It can be quite difficult to ignore someone, especially if you constantly run into this person on your way, if he tries to talk to you or does not quite understand what is happening. But if you really need to ignore this person, then try to look very busy with your business, change your usual way of life and cut off all contact with this person. Check out the following tips on how to ignore someone.

Steps

Use body language

1. Don't look this person in the eye. Not making eye contact is the best way to ignore people. Once your eyes meet, it will show that you are aware of the existence of this person, and your efforts to ignore him will be in vain. If this person is in close proximity to you, avoid making eye contact at all costs. Look at everyone except him, look in front of you or just at the floor.

   • If a person is shorter than you, then just look over his head. If it is higher, then do not look up.
   • If he is the same height as you and is standing nearby, try to portray an absent, indifferent look in case you accidentally meet his eyes.

2. Pass by quickly. Another way to ignore a person is to walk as fast as possible. This will show that you are a busy person, you have time to do a lot of things, and that you have no desire to stop and talk to this person. Walk with your head held high and look like you're in a hurry, even if you're not.

   • If you see this person approaching you from afar, step back a little so you don't accidentally bump into him.
   • Do not turn to the side to get around your enemy. If you cross or turn on the other side of the road, it will show that you care. However, if you see him in the distance and are sure that he does not see you, then it is better indeed to turn off your path and out of sight.

3. Depict some kind of "closedness". If you happen to be near this person, fold your arms across your chest, cross your legs if you're sitting, hunch over a bit, and generally do everything to appear completely out of reach. Your body should say for itself: "Don't talk to me, buddy," and most likely your enemy will understand this hint.

   • Don't smile. Let your face be serious, even a little sullen, to show that you do not want to talk to anyone.
   • You can also draw a face with a blank and meaningless expression that will scare away anyone who tries to talk to you.
   • If you have long hair, bangs, or are wearing a hat, try to cover part of your face so you don't have to look the person in the eye.

4. Try to look like you are very busy. You can look either closed off from everything around you, or very, very busy, so much so that you simply cannot take a second of your time for empty chatter with this person.

   • If you are currently with friends, then turn to face them and start something animatedly discussing and gesticulating. This will show that you are too busy to talk or look in anyone's direction.
   • If you are alone, immerse yourself in a book, magazine, or textbook. You can even quietly read aloud, as if you were memorizing something.
   • Always keep a lot of different items in your hands. When you walk or sit, hold your phone, textbooks, or a huge indoor flower in a pot in your hands. Seeing how busy you are, this person will not start a conversation with you.

Use technology

1. Use your phone. This will help you ignore any person. There are several ways to use the phone for this purpose. First, you can stare at the phone to look busy as soon as you see your enemy. You can talk to someone on the phone, laugh wildly, or dive headlong into correspondence with someone with whom you would like to communicate at the moment.

   • Change your phone number so this person can't call or text you.
   • Block him in your contacts so you don't receive messages from him.
   • Set your phone to ring when you are near that person so you can pick up the phone and pretend to be talking to someone.

2. Listen to music. Buy headphones and always wear them when you're alone, even if you're not listening to music. When you see your enemy, turn up the music to the fullest and shake your head to the beat in order to look completely absorbed and busy with your own business and not wanting to spend a single minute of your time talking.

   • If you really want to annoy, you can also close your eyes and sing along to the music so that the person does not have the slightest chance of talking to you.

3. Ignore online. Ignoring online is much easier than ignoring a person in real life because you don't have to avoid meeting them. In this case, you just need to ignore emails, Facebook posts, Twitter notes, and any other messages on the network.

   • Block this person on your social networks. Make sure he can't contact you online.
   • Change your email address and virtual nicknames if necessary. Your enemy should not have a single way to get in touch with you on the network.

Change your habits

1. Take a different route. If you want to ignore someone and not meet them every time you go, the easiest thing to do is just change the route you normally take. If you always meet your enemy on the way in between classes, then take a different, longer path to the next lesson so as not to see this person. If you constantly meet him at work, then go down another hallway and use another restroom to keep contact to a minimum.

   • If you meet him wherever you go, then start driving.
   • If your enemy also changed his route in order to catch your eye again, then keep changing your route until he gets tired of this stupid game.

2. Avoid places where your enemy likes to be. It's elementary. If you know his favorite bars, restaurants and parks, just don't go there anymore. It's not worth it, however, if you're willing to spend enough time there and continuously ignore the person, you can try.

