had potential, but it was illuminated by the light of a man. And so she casts his shadow.

But if a woman knows herself internally, if she feels her nature and knows how to use it, then firstly, not a single man will leave such a woman, and secondly, the best representatives of the male sex will be ready to rip each other’s throats out in order to bring everything The world is at the feet of such a woman.

Of course, there are also men of the shadow, whose strength increases only with a woman nearby, but without a wise woman, of whom there are few today, they are an empty place.

Why is a happy family impossible without female wisdom?

So who is to blame for their unhappy personal life, men or women? The correct answer is both. This is the price of the outer path. Look!!! He has a cool business and a car worth five million rubles, and she has a butt like Jennifer Lopez and size 5 breasts!!!

Enough for you, gentlemen. The external form only creates blood flow to the genitals. Therefore, do not be surprised if your whole life takes you there with the same organs.

Inner and outer wisdom

Remember the inner path of female and male wisdom brings much more happiness, and happiness itself can last much longer. In general, these two paths apply to everything around.

You can do fitness and create a strong and beautiful body, but external beauty does not make you resistant to diseases, although a trained person has an advantage over an untrained one. Or you can improve your health, which will not necessarily lead you to a beautiful body, but not a single disease can take over your body (for example, Porfiry Ivanov).

You can play the violin to achieve fame and skill, or you can use musical instruments to meditate and understand your spiritual nature.

So, everything in this world is dual and can be expressed both externally and internally. And since the external path is faster in achieving results, since this path is cultivated by the existing system, this plays a cruel joke in the transformation of sexual energy in women and men.

But don’t chase what is external and easier; real female wisdom works wonders in relationships with a man. To love with the heart, this heart must be realized. Of course, you can do this at the expense of others, brazenly exploiting each of your partners.

But my experience has shown me that the only way to find your heart is to truly want to find it. And one day, you will hear its beating and as soon as this happens, you will hear the heart of someone who will sound in unison with you. And this is truly wonderful.

I sincerely wish you to hear your own rhythm. Peace to you.

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Thus, if a smart woman wants to be happy, she must be a little wiser than her mind. I don’t understand how I said this, but it’s a very correct thought. There is intelligence, and there is wisdom. Smart people are very often unhappy. But there are no unhappy sages." Irina Bogushevskaya.

We have forgotten how to love, we do not hear our hearts and do not follow our feelings. We stopped being women, we became smart. We do not use our strength, but go to someone else’s territory and try to win there. Defeat a man on his territory. We are stupid after all.

Our feminine power is the power of feelings, the power of our heart, the power of love. This is our territory, and we are in a fog on it.

If a woman wants to be happy, she must be wiser than her mind. The mind feeds pride, which strives to prove its superiority. But where have you seen a conquered people love their enslaver? If you want love from a man in all its manifestations, do not try to defeat him.

A woman's strength is in her wisdom. Wisdom does not come from the head, it comes from the heart.
A wise woman is a loving woman. A wise woman does not fight, she follows her nature - she gives a man her femininity and her love.
Love awakens strength in a man and creates fertile ground for this strength to find peaceful use. A man gifted with the love of a woman is a creator, a creator.

In general, there lives a great creator in every man. But for this creator to show himself in all his greatness, he needs an inspiration. Do you want to inspire a man by trying to force him to do your will? Empty. Give him love. And then you will see what he is capable of.

Our whole life is literally permeated with relationships. We are content, happy and at ease when we manage to get along with others. Most people would agree that the relationship area is a battlefield for them.

Why does this happen? Because we often treat other people as if they owe us something. We try in one way or another to get attention, love, significance, support from them, not realizing that war is the least conducive to this.

Every woman dreams of living with a real man, by “Real” I mean a man who has sufficient inner strength. Because she subconsciously understands that it is with such a man that she will feel good, reliable, and safe. But next to such a man you need to be a real woman - that is, be able to respect and accept his masculine strength in him.

And this is precisely what women for the most part do not know how to do. They treat male power as a wild, unbroken stallion that must be ridden and tamed, in extreme cases hobbled, and if that doesn’t work, then its legs must be broken so as not to run away.
The paradox is that it is male power that attracts us, but it is precisely this that we encroach on when we try to impose our will on a man in a relationship.

