Everything in the world is relative and dual. We are used to division into opposites: “plus” and “minus”, “light” and “dark”, “sweet” and “salty”, “yin” and “yang” and so on…

Being born into this world, people already initially differ from each other physiologically, mentally, mentally and emotionally, everyone already has their own individual destiny and destiny. Divine nature has programmed the human race for a heterosexual division: into a man and a woman, thereby creating two opposite camps that are constantly in a state of confrontation with respect to each other. This, in turn, leads to a whole host of relationship problems. It is interesting that we note the differences for ourselves, but at the same time we do not accept them. Or, just for acceptance, it is necessary to understand this dissimilarity, understand its causes and, having understood, try to smooth out sharp corners.

Sex difference

So, the first sign of difference is sexual, then over time other differences are added to it, which, on the one hand, attract these two “camps”, or, on the other hand, simply infuriate and help to “build barricades” for conducting “combat operations” . The first differences in physiological terms appear, as it turned out, thanks to the Nobel laureate R. Sperry, already in the fourth month of the development of the boy's embryo. In his brain, there is a slowdown in the development of the right hemisphere of the brain, which commands the expression of our emotional feelings, which may be why men are initially more restrained compared to women. Perhaps the development of the brain explains the fact that the fair sex can easily get their hands on the palm in terms of expressing emotions, understanding gestures, thoughts, communication. They have more developed intuition. Using these generously offered and pledged abilities, lovely creatures achieve what they want with unconstrained ease, especially with the male half.

But the representatives of the male half of humanity have a well-developed left hemisphere, which is responsible for logical thinking. Men, as a rule, do an excellent job with the development of exact and natural sciences. They are superbly oriented on the ground, which a rare woman can boast of. It is not a problem for them to understand the functioning of this or that mechanism. But, as for the creative approach, here, alas, men are significantly inferior to their gentle rivals.

Psychology

By the way, with regard to the emotional plan, an interesting fact is observed: in fact, women, being extremely emotional natures and more prone to stress, should spend more nerves, and, consequently, be weaker in health, but to the surprise of scientists, it has long been noted the fact that their life expectancy is significantly higher than that of men by an average of 10-15 years.

Maybe they have 9 lives like cats?

It is also funny that women, paradoxically, endure pain better and in general, are generally much more resilient, patient and diligent than clever men. A fact long established by science is that the courageous half of humanity gets exhausted and gets tired much faster. But in the stronger sex, the reaction rate is incomparably higher than in the female half. Therefore, in some stressful situation, they are more likely to make the right decision, not colored by emotions. This is confirmed, for example, by numerous traffic police data, although according to the same data, women drive more carefully and calmly. On the other hand, this calmness would be preserved by them in everyday life.

Scientists have calculated

Women are 3-4 times more susceptible to depression. In this regard, the male individual has firmly defended himself with a dense shell of “healthy indifference”, which has been formed over the centuries. In addition, the behavior of men is characterized by consistency in solving urgent problems.

Men set a task and go to its implementation. But it is important to note 2 important points:

• tasks are solved one after another, and not several at once, as women can afford;
• with a direct decision for men, the result is important, or rather the speed of achieving it.

For women, the process is actually important, she is interested in details, even the smallest ones, to which a man would not even pay attention. Thus, the spheres of influence in the “kingdom” were divided as follows: a woman “rules” in the inner world (the world of experiences, emotions), and a man in the outer world (the world of actions, power). Men's understanding of the world usually occurs through external perception, that is, they perceive it as they see it, without going into the analysis of details and without conjecturing anything. A woman, on the contrary, lives with feelings, inner sensations and experiences, perceiving the world verbally, often contemplating and drawing something. Therefore, the saying: “It is better to “see” once than to listen a hundred times” refers more to a man.

For the fair sex, “ears” are an indispensable organ for a complete worldview. Maybe this feature stems from the fact that a man feels the world in a complete picture, and a woman - in detail, almost like a puzzle (but at the same time, it is not a problem for her to quickly put it together).

Mentally

The nervous system of the weaker sex is significantly different from the male half, it is more prone to overstrain, "charming creatures" change their mood and emotional state so quickly that men do not have time to switch and respond adequately to these changes in a timely manner, in particular, as we would like. woman. For strong and seasoned husbands, such mood swings are akin to a mental disorder, which not everyone can endure. For them, “gentle opponents” I think at this moment are akin to a chameleon, and during a tantrum they cause a state close to suicidal.

Women, I urge you to take a more prudent attitude towards the equally vulnerable male psyche! Nature has endowed you with the ability to switch to the “other wave” more easily, to adapt to the environment, whatever it may be. Your strong opposite has no such advantage!

In folklore, the expression has been preserved: “they live like a cat and a dog”, while a cat means the female half of the human race, and, accordingly, a dog means that their “enemy” is a man. Although, watching the animals, you can see that they get along well with each other, respecting the boundaries of the territory of each and following the "law of the jungle" - "we are of the same blood: you and me."

Maybe we should not dwell on our differences, but remember that we are all people, with our own good and bad qualities, we just need to be more attentive and respectful to each other. We must remember that together we are a great force. After all, even a coin has two sides that differ from each other, but create one whole, which is sometimes priceless.

People often expect a lot from relationships, and most importantly, that their partner will be the same as they are: have the same views, values, perceptions and behaviors. However, you cannot change the attitude and behavior of your partner if he himself is not interested in this. And the most unlikely thing is that you will change the basic characteristics of his gender.