   • You can also remember the days when he usually goes there. If he visits his favorite restaurant on the weekends, and you really want to go there, then try to visit there during the week.
   • If he only goes to his restaurant during discount hours, then you can visit there a little later in the evening.

3. Go to places where your enemy will never go. For example, if he prefers meat dishes, then look for restaurants in your area that serve vegetarian dishes. If he hates jazz, then go to a jazz concert in your area. If he is at enmity with one of your friends, then at this friend’s party you are unlikely to meet your enemy and be able to have a good time.

   • Visiting places and institutions where this person does not go will help you not only ignore him, but will also open up new and unexplored horizons for you.

Ignore anyone in any situation

1. Ignore anyone at school. It might not be easy, especially if you're in the same class, but you can still find a way. Here's how to do it:

   • If you are seated at the same desk as this person, move to another desk. If everyone has their own place in the class, then ask the teacher to transplant you.
   • If you see him at the school canteen, then sit at another table.
   • If you meet him in the hallway of the school, then just look straight ahead, as if you were in such a hurry to the next lesson that you did not notice how you passed this person.
   • If he asks you a question in class, turn your head away as if nothing happened.

2. Ignore someone at work. This can be quite tricky as you may be sitting next to your enemy or even working on the same project. Anyway, there are several ways to minimize contact.

   • Do not enter the office kitchen or break room while this person is there. Remember when he usually eats in the kitchen or pours himself coffee, and try to have lunch and rest at other times if possible.
   • If you are sitting next to your enemy in the office, then try to focus on working on the computer, and also always have a pile of work papers on hand so that you can immerse yourself in them instead of looking in his direction.
   • This should not affect your professional activities. If you need to discuss something with this person on business matters, discuss it. He will be even more frustrated if you talk to him at work and completely ignore him outside of the workspace.

3. Ignore someone socially. It's easy enough if you know what to do. You need to rely on your friends and try to stay as far away from this person as possible, even if you are in the same room. Here's what you can do:

   • Surround yourself with friends. Talk to them and laugh like you've never heard anything funnier in your life.
   • Dance. If your enemy approaches you and music is playing, immediately grab your friend and go dancing. If he does approach you on the dance floor, close your eyes as if enjoying the music.
   • If he is in the same circle of friends as you, then immerse yourself in an active conversation with one of your friends. When he starts talking, start scratching your ear or staring at the phone, in a word, act like nothing is happening.

Are you going to ignore the guy you like in order to get more attention from him? Or do you want to ignore him because you know you can't do anything with him (even if you still like him)? Luckily, with a few simple tips and self-control, you can easily ignore the guy you like in order to hook him even more or break up with him forever.

Steps

Ignore a guy to get his attention

Wait a while before replying to his messages. When you get a message from a guy you like, it's very hard to keep a cool head. Of course, you want to answer it right away. Take your time! If you make a guy wait a bit, chances are you'll get his attention.

• Wait about an hour (if it's a direct and specific question) or even a few hours (if it's just "hello"), and then answer.
• It might be better to set a timer or reminder for yourself.

1. Don't start a conversation. When you think of a guy, everything in the world will remind you of him. You may want to write to him, send him a song, or suggest some interesting activity. Instead, just wait until he wants to contact you.

   • You can write in a notebook what you want to say to him.
   • Thus, when the guy himself starts a conversation with you, you will already have several successful phrases prepared.

2. Flirt with other guys. If you're at a party with a guy you like, be a little flirtatious with the other guys. Let the guy you like see you dancing with another guy or putting your hand on his shoulder. Let him see that you are laughing and having fun. This will definitely make him want you even more!

   • At a party, approach a friend and say something funny.
   • Find some excuse to stand next to the other guy, talk to him, or touch him.

3. Show the guy that you are a busy girl. You will become even more attractive to him if the guy realizes that he does not take up all your free time. Find interesting ways to spend your time. For example, you can meet friends, join a hobby club, or plan your own affairs. Make the guy fit into your personal schedule if he wants to spend time with you.

   • If he calls you and invites you somewhere on Friday evening, say: “I would love to, but I already have plans for Friday. Can we meet on Saturday?

4. Give him enough personal space. If a guy prefers playing basketball with his friends over going to the movies with you, don't push it. Drop that idea and plan to do something with your friends. When a guy notices that he doesn’t have much space in your life, you will definitely interest him.

   • If the guy is planning to date someone else and it's upsetting you, choose someone you trust to talk it over with.
   • However, it is worth making sure that you are still attracted to the guy, and he is not going to leave you. If at first you had plans with him, but then he easily changes them (and this happens not for the first time), it may be time to forget about him forever.