We women are capable of both awakening strength in men and depriving them of it. But only a few know how to awaken. And most women succeed in destroying it. Many women go to war with men to get their desires from them. They use intelligence, cunning, and the art of manipulation. In some cases, they even manage to achieve something: over the long years of the “Siege”, they break the will of a man, instill in him thoughts of his weakness and worthlessness and force him to dance to their tune.

The more inner freedom a man has, the stronger he is. But it is his freedom that haunts us. We want him to behave like a man, to be able to take responsibility for his actions, and at the same time we strive to control him, we tell him what to do, we criticize his decisions. We are trying to raise him as if he were not a man, but a small child who needs close attention. But even a child needs a sufficient degree of freedom and trust from his parents for normal growth and development.

So what are you and I, dear women, doing? We do not know how to trust men, we do not respect their selfhood in them, we do not recognize their right to freedom of choice, we do not protect their significance. In fact, we simply do not know how to love them.

In adult life, flirting, as a way to win over a man, works successfully in the first stage of a relationship. To be liked is wonderful. A woman should be able to please, it is inherent in nature, and realizing this ability is quite natural. But this is not enough for the normal development of relationships. It is necessary to be able to build these relationships correctly. And this is precisely what most women do not know how to do.

As a child, it was enough to just be nice and like your uncles to get what you wanted. And now the girl has grown up and does not understand why this method no longer works.
Physically she became an adult woman, but her consciousness in many ways remained childish. And, not getting what she wants, she tries to get her way, just as children get it from their parents - by putting pressure on them, usually by crying. But adult women expand their arsenal of manipulations and find various ways to force a man to fulfill their desires. That is, to subordinate them to your will. Sort of trainers.

By the way, the stronger a man is, the more difficult it is to force him to obey. So rejoice if you have not yet succeeded: if your man is still holding on, it means that you have not yet trampled on his selfhood.

In general, the problem of many women is that they simply do not understand what the basis of a harmonious relationship is, mistakenly taking the ability to force a man to obey as a basis.

But I often see women for whom the highest virtue is to force a man to follow their will. And this is nothing more than a manifestation of pride. The ego swells with importance, but the heart does not experience any joy. And even vice versa. And if women listened to their hearts more often, they would have stopped this behavior long ago.

A man does not need to be forced. For a man, it is the greatest joy to take care of a woman and do everything to make her feel happy next to him. This is how a man realizes his masculinity, because he himself is interested in doing for a woman what she dreams of. When a woman follows her nature, and does not force or impose her will, then in response a man follows his nature - he gives the woman attention, care and support. That is, exactly what women are trying to achieve through manipulation, while destroying both male significance and the relationship itself.

Think about what your priorities are: good harmonious relationships or the desire to assert your power over someone else’s will? But power does not bring happiness. Don't even flatter yourself about this. And good relationships are happiness in themselves. If you want to live a happy life, change your tactics. Forcing someone to do something is a direct path to conflicts and quarrels. Learn to respect the will of another person as well as your own.

What prevents us from respecting the Will of men? Why do we think that we know better how to behave, what to do and what to be like? Women are simply trying to prove to themselves and men that they are smarter. True, they often do not realize this desire within themselves. But the attempt to prove that we are right and impose our will on other people in itself indicates that we consider ourselves smarter than them. Rarely does anyone say this to their face, but our actions will speak for us.

Learn to love, learn to be a woman, learn to be a wise loving woman. This is the key to the happy life that each of you dreams of!

Men! Our love helps them spread their wings, and our dislike cuts them off. The success of our relationship depends on what of this we give to a man. I wish you wisdom in your choice. wisdom brings happiness. clever woman. does this happen?

How to become a wise woman in relationships with men

Don’t think that all wise women find everything in life easy and lucky in everything. On the contrary - knowing life “inside out”, they are the ones who do not “throw themselves into the pool headlong”: they are cautious, do not always trust people, if they feel deception and falsehood, they do not forgive what they could easily forgive before their wisdom.

It's the same in love:

Such a woman does not allow gigolos and scammers into her life, and therefore the number of her “fans” is reduced significantly.