Therefore, it is very important to understand and accept the fact that major gender differences that exist between a man and a woman - real and unchanging. You can learn to use differences to improve your relationship, not hurt it.

Are men and women really different? Let's look at the evidence in many areas of life. Please note that these results are generalized and apply to most men or women, but not all men and all women.

1. Physiological differences
In girls, the right hemisphere of the brain develops faster than in boys: this allows speech to develop faster, pronunciation, I start reading earlier, and, therefore, memory is better. Boys develop the left hemisphere of the brain faster than girls: hence visual spatial and logical skills, perceptual skills, they are the best in math, problem solving, construction and puzzle solving. Girls are more interested in playing with dolls, with soft toys and more; boys pay attention to blocks, constructors or things that can be manipulated.

2. Social impact
Infant Study:
Parents talk more to boys than to infant girls. Girls are softer and more coddled with them. Boys are rarely told that they are sweet, beautiful, little dolls, boys are told that they are strong, bold, big. Boys are required to have more physical strength than girls, and sports games are played with them more often. Girls are caressed and stroked more than boys. Before the age of two, a mother tends to communicate and admire her daughter significantly more than her son, and they have more eye contact with their daughters. Mothers vent a wide range of emotional responses to girls than to boys. When the girls showed anger, the faces of the mothers showed more disapproval than when the boys showed anger. This likely influences why girls grow up to be more smiling, more sociable, and better able to interpret emotions than boys. Fathers use "team terms" with boys more than with girls.

Differences between boy and girl are developmental: Nursery rhymes, books, and cartoons perpetuate stereotypes that portray girls as distressed, unattractive housewives, helpless pensioners, sexy heroines, and often fainting. Girls use more words of endearment than boys. Boys are more forgiven for aggressive or antisocial behavior than girls. It is acceptable for girls to act like tomboys; boys who behave like girls are given severe reprimands. Girls tend to gossip about other people; have secrets in order to strengthen friendships, wishes and needs. Boys talk about things and actions. They discuss their affairs and those who are better in this or that kind of activity. Teenage girls talk about boys, clothes, and their bodies. Teenage boys talk about sports, mechanics, and the function of things.

Ages 12-18 is the biggest event for girls - have a boyfriend.
Boys aged 12-18 are equally interested in the following: sex, cars and sports.
This carries over into adulthood when women talk about relationships, people, diet, clothing, physical condition. The men talk about sports, business, politics, finance, cars, and the mechanics of things.

3. Values ​​and self-respect

MEN
A man's self-awareness is determined by his ability to achieve results through success and achievement.
Achieving goals and proving your competence gives you a sense of accomplishment.
To feel comfortable, men must reach the goal on their own. For men, completing tasks is a symbol of confidence, power, and self-respect. In general, men are more interested in objects and things, and last but not least in people and feelings. Men rarely talk about their problems unless they seek "experienced" advice; asking for help when you can do something yourself is a sign of weakness. Men are more aggressive than women; more militant and territorial integrity. Male self-esteem is more related to career. Men feel devastated by rejection and financial setbacks; they tend to be fixated on money a lot more than women.

WOMEN:
Women value love, communication, beauty and relationships. A woman's self-awareness is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationship. They spend a lot of time supporting, nurturing and helping each other. Personal expressions, in dress and feelings are very important to them. Communication is essential. Every conversation comes down to how good she feels. For women offering help is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength, it is a sign of concern to provide support. Women are very concerned about physical attractiveness; changes in this area are as significant for women as changes in the financial situation for men. When men are preoccupied with work or money, women interpret this as inattention.

4. Other differences
Men tend to act more logically, analytically and rationally.
Women act more intuitively, holistically, creatively, integrally.
Men are much more tolerant of difficulties regarding their own feelings, and may act threatening when expressing feelings in their presence. This may cause them to react, withdraw, or try to control the situation through displays of control and/or power.
Men are actually more vulnerable and dependent on relationships than women, they feel more devastated by their ending, as they have fewer friends and sources of emotional support.
Men are natural with their own angry feelings than women.
Women have a much wider range of feelings than men, and the intensity of their feelings is much greater than that of men. As a result of this, women's feelings seem to change; men find it difficult to understand, they consider it irrational.
Men tend to be more functional in their approach to problem solving; women are aesthetically oriented in addition to functionality.
Women tend to be much more sensitive to sounds and smells than men; and women tend to put more emphasis on "atmosphere".

5. Conflicts, as a rule, arising from the basic differences between a man and a woman
Men often complain that women are always trying to change them.
The most common complaint women have is that men don't listen to them.
Women are waiting for sympathy, and men are ready to offer a solution.
When a woman makes attempts to change, improve, fix or give advice, men hear that they are told that they are not competent or do not know how to do something or that they are not able to be independent.
Men are more likely to feel guilty and responsible for women's problems.
Men believe that women are waiting for their advice and help in solving a problem, and this is the right way to be useful and an opportunity to show love, and women often just want to be listened to sincerely.
Housework: men avoid it, trying at all costs to pass it on to others, as they feel humiliated doing homework. For women, cleaning the house is a manifestation of caring for the hearth. Men and women have different definitions of cleanliness and dirt.
Men often try to change a woman's mood when she is upset by offering solutions to her problems, which she interprets as discounting and invalidating her feelings.
Women are always trying to change a man and his behavior by offering unsolicited advice or criticizing this or that issue.