An unfaithful spouse or boyfriend is quickly “figured out”: a wise woman will see right through the traitor, no matter how he turns out.

She will not marry thoughtlessly, just for the sake of a wedding dress and a man next to her, if she has already had unsuccessful marriages behind her.

It is sometimes difficult for men themselves to live with such an “all-seeing” woman, and they prefer more down-to-earth passions.

A wise woman takes off her rose-colored glasses, although she does not see the world in dark colors: she is still an incorrigible optimist and, if she is lonely, she does not lose hope of finding her man. And in the process of searching, he finds little joys for himself.

Although she treats joys with caution: she has already weeded out those friends in whom she was mistaken, and who turned out to be “Judas”, her interests have changed, and she treats money very sparingly - she lives within her means.

She does not take risks thoughtlessly, and any training in personal growth and life wisdom is alien to her. Her main coach is her destiny and independent work on mistakes. If she needs to gain some additional knowledge, she would rather read the wise classics.

How does such a woman find the strength to be happy, despite the fact that she had to “pull bumps” and analyze her mistakes? But read the article How to live happily and enjoy life - and you will understand a lot.

Gaining wisdom is a great, one might even say, great achievement. And not every person, even at a very advanced age, can boast of it. Wisdom is a value that comes to a person over the years. It is impossible to be young and wise. But age itself does not make a person wise. We must strive for wisdom, and not just wait for it. Wisdom is not just knowledge, experience, prudence - it is, first of all, calmness, the absence of unnecessary emotions that overshadow reason.

A wise person is a calm person, he looks at life with an understanding of its meaning. He knows how to accept life as it is, seeing a certain purpose in everything that happens in it. In youth, when people have all their senses heightened, when they often react to everything that happens in their lives quite impulsively and very rarely think about what is happening - they are very far from wisdom, because they lack the calm and poise that comes with age. Feelings, emotions, heightened instincts, and of course the lack of necessary knowledge and experience - all this prevents people from being wise. In this article I will tell you how people whom I personally consider very wise, in their own words, acquired this great value.

This is a wise woman. All the signs of a wise woman

Flexibility of thinking. A woman can psychologically analyze her actions and the actions of other people, and also logically calculate all possible actions and developments of events a hundred steps ahead.

Intuition. A woman has a kind of sixth sense, but there is no mysticism in this: sometimes the “déjà vu” effect is just triggered - what has already happened in life and was a mistake can happen again with a negative connotation. Well, that is, the same rake.

Empathy. This is the ability to feel the emotions and experiences of another person. There is also nothing supernatural or extrasensory in this, and it is not necessary to study physiognomy for this. It is almost impossible for a wise woman to lie - she will sense the falseness.

Tact. A wise woman will never “cut the truth” if it hurts a good person. She is afraid of offending a person and speaking cynically. She will be able to find the right words to calm the person down.

Life experience. But here is a whole storehouse of wisdom. It is the path of life, with all the mistakes, love, betrayal, ups and downs, joys and failures, that gives so many lessons that it is simply impossible to teach it in any university.

There are women in whose character self-love dominates to such a strong degree that they confiscate any praise, no matter who it is said about, for their own benefit. (G. Fielding)

A woman may sometimes confess her sins, but I have never known one who would confess her weaknesses. (B. Shaw)

For a woman, being completely sincere is the same as appearing in public without a dress. (Stendhal)

I sought wisdom and found that a woman whose heart is like a snare and whose hands are like snares is more terrible than death. (Solomon)

A frivolous woman will deceive you frivolously, and a serious woman will deceive you seriously. (A. Rochefort)

A woman always sympathizes with a wound that was not inflicted by her.

Intuition is an amazing instinct that tells a woman that she is right, regardless of whether she is right or wrong.

A woman is a human being who dresses, talks and undresses.

If a woman hates you, it means she loved you, loves you or will love you.

First, a woman will get something into her head, and then complain that her head is splitting.

A man must help a woman to be weak; she can be strong without him.

Both men and women are right when they do not trust women.