6. How to work with these differences
When women are upset, you should not offer her a solution, this can be done when she is calm.
A man is ready to appreciate advice and honest criticism when required.
Men have great needs for status and independence, women have a need for intimacy and connection.
Women should feel care, trust, mutual understanding, respect, love.
Women are ready for a lot if they feel needed, special or treated kindly.
Men need to have trust, understanding, appreciation, approval, respect, encouragement.
Men are motivated when they feel they need to. Most of all, a man is afraid of not being good enough or not competent enough, although he will never express or show this.

7. Resume
There are serious and significant differences between men and women.
These differences are neither better nor worse. Don't judge them. Don't try to change them. Don't try to make them leave.
They are generalizations! We all have individual differences, and we all have some of these qualities.
To get along, you MUST be willing to accept and learn to respect all these differences.
First, make sure to keep these differences in mind when communicating about anything important, expressing care and concern, and resolving conflicts.

Recently, it is often said that women and men have switched roles. Women have become more emancipated, men more feminine. However, there are still differences between them, which make them so attractive to each other.

1. When making love, a woman thinks about whether she looks beautiful.

2. It has long been proven that a woman's brain is % smaller than a man's. However, this does not affect the level of intelligence.

3. But the male brain decreases with age faster than the female.

4. To solve the same task, men and women use different parts of the brain.

5. If a man gets lost, he will remember the direction of movement and the distance traveled, and a woman will remember landmark objects. It is the same with driving: a man remembers the road by numerical values ​​of distances, and a woman often remembers all sorts of signs and shop windows.

6. Turning around at the call, a woman usually turns only her head. The man turns his torso as well, since he has a much less flexible neck.

7. Women are afraid of spiders, worms and mice. They also do not like caterpillars, even the most beautiful ones.

8. The vast majority of women believe that washing with soap and water is harmful. (If you want to know what exactly they wash themselves with, open any of the women's magazines.)

9. On the offer to show hands, we honestly hold out open palms. The women hold out their hands, palms down, apparently to demonstrate their impeccable manicure and the size of the diamonds.

10. The words that a woman will say by hitting her fingers with a hammer can be skipped without censorship on the air of Nadezhda radio. What a man says in such cases cannot be broadcast.

11. Women open beer bottles with beer bottle openers.

12. Women try to go up or down the mountain sideways. Men simply spread their legs wider.

13. Women prefer to examine their heels, turning around behind their backs. We just turn the raised foot.

14. Women don't like having their hands free. Therefore, they always carry a purse with them - to fiddle with it by the strap, hold it by the edge and delve into it endlessly. In the absence of a handbag, anything will do - a fan, gloves, a book, a flower. Women cannot stand standing or walking with their hands down, unoccupied with anything - in extreme cases, they will cross their arms over their chests, hiding their palms under their arms and sometimes unconsciously pulling on the straps of their bras.

15. A woman remembers everything in detail more often, a summarizing thought is enough for a man.

16. Men perceive information faster, and therefore react faster. But…

17. Women are more likely to perceive several information streams, and men get annoyed when they have to do something "at the same time."

18. Men are stronger in the exact sciences, and women are better in the humanities.

19. Yes, everyone was waiting for this topic, so here you go: men think about sex every minute, and women think about it every couple of days. Manic and other extremes do not count.

20. Women are more talkative. Such sociability is associated with the work of the pleasure center in the brain. Conversation is like an orgasm.

21. Men and women react differently to harsh and annoying sounds.

22. To establish trust in a woman, strong hugs for 20 seconds are enough.

23. Women use almost three times more words during the day than men.

24. The female brain during operation heats up more, because. more glucose is "burned".

25. Men and women have different perceptions of humor. Men are more excited about the cheerful ending, and women enjoy the subtlety of humor in general, the language of presentation, and enjoy the denouement even more than men.

26. Women have better organizational skills.

27. Male hearing is weaker than female. Therefore, women hear the subtlest intonations, and men - not always. And in terms of tactile sensations, men lose to women. The sight of men is quite erotic, while women better remember any details of the picture.

28. Men perceive speech with the help of logic, therefore they “hear exactly what is being said”, and women connect intuition and emotions, therefore they “seem to see some hints everywhere”.

29. Women are naturally more sociable, men are aggressively competitive. Therefore, men fight more often. For the same reason, women are annoyed by the fact that men cannot maintain a long conversation with them, but the point is that men's speech is usually less developed.

30. If there is a ball on the road, then the man will kick it, and the woman, most likely, will pick it up and press it to her chest. This is how the different natural purpose of men and women is manifested.

31. When dressing, a woman will first put on a shirt, then trousers. We usually do the opposite.

32. Women don't scratch their heads. Firstly, they do not like to show their confusion, and secondly, it spoils their hair.

33. A woman often winds strands of hair, even short ones, around her finger or tickles her cheek with a hair brush. Men rarely do this.

34. A woman will never truly understand why football players, lining up in a wall, make such a funny slide with their palms. Therefore, she does not flinch when in the movie the hero gets hit in the groin with a boot.

35. In women, the chest type of breathing prevails. In men, the abdominal muscles are actively involved in the process of breathing.

36. A woman does not bite her cigarette with her teeth. She does not leave it in her mouth, but always keeps it in her hand.

37. Yawning, a woman covers her mouth with her hand, not her fist.

38. Having taken a bath, a woman - no matter if long-haired, short-haired or ill with typhus - always wraps an amateur likeness of a turban from a towel around her head, at least for one minute. The reasons for the emergence of this oriental ritual are unknown.

39. A woman is almost not annoyed when underwear gets stuck between her buttocks. The fair sex is happy to wear all these torture devices called "bikini". In addition, usually a woman does not try to discreetly straighten her underwear from behind, getting up from a chair.

40. We need to shave only one part of the body, but every day. Otherwise, you quickly become like Grigory Rasputin or the author of Capital. If a man nevertheless decides to follow in the footsteps of the founder of Marxism, his girlfriend will certainly be allergic to stubble. And who, one wonders, admired the unshaven George Clooney so much?!

41. Any man can be hit between the legs.

42. When a woman hits a man, he can't hit her back. This is a law that must not be broken, even if she hits below the belt, that is, between the legs. And where is the law that allows us in this case even to pinch her chest? There is no such law!

43. The vaunted male erection is often not associated with sexual arousal and sometimes overtakes us in the most inopportune places. For example, in the pool, gym or in the cemetery.

44. We are more likely to get rich and, accordingly, more likely to become a victim of racketeering or robbery. But rape does not threaten us!

45. Women earn more than men in the easiest and most enjoyable areas of the economy. For example, in the fashion industry. Or the porn business. But it is much easier for women to work there!

46. ​​Only the male sex has the ability to think rationally. Therefore, all the most important and responsible decisions have to be made by us.

47. If a man does not look good this morning, he, unlike a woman, cannot quickly change the situation for the better with a set of paints and varnishes packaged in different (but equally expensive) bottles, vials and tubes. The only exception is the morgue.

48. If a man is not distinguished by either a developed intellect or quickness of mind and is generally devoid of any natural quick wits, he cannot turn all this in his favor by simply putting on a tight T-shirt. The exception is Mr. Olympia (bodybuilding champion title).

49. Swinging to throw something, a woman takes her hand not to the side, but back. That's why ladies were never sent to blow up tanks.

50. Women like these torn brooms, from which there is so much garbage. They call them "dry flower arrangements".

51. Shaking hands, a woman hardly shakes her. About the female handshake, the poet Voloshin said that it "looks like tossing a dead baby."

52. Women have a rather indifferent, detached attitude towards their genitals, they are almost unfamiliar with each other. Women do not talk to them, do not give them playful nicknames and do not take offense at them.

53. A woman walks on tiptoe on hot pebbles or sand. The man only steps on his heels.

54. When sitting down, women compress their knees or simply keep them parallel. Therefore, in public transport, it is preferable to have a lady in your neighbors.

55. Stretching, men spread or raise their arms, and women bend them at the elbows, pressing them to the sides.

56. The desire for compromise inherent in the female sex is reflected in the way they tell obscene jokes. They may decide to publicly tell even a very greasy anecdote. But the key word will be muttered so indistinctly that no one will understand anything. Even more often, they try to convey an indecent zest with facial expressions, gestures and a desperate expression on their faces.

57. The belt on a woman's dressing gown is tied above the navel, and men - below.

58. If a woman's fly is undone on the street, the woman is rather indifferent to this circumstance and calmly fastens her trousers.

59. Women plug their ears with their fingers, and men cover their ears with their palms.

60. When you ask a woman to pass you a lighter, she passes you a lighter, and does not test your jumping ability and reaction.

61. A woman never takes off her T-shirt by grabbing it by the fabric on her back.

62. If a man, from the point of view of women, very little left the monkey in the process of development, then we, for our part, can also note some atavisms that our ladies inherited from their four-armed ancestors. For example, the habit of looking for insects in the wool of his male for hours. In the absence of small arthropods, women are satisfied with acne and pimples.

63. When women are sitting, they have a habit of tucking their leg under them and resting their heel against the crotch. We don't allow ourselves to do that.

64. To wring wet linen by hand, a woman takes it with her palms up, a man with his palms down.

65. And one more thing: after making love, a woman wants not to sleep, but to talk and kiss.

66. There are fewer places on the male body where you can hide something.

67. According to statistics, women live longer than men, although modern science has not found any physiological justification for this.

68. Women do not suffer from prostatitis and are not threatened with impotence.

69. Women are not threatened with early baldness. Late, however, too.

70. According to statistics, women suffer from alcoholism no less than men, but for some reason they limit us in drinking.

71. Male nipples are useless both from the point of view of sex and from the point of view of biological expediency. And sometimes you just want to breastfeed someone!

72. We can't solve a problem just by crying.

73. We often have dirty nails.

74. And we can't paint them red.

75. We are never given flowers, even if flowers are delivered to the house. Unless it's our own funeral.

76. We shouldn't scratch during orgasm. Biting is also not recommended. But women can!

77. After an orgasm, we definitely have to wash, clean or throw something away.

78. Unlike women, men do not have reusable contraceptives.

79. We never know for sure whether our partner swallowed a birth control pill before sex or not. Only women know this.

80. After an orgasm (and after having to wash, clean or throw something away) we can't have another orgasm right away. Even if you really want to.

81. We have no good reason to be in a bad mood, naughty and behave irrationally four days out of every twenty-eight.

82. In fact, you can choose a skirt. But it must be in a cage, as the Scots would otherwise be mistaken for a representative of the sexual minority (who are the majority in the world of fashion, film criticism and show business). Yes, and in a plaid skirt it is difficult to pass for a Scot. Therefore, you have to buy bagpipes.

83. We cannot wear gold and diamonds. The exception is Semyon Semenych Gorbunkov.

84. We are not given rings and earrings, pendants and bracelets, gold and diamonds. Semyon Semenych Gorbunkov is no exception.