No matter how badly men think about women, every woman thinks even worse about them. (Sébastien Chamfort)

You will never find a woman without a ready answer, unless she ends up without a tongue. (W. Shakespeare)

Women only reveal that they have intelligence by often losing it (V.O. Klyuchevsky)

A woman does not cheat in two cases: if she believes that her man is the best, or if she believes that they are all the same.

A woman loves to win over a man who belongs to another.

Pride is a luxury that a woman in love cannot afford.

The robbers demand your purse or your life, the women demand both.

Women do not need to be understood, they need to be loved. (O. Wilde)

"What is the wisdom of a woman?" -

once I asked
An old lady, having met a kind one.
And she spoke quietly,
Having sincerely told me your truth.

Each of us has our own opinions on everything.
Your question is not so simple.
But why do we need discussions?
You asked me - my answer is:

Be able to understand, accept and forgive a lot.
No matter how difficult fate is -
You must remain a beautiful woman.
And believe in life, and love life!

Patience and love, attention and affection
Everything a wise woman should have.
- Tell me, grandma, why should I endure everything?
- You want to be wise, you have to sweat!

How can I tolerate it when he is not with me?
"Having learned that he is with someone else,
give it back with love and forgiveness,
After all, he’s not yours anyway!

I know, honey, you're not laughing.
Calm your anger, it is just a hindrance.
And the stronger the love, it all hurts too much...
But tell yourself, “Enough!”

You can't reopen a wound so often
You torture yourself and only add a burden.
But don’t even try to harm him,
Let time judge everything...

Don't be angry at your sinful fate
And just to have someone to fight with.
After all, everyone will answer himself and in full,
When it turns out to be at God's court.

What is the wisdom of a woman?
Be yourself!
I wish you goodness and happiness to everyone!"

The concept of a “wise woman” is different from the concept of a “smart woman”. After all, a wise woman understands that there are situations when there is no need to be smart at all (in any case, try not to show off your mental abilities - leave this for achieving career heights).

Ancient philosophers said - “women are smart and cunning by nature, and men are taught by reading a book.”

To skillfully guide a man’s actions, you should not resort to the advice of healers or girlfriends. Simple things that women sometimes don’t think about will help you achieve the desired result.

So, what kind of wise woman is she, what is her wisdom, how to become wise in a relationship with a man and live a happy life.

1. Choosing the right man

Often girls (especially young and inexperienced) are attracted to gentlemen who cannot be influenced. Usually they are very charming, cheerful, give girls beautiful compliments, and present good gifts. But attempts to set such individuals in a serious mood do not bring the desired result. Initially, a wise woman chooses the right man, who does not need to be changed, just guided a little - very subtly and not intrusively.

2. Calm, only calm

A wise woman preserves peace in the home, a pleasant atmosphere in communication, does not provoke and avoids emotionally tense environments. Creates a comfortable microclimate, peace in family relationships, so that all household members want to go home. We also include offense here - an offended woman cannot be wise.

3. Patience and endurance

You flirt with a man and see his interest, but he himself does not take any measures. Be patient, wait, give him the opportunity to make a decision and take the first step, all you need to do is “give the green light.” Once you make a decision for him, you will be forced to do it forever. Consider whether this is necessary. A wise woman makes sure that her man is at his best, knows how to take responsibility, and at his own request.

4. Beauty is a terrible force

A wise woman always works on her appearance, takes care of herself, and chooses the right clothes. She doesn’t choose one that is too revealing, with deep necklines and other vulgar details. Remember: in everything you need to observe moderation. Also with makeup, it should not be flashy, but its complete absence is undesirable. A man should like what he sees. Wisdom is needed in everything.

5. Make up, make up, make up

You quarreled and both fell silent. It’s hard for you to bear the silence, it starts to get annoying, and you decide to go ahead and make peace. Remember: during silence, men calm down, at least most of them. Repeat to yourself: “Now he is silent and calms down, I also calm down.” This will help prevent both of you from causing trouble in the heat of the moment, and you won’t delete his favorite game on the computer or hit him with a rolling pin, as was previously intended. A wise woman has the strength to wait for the moment, and then go for reconciliation.