85. Sable and one hundred dollar bills are not thrown at our feet.

86. We are not offered a waltz tour. Exception gay club.

87. They don’t chase us down the street shouting: “Would you give me your phone number?”

88. We are not asked: "What are you doing tonight?"

89. We are not treated to a drink just because we have long legs and elastic buttocks. The exception is the gay bar.

90. A woman tolerates heat worse. If you don’t want to buy expensive furs for her, use the work of researchers from the University of Michigan. These developments indicate that when overheated, women sweat half as much as men. Due to such work of the sweat glands, their beautiful bodies are cooled worse, which is fraught with heat strokes, stress, and with prolonged overheating, insomnia, menstrual irregularities, depression and other troubles.

91. Each of us rode a bicycle. And everyone on the way turned out to be a foreign object that could not be bypassed. Obeying the inexorable laws of physics, the body continued to move, and after a collision fell from a soft seat onto an iron pipe called a frame. For the result, see paragraph A. Ladies' bicycles are made without a frame!

92. Women are not at risk of injuries resulting from oral sex with an inexperienced partner, careless handling of zippers on trousers and improperly fastened safety rope when bungee jumping. After that, they still dare to say that the most painful thing in the world is to give birth to a child!

93. In the toilet, we constantly run the risk of splashing our shoes.

94. Sooner or later in the life of every man there comes a moment when you have to go shopping with a woman.

95. And also watch figure skating with her.

96. And also visit theaters.

97. And come to your mother-in-law for lunch on holidays.

98. Women don't have mothers-in-law!

99. A woman puts on gloves before going outside.

100. Lifting a heavy object, a woman will try to move it on its side. A man carries a load in front of him.

101. Women prefer to wear small and large bills in the same place. Their pockets rarely jingle.

102. When punched, a woman puts her thumb forward.

103. It is difficult for us to find good shoes for ourselves.

104. We need to buy socks.

105. And wash them!

106. We don't have sexy underwear. All we have are the underpants that are currently recognized as the freshest.

107. Moreover: if a man dresses stylishly and sexy, he will definitely be mistaken for a representative of a sexual minority. For women, it's exactly the opposite.

108. Women don't have to learn how to tie a tie.

109. A woman cannot be morally destroyed by an obscene remark about the insufficient size of her penis.

110. We cannot enlarge our breasts with silicone implants.

111. Women don't have to pull hairs out of their nostrils!

112. Women can appear a minute before the start of their own wedding. By that time, we have to hang around in front of the registry office in a stupid suit for an hour!

113. In addition, women's wedding preparations include merry parties with bridesmaids, where everyone sincerely congratulates the bride. The male pre-wedding ritual comes down to the systematic humiliation of the groom by his true friends, who are trying with all their might to prevent the inevitable fatal event.

114. Women usually concentrate all their love on one subject. And we have to be torn between a girlfriend / wife and our favorite football team. Sometimes a brand new Volkswagen Passat also wedges in here.

115. In addition to higher education, a real man must know everything about cars, have the skills of an electrician, carpenter and plumber, and also be professionally versed in music and cinema. It is enough for a woman to know what style of blouses are being worn this season and what cream of the new L'Oreal line is supposed to be rubbed into herself at a given time of day.This does not even require a parochial school, glossy women's magazines are enough.

116. Plus, recently we still have to cook, wash and mop the floors! Refuse to be accused of male chauvinism.

117. Women's nipples can be of different colors. The appearance of the female breast is highly dependent on the speed at which blood circulation occurs inside it. The dark color of the nipples indicates an active supply of this part of the body with blood and, accordingly, a high level of arousal. At the same time, one breast, not yet stimulated by you, may end in a pink or beige nipple, and the other nipple, just properly kissed, will be cherry or dark brown.

118. Men have to put up with the fact that women reach the peak of sexuality at an age when it is time to think about life insurance. Children.

119. Men invent all words. And women simply translate them into the feminine gender!

120. Although models have been defiling on the catwalk with an open chest for a long time, for some reason, staring at the interlocutor's neckline is still considered indecent. Well, who puts a cake on the table, while demanding not to eat sweets?

121. Since the artistic taste of men is naturally more developed than that of women, it is more difficult for us to find a decent film in video rental. But she, without hesitation, takes the Runaway Bride off the shelf for the tenth time.

122. The fact that we are, on average, larger than women in size makes us a more convenient target for a pigeon flying over us, which has long suffered especially for the sake of such an occasion.

123. We do not have a good reason to put on a lot of weight after the birth of our first child.

124. When we gain weight, none of the body parts that make us sexier increase in volume.

125. Even if a man gets fat so that he looks like a woman in the ninth month of pregnancy, no one will give him a seat on the subway.

126. We never get paid child support.

127. We do not have a choice what to wear a skirt or trousers.

129. When it becomes necessary to turn to an auto mechanic or a computer specialist, one has to endure contemptuous female glances: after all, it is believed that a real man should deal with all this "hardware" himself.

130. It is much easier for a woman to master the intricacies of the most ancient profession.

131. And we still pay!

132. Our childhood dreams of flying into space or winning presidential elections are almost unattainable. Whereas it is a hundred times easier for a woman to achieve her goal of becoming a nurse, stewardess or just a mother.

133. Under no circumstances will we be able to instantly organize a voluntary society of those who want to have sexual intercourse with us, simply by going to a nightclub after and smiling dazzlingly.

134. In a ski marathon, we run twenty kilometers more.

135. And the all-around? Why do they only have seven sports and we have ten? After all, the cash prize for the Olympic gold medal for women is the same as for men!