6. Freedom

A wise woman does not take away a man's freedom. She doesn’t forbid spending time with one of her friends, and doesn’t forcefully plan his leisure time, and won’t look at him with displeasure when he comes home from work at the wrong time. Remember: you need to trust a man, respect him as a person. After all, these actions lead to the fact that he will do everything the other way around, like a small child, hide and lie even more, resulting in a conflict.

7. Lack of imperative method in colloquial speech

A wise woman will never rule over a man. Instead of the usual “Go buy some bread,” she will say: “Darling, I wanted to make cutlets, but I forgot that we ran out of bread. Could you buy it? In the meantime, I’ll prepare the other ingredients.” The goal has been achieved. And here another wonderful mechanism comes into play - a joint action that brings you together spiritually - a wise woman knows about this.

8. The weaker sex - oh, these weak strong women

A woman is designed in such a way that she often needs help. If you use this weakness correctly, you can successfully manipulate your man. As a result, a simple “Darling, please help me screw in the light bulb” will awaken in a man a feeling of pride in himself - they need him, they cannot live without him. Remember the saying “a woman’s strength is in her weakness.” Also, a wise woman always thanks her man for good deeds.

9. The path to the heart

Many women know that they shouldn’t pester a man and ask him for anything (buy a fur coat, go to the sea, etc.)… until he has had a good meal. There is one more thing to remember: you should not interrupt a man while eating, this will reduce the whole effect to “no”. It is worth making sure that the food is tasty, perhaps with a glass of wine, and that you are in a position to have a pleasant conversation, so that the answer is a definite “yes” to your desired and dear woman. Perhaps these are already feminine tricks; a wise woman is not deprived of them.

10. Sincerity and caring

A wise woman treats her man sincerely and openly, but at the same time does not forget that it is better to “chat” about many things with her friends rather than burden her beloved with unnecessary information about choosing tights. It’s better to show attention - ask how his working day was, what tasty things to cook for him. Men appreciate this wise, caring behavior.

This is how harmony is formed in the relationship between a man and a woman.

Next to a wise woman, a man is inspired to do new good deeds towards his beloved and becomes more successful. And a woman blossoms from a happy life - in caring for each other, mutual understanding and love.

The point of power is here and now - in our minds.

Our every thought literally creates our future.

We form our beliefs as children and then move through life recreating situations that fit our beliefs.

It is stupid to punish yourself at the present moment just because someone offended you a long time ago. The people who caused us suffering were just as scared as you are now. Constantly remembering your past means deliberately hurting yourself.

All the events that have taken place in your life up to now were the result of your thoughts and beliefs that came from the past.

Let go of the past with love, be grateful to it for bringing you to this realization.

If a negative thought comes to your mind, just say “Thank you for your participation.”

We must make the choice to free ourselves and forgive everyone, especially ourselves. Even though we don’t know how to forgive, we have to really want it.

As soon as a person gets sick, he needs to look in his heart for someone to forgive.

In order to change another, you must first change yourself. We need to change the way we think.

The more I hold on to any statement, the clearer it is to me that it is this statement that I need to free myself from.

Our greatest resistance comes from fear—fear of the unknown.

Your mind is your tool and you decide how to use it.

Our body talks to us all the time. If only we could take the time to listen. Every cell of the body reacts to our every thought and every word.

All our relationships with the outside world reflect our attitude towards ourselves.

You and only you are responsible for your life. You may waste time complaining about the callousness of your relatives or the oppressive atmosphere of your parents' home. By doing this, you maintain the image of yourself as a hapless martyr and victim. This approach is possible, however, if you do not abandon it, you will not see happiness in life.

Self-criticism is the activation of your ego. You have so trained your mind to constantly humiliate yourself and resist change that it is now simply difficult for you not to pay attention to what it tells you.

…Let these thoughts calmly pass through your consciousness, they have no power over you, of course, provided that you do not choose them for yourself. Such thoughts are your resistance to change. Our thoughts have no power over us until we submit ourselves to them.

Guilt has nothing to do with the events that actually happened.

No matter what stage of life you are in, what you have contributed to it, or what is happening in it, you always do the best you can - at your current level of understanding, knowledge and awareness.

Finding faith is an instant process, a leap into nowhere. You just need to take it and trust yourself to the Inner Power associated with the Universal Mind.