136. During a fight, it is considered preferable for men to hit each other on the head with beer bottles, and this is more fraught with serious bodily harm than the squealing and grabbing of the enemy by the hair, accepted by women.

137. The male sex hormone testosterone, if isolated in its pure form, is a direct analogue of the explosive mixture of heroin and cocaine in the ratio of 1. As if a string was tied to the genitals and dragged for it all day in different directions, this is how it works. And we still manage to think rationally in such conditions!

138. Women have a much richer palette of alcoholic beverages: liqueurs, cocktails and other martinis with carrot juice. All this tastes, of course, loses to the good old ruff, but the point is in principle!

139. Men are blamed for all wars. The Makarov pistol, the M- rifle, the Kalashnikov assault rifle, and the Satan intercontinental ballistic missile are considered phallic symbols invented by men only to compensate for their sexual complexes. And no one wants to admit that women really just don’t understand a damn thing about military affairs and military equipment!

140. But in case something happens, it is we who are sent with marching companies to the front, while women wave their handkerchiefs after us, brushing burning tears from their cheeks.

141. And if at least something somewhere in the world goes wrong, we men still have to answer.

142. We are gradually becoming less and less needed. Professions that were traditionally ours are becoming women's. And vice versa. Women already play hockey!

143. No matter how much we smile at a gloomy traffic police officer and no matter how many buttons we unbutton our shirt collar, we still have to pay a fine for speeding. But most often it is women who are responsible for the accident!

144. We are doomed to go with women to melodramas with Leonardo DiCaprio, Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, and after the session, listen for hours about how "darlings" they are. At the same time, when a man sees Jennifer Lopez on the screen and makes a couple of well-aimed remarks about her manner of adjusting her panties from behind, in one of the cases he will be accused of "bad taste", in three cases he will be called a "sex maniac", and in two cases he will simply stop talking.

145. After the words "Darling, let's spend the evening at home" there is no doubt that we are waiting for some kind of heartbreaking television talk show for the feeble-minded, like "My Family" or "Myself". At best, figure skating. At worst, Slutskaya loses.

146. We don't like champagne. But we have to open it. And getting a cork in the eye too!

147. We listen to Whitney Houston, Celine Dion and even Natasha Koroleva in the car, because in the age of feminism, it is believed that a woman also has the right to choose an FM radio station.

148. Jokes are told about us about how we hide in a closet and go down the drainpipe in our shorts. The funny thing is that sometimes it's not a joke at all!

149. Women are not threatened with an intimate meeting with a transvestite.

150. And with a minor.

151. The lower susceptibility of men to alcohol means that we need to spend much more money to relax normally.

152. A woman wakes up faster. For example, after general anesthesia. Women get out of it in an average of seven minutes, men - in eleven. It is interesting, but the ladies acquire the ability to communicate coherently and solve simple tasks for the intellect, as soon as they rub their eyes. And the men are still in a state of dull idiocy for some time and are not even able to remember the series of their passport, and what they, in fact, are doing here naked on a gurney.

153. At school, we are forced to engage in serious, physically demanding sports. For example, football. And the girls get something lightweight, like badminton. Although badminton cannot be called a sport! Plus, if we forget our sports uniform, in physical education we still have to run around the field in shorts. For some reason, no one requires girls to undress to their underwear in such cases, and they calmly smoke in the toilet for the whole lesson.

154. We are often punished at school.

155. We are generally punished more often.

156. We cannot marry a millionaire.

157. We are not allowed into the women's bath!

158. None of us will ever be honored with the title of "mother heroine."

159. For women, the process of communication is important, for men - the result.

160. Men like to talk more about their successes, and women about their failures.

161. A man prefers to think silently, expresses only the final result.

162. A woman thinks aloud, which is perceived by a man as chatter. A typical male question (not always, however, asked aloud): "When does she think, if she talks all the time?"

163. Men express their feelings more difficult than women.

164. A woman interrupts an interlocutor less often than a man, she sees the interlocutor better and understands his feelings. A man interrupts a woman 3 times more often than that of him.

165. A man can pierce his navel, nipple or tongue. But this will not speak of a free temper and love of adventure, like women, but that this man is an idiot. The exception is representatives of the sexual minority and show business stars.

166. A woman sees better at night. Women have more rods in their eyes, which are much more light sensitive. In addition, women have better developed peripheral vision, and they more easily perceive the observed as a whole - in all its fullness of detail. But men, with their cones, see more clearly, sharpen better and detail better, skillfully cutting off secondary objects.

167. A woman shakes her hips when walking. The bones of the female pelvis are wider apart than those of the male. It is this anatomical feature that explains the effect of wagging the fifth point when walking. And not because the citizen is madly in love with the fact that you have been following her for half an hour, unable to take your eyes off the object with which she balances so easily in space.

168. A woman is more sensitive than a man. Women's skin contains several times more nerve endings than men's - this is a biological fact. So, when caressing a girl, try to distract yourself from your own ideas about how to stroke, squeeze and knead her tender bodies so that she screams with desire.

169. A woman gets drunk faster. Her body has more fat than yours. And it tends not only to be deposited in the most inaccessible places, but also to accumulate alcohol in its cells, preventing its removal from the body and accelerating intoxication. By the way, for some reason, women absorb beer no more intensively than men.

170. A woman hears better. The fact that women hear high tones better than men is quite understandable: nature made sure that they could find a cradle with a screaming baby in the room at night. But another fact is interesting: according to data obtained at the Anthropological Center of North Carolina, women are also better at detecting low tones. Probably, in order not to stumble, returning at night to the bed in which you snore.

171. A woman cries after sex. Women cry about four times more than men. Most likely, this is due to the fact that in their body the production of the hormone of happiness, serotonin, is better. Serotonin is produced and enters the blood due to emotional arousal - this can happen during laughter, after sex, at the moment of spiritual uplift. In fact, this hormone is responsible for such important things as creativity and good mood. But when too much is produced, it becomes a stressor. And beautiful creatures begin to shed tears, losing serotonin dissolved in it along with the lacrimal fluid.

172. The average volume of communication among women is more than one and a half times greater than the volume of communication among men.

173. The different need of men and women for communication is a source of numerous conflicts in families. In most cases, the husband completely satisfies his need for communication during the working day.

The wife is far from always, because her need is much greater. So she hopes to make up for the lack of communication at home.

174. A woman listens attentively much longer than a man.

175. On average, a man listens attentively to a woman for only a few seconds, after which he is inclined to give an answer without specifying the information.

176. The reason for the high sensitivity of a woman to hidden subtext is in her innate ability to notice and decipher (so-called) non-verbal signals: postures, gestures, body movements performed at the moment of speech. They are produced subconsciously and give out the state of the speaker.

177. Women in negotiations are more successful than men.

178. It is customary to compliment women because they are in dire need of it ("women love with their ears"). But men react to compliments addressed to them no less favorably than women, only their outward manifestations are meaner.

179. Women are more critical of their appearance than men are of their abilities. Men are more critical of interlocutors than women.

180. A woman is better at finding lost things

Men pass mathematical tests and tasks for spatial thinking faster and better. But women remember better where and under what conditions they last saw the requested object.

The man is the head, the woman is the neck. From time immemorial in Rus' it was said so. Why? Yes, because a woman complements a man. If we take the Biblical story of the creation of the world, we will learn about the origin of Eve. It was created from Adam's rib. To become a faithful wife and helper.

What are the differences between a man and a woman? In what ways do they complement each other, and in what ways can they not find understanding? Read and find out.

Physiology

We'll start with the simplest. With differences between men and representatives of the weaker sex of a physiological nature.

The physiological differences between men and women are as follows.

• Men are taller than women, as a rule. They have a more elongated chest cage.
• The chest of women is rounded, and the pelvis is wider than that of men.
• In females, the thyroid gland is larger. And more active than brothers and husbands.
• Women have at least 20% fewer blood cells. That is why, they faint more often than the stronger sex. Due to lack of oxygen.
• And yet, the weight of the brain in a man is much higher than the "female weight".
• But females can boast of a large variolius bridge. It is 10 times more than the male population of the planet.

Biology

At the time of conception, we are already predetermined biological sex. This is where the fun begins. Biological differences between a man and a woman appear even when the child is in the mother's stomach.

It is known that the brain of a boy and a girl is different. This will be discussed below, but for now, back to our biology. So, already two months after conception, the male embryo begins to develop in the right biological direction. There is a huge supply of testosterone. As a result, happy parents are told on ultrasound that they will have a son. This is very cool, only testosterone kills most of the communication brain centers.

The boys' mothers probably noticed: a very tiny son is in the crib. You approach him, he focuses his eyes on his face. And then, with joy, he switches his attention to some moving object. It can be a hanging toy, or a rattle that a mother shakes over her son.

Girls, in this regard, are more collected. They can carefully examine the face of the mother, studying every detail of it. She is still tiny, but already shows close attention.

Biological differences between men and women are inherent in nature. For example, in the 90s of the last century, such a case thundered. Once upon a time there was a girl, Brenda. A sweet child who could never accept himself as a girl. Girly outfits frankly infuriated, and playing with dolls caused nausea. Yes, and chatter girlfriends did not like. Other business - games with boys, cars and guns.

As time went on, Brenda turned 14 years old. This is where the truth came out. Brenda is a boy. The fact is that in infancy, a boy named David was circumcised. This led to problems with the primary male trait. The parents decided to change the sex of the child.

When Brenda-David learned the truth, he transformed back into a man. Now he is married and has children and grandchildren.

Brain

Everyone knows about the differences between the brain of a man and a woman. At least at school, in anatomy lessons, we were told that a man’s brain is 10% larger than a woman’s. Accordingly, it is harder.

But among the fair sex, he is much more active. Only scientists have not yet decided whether this is good or bad. The fact is that the female brain is in a state of activity even in a dream.

Very often, married women have to deal with the situation: in the morning the child woke up, plays next to the bed or on the bed. The light is on in the room, and dad is sleeping, covered with a blanket with his head. Still snoring. His brain does not react at all to external stimuli.

What is it connected with? With the fact that in a dream in men only 5% of the brain is active. And for women - 70%. Therefore, one should not be offended by a young father who continues to snore while the child cries. He does not hear this cry, unlike a sensitively sleeping mother.

The difference between a man and a woman is that the former have a more developed parietal part of the cerebral cortex. She is responsible for spatial perception. And it is very well developed which reacts to danger. That is why, in a stressful situation, the male population makes decisions faster.

Psychological differences

Psychological differences between a man and a woman are evident even in childhood. You know, there is such a joke. Two comrades are standing in the cold, their ears are already reddened. And they don't wear hats. “Why do I need a hat?” says one, “I can stand the cold very well.” And the second one adds: "I don't need a hat, it will ruin my hair."