I believe that I have all the necessary knowledge, I believe that I am taken care of, even if I do not control the situation.

I am one with the force that created me. I'm safe. In my world everything is fine.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.

All so-called problems are nothing more than an opportunity given to us again to change and grow.

When we love ourselves, approve of our actions and remain ourselves, our life becomes so beautiful that words cannot express it.

Self-approval and self-acceptance are the key to positive changes in our lives.

Get rid of the thoughts that make you unhappy, do things you enjoy, meet people who make you feel good.

To become the owner of all the wonderful things, you must first believe that they are possible.

Loving yourself means celebrating the very fact of your existence and being grateful to God for the gift of life.

There is still a three-year-old child inside each of us who is scared, who just wants a little love.

Love is not an external manifestation, it is always inside us! Love is the only answer to any of our problems, and the road to such a state is through forgiveness. Forgiveness dissolves resentment.

Your destiny is to be the personification of the beautiful and loving principle of life.

Our inner strength depends on how we evaluate our right to be worthy of good things in this life. “I want to free myself from the hidden desire to be unworthy. I deserve the best in life, and I give myself permission to accept it with love!”

Trust life. Wherever fate takes you, travel is necessary. You have to cross the field of life experience and check for yourself where the truth is and where the lie is. And then you can return to your inner center - a soul that has become purified and wiser.

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For centuries, men have called their women “stupid” and “foolish,” but none of them would argue with the existence of such a mysterious thing as female wisdom. It may not bring the lady leading positions in the company, but it will help her achieve balance in her love relationships. Let's figure out what women's wisdom is.

Secrets of women's wisdom

The question is, of course, an interesting one, but to answer it, you need to remember the primordial purpose of women, and it is clearly not to prove their superiority to the men around them. That is why female wisdom is useful in relationships, but will be practically useless for a career. We are not talking now about the fact that ladies cannot get ahead of men in the presidential elections, but in this case the family will certainly suffer. Therefore, the first of the secrets of female wisdom is this: know how to make the right choice in time. Since it will be very difficult to catch up. But this is only one of the laws, and what else is female wisdom?

1. A woman’s wisdom does not lie in her ability to defend her point of view in heated debates, but in her ability to avoid them. In a dispute, it is often not the truth that is born, but reasons for grievances.
2. Do you remember this popular female wisdom: “The husband is the head, and the wife is the neck”? It perfectly reflects the position of a wise woman in the family. This kind of woman will not throw scandals and hysterics in order to induce her husband to act, but will find a way to get what she wants in other ways. The pinnacle of aerobatics is to make the man sincerely believe that the initiative comes from him.
3. There is such a woman's wisdom - not to notice her husband's mistakes. Many people like to nag their spouse about salary, relationship with parents, garbage not thrown away, and for any reason. The result of such actions is disappointing - either a divorce or a henpecked husband. Wise women know this very well and instead of blaming them, they support their man. And it’s more pleasant to do something for a woman who appreciates you, and not for a brawler and hysteric.
4. Another sign of a wise woman is the ability to value and respect herself, to know everything about her true feelings and desires.
5. A wise woman will never tie her man hand and foot, claiming ownership of him. She will not demand something in return for her love, because there is no place for the market in a relationship; as soon as it appears, sincerity can be put an end to.

How to learn feminine wisdom?

It is believed that female wisdom is the knowledge of the Family, the experience accumulated by our mothers, grandmothers and great-grandmothers. Therefore, the lessons of female wisdom should not be in demand, because there is the memory of Rod. This would be so if we were aware of this connection and did not try to renounce our roots at the first opportunity. But a huge number of ladies do this, and so you end up with women who have no support Rhoda. Fortunately, it can be returned. To do this, you need to build a good relationship with your mother and resolve all misunderstandings, if there were any.

Find out whether there were any rejected women in your Family - lonely, seriously ill, drinking. If there were any, then write their names in a column, starting with your mother’s name. Now, next to each woman’s name, write something good about her. Now read everything written, thanking each woman for all the good things that she gave to Rod - life and love for her children, the necessary experience. It is important during this ritual not to judge anyone, not to feel condemnation or pride.