Who is a boy and who is a girl is immediately clear. It is believed that men are less emotional. Although modern young people, brought up by mothers, have become worse than women. But these are defective copies. A real man does not whine or drool. He is a breadwinner, able to protect himself and his family when needed.

Men are more aggressive than women. They love open authority and do not tolerate submission at all.

The fair sex is more tender and emotional. It costs them nothing to shed a tear. No, of course, there are girls who cannot be overcome by emotions. They are independent and determined. But the strength of a real woman is in her weakness.

And if a man loves open power, then a woman controls imperceptibly. At first glance, the husband will not understand that the wife has long been in the power.

Women are more attached to the family and home than the stronger sex.

social differences

A century ago, there could be no talk of social equality between a man and a woman. The man worked to get food. And the woman took care of the housework and gave birth to children.

Times are different now. Women have become independent, and professions that used to be considered purely masculine in our time are great for women.

Social differences between men and women are almost invisible. Although there is still a job for which the fair sex is not taken. There are 456 such professions in Russia. We list the main ones:

• trucker;
• captain of the ship;
• train driver;
• a carpenter;
• diver.

Of course, nothing will stop a determined representative of the fair sex. And women are trying to get forbidden jobs. True, for this they have to apply to various organizations for permission. It comes all the way to the UN.

We talked about the real differences between men and women. And now, let's highlight a few interesting facts regarding this issue:

Something else

It's no secret that young ladies are much more emotional and selfish. On the one hand, they give all of themselves to the family. But on the other hand, if they set a goal to achieve something, not by washing, then by skating they will achieve it.

Men are more likely to act through rather than veiled. The latter is a female preference.

Representatives of the strong are much less vindictive than charming young ladies. Those are able to remember some trifle after many years.

Conclusion

This is what the main differences between a man and a woman look like. How different we are. And this is good: a woman complements a man, and a man balances a beautiful creature. If everyone were the same, it would be boring.

The famous Russian philosopher Berdyaev, reflecting on the cause of the difficulties and conflicts that arise in relations between the sexes, wrote: “The world of men and the world of women, even when there is genuine love and intimate communication, turn out to be closed and impenetrable to each other. Even when a man and a woman seem to speak the same language, they put different meanings into the spoken words...”.

Indeed, the difference between a man and a woman is so significant that sometimes it seems as if they are beings from different planets. Moreover, this difference lies not only in physiological differences.

A man and a woman perceive the world around them in completely different ways and react to the events taking place in it. It is this purely psychological discrepancy that should be taken into account in order to learn how to build harmonious personal relationships.

Men love with their eyes, women love with their ears.

A significant difference between a man and a woman is that men, when assessing whether a particular woman is suitable for them for close relationships, first of all pay attention to her external data. If a woman is not in the taste of a man or is not attractive enough in his opinion, then he is unlikely to be able to fall in love with her.

For women, the appearance of a man is also an important factor, but, as a rule, far from being the main one. Women pay much more attention to what a man says. Therefore, even if a man is not very handsome, but very smart, has a pleasant timbre of voice, knows how to make beautiful compliments and tell a woman exactly the words that she wants to hear, success with the weaker sex is guaranteed to him.

When making decisions, men are guided by logic, and women by feelings. Most men are more objective than women, but not because they are smarter, but because feelings and emotions do not prevent them from adequately perceiving what is happening. Women, for the most part, can rarely find positive moments in a situation that causes them negative emotions, or objectively assess the dignity of a person if they feel antipathy towards him. For most men, the main thing is work and career, and for most women, family

A man who, by the age of 30-35, has not decided on a job and has not begun to make a career, is considered to be a loser. And the men themselves are extremely acute and painfully experiencing their professional failures. To feel truly happy and satisfied with life, a man must know that he has managed to achieve no less success in the field of work and career than most of his peers.

As for the difference between a man and a woman in this matter, for women, the main criterion for success and happiness is a strong and successful family. If by the age of 30 a woman does not have a beloved husband and children, those around her begin to look at her with ill-concealed pity, even if she is completely. While a non-working woman, who may even be the envy of other women.

Attitude towards partner cheating A man and a woman also differ in that a woman can forgive a man for an accidental physical betrayal if she knows that he loves only her alone, and for a man the very fact of the betrayal of a beloved woman is important, and not her reasons. Therefore, many women close their eyes and forgive their husband's infidelities if they see that he is not going to leave the family. And as soon as a man finds out that his beloved has cheated on him, how further relations with her lose all meaning for him, unless, of course, the man is henpecked or even respects himself a little. Attitude towards sex

The difference between a man and a woman is well expressed in sexual terms. Women prefer to have sex only with the men they love, and men clearly separate sex and love. Therefore, as a rule, only if they stop loving him. Men, for the most part, can quite sincerely love their wife, but at the same time they are unlikely to refuse sex on the side if they are sure that the wife will not know about anything.

Also, the discrepancy between the views of men and women is that for many men sex is not a reason for dating, and a woman, having slept with a man, always dreams of continuing a relationship with him. A woman who has many sexual partners is unlikely to be proud of this and brag to her girlfriends so as not to cause ridicule and condemnation on their part, while men are very fond of boasting about their sexual victories in front of friends - the more a man has sexual partners, the more envy he is. calls from his fellow sexes.

As you can see, there are quite a few serious differences between men and women, but despite this, women cannot imagine life without men, and men cannot imagine life without women. The main link between them, of course, is love! And for the sake of love, you can always forgive another person for being different from yourself, try to take into account his psychological characteristics and learn to adapt to them.