   Ignored in other ways

   1. Wait a few days before answering his question or invitation. If you want to ignore the guy with more subtle innuendos, a great option is to wait a few days before agreeing to spend time with him. If a guy wants to meet outside of school, you can answer that you would love to meet him, but you don’t know yet when you will have time.

      • When a guy invites you to spend time together, tell him that you can answer for sure later.
      • Please wait 1-3 days before accepting.

   2. Get the guy to fit into your schedule. If the guy you like wants to spend time with you, agree when it's convenient for you. Don't change your plans to accommodate him. This is a great way to become inaccessible and ignore the guy with subtle hints.

      • For your plan to work, you need to always be busy.
      • Fill your time with something interesting: you can go for a manicure, meet up with friends, or go to the bookstore to find something new to read.

   3. Make him jealous. Another effective way to get a guy's attention is to pay attention to someone else. Make a guy jealous a little - it will remind him how valuable you are to him, and he will give you the attention you deserve.

      • You can make a guy jealous by texting someone else.
      • Another way is to show the guy how you communicate and have fun in the company of other guys.
      • But don't go too far. You just need to make the guy a little jealous, not lose him.

   4. You can slightly hint to the guy that you doubt whether to continue your relationship. If you're already dating this guy, but he doesn't treat you the way you'd like, it might be worth hinting to the guy that you're considering breaking up with him. If you are really important to this guy, he will pay attention to you and make sure that you stay with him.

      • Tell your boyfriend about your plans for the summer (as if you were planning to spend the summer without him).
      • Perhaps you have plans to go to camp or on a family trip.
      • When the conversation turns to the future (for example, what will happen when you graduate from high school or college), you can say something like: "Well, it's too early to talk about what will happen to us."

   Ignore the guy to break up with him

   1. Let the guy understand that everything is over between you. If you decide that you want to end this relationship permanently, let us know. Talk to him in person (not over the phone) and be very clear. Don't make him think that you just want a break, or that he needs to wait until you get back.

      • You can say: “Our relationship is not developing. I don't want to continue them anymore."
      • You can say, “This relationship has already gone its way. I want to try something new."

   2. Remove his number from your contacts. If you're trying to get over a guy (even if you still have feelings for him), just ignore him. Start by deleting his number from your phone. If you can't just call him or send a message, you'll be less likely to get in touch with him somehow.

It is very difficult to ignore people who upset you or make you very sad. This can be even more difficult if you have to see or interact with them regularly at school, work, or family. Learn to distance yourself from such negative people and replace them with positive personalities that will contribute to your happiness and well-being.

Steps

Part 1

Learn to keep your distance

Do not visit places where you can meet such people. The easiest way to ignore a person is to avoid meeting them. To reduce the likelihood of meeting, it is enough to avoid places where you often spent time together or where this person frequents.

• Visit new restaurants, bars and cafes. Choose places that are in other parts of the city, away from the usual place of residence of such a person.
• Go to stores that are away from the person's home (if you know where they live).
• If you are invited by a mutual friend, then ask if there will be a person that you are trying to avoid at the meeting. After that, make a decision.

1. Limit interaction. Limiting contact is a great way to ignore a person without necessarily removing them from your life. Breaking all ties is very difficult, especially if you are somehow connected or working together. If you stop seeing a person regularly, you will immediately feel better.

   • Minimize conversations and interactions as much as possible, as well as the frequency of your meetings, always answering briefly and unemotionally. For example, it might look like this: “I'm fine. I need to work".
   • Resist the urge to say something mean or hurtful so as not to escalate the situation.
   • By limiting contact and avoiding unnecessary interactions with the unwanted person, you can actually cut ties with them without closing the door to polite social interaction in the future.

2. Stop attempts by such a person to strike up a conversation. If you work together, have friends in common, or just cross paths occasionally, then you need to be able to resist attempts to pull you into a conversation. Ignore the person when trying to talk to you.

   • Try to ignore what is being said to you and resist the urge to respond.
   • Being in a situation where you definitely need to say something, you can express your own thoughts / feelings on a topic that is absolutely not related to what this person said.
   • By directly ignoring what was said or speaking about your own interests, as if you did not hear this person, you are communicating that you are absolutely not interested in the conversation.

3. Take an intermediary with you if a conversation cannot be avoided. Knowing that there is no way you can hide from such a person at work or a social event, take a true friend with you. He will become a kind of buffer between you and the unwanted person, while remaining polite. He will also be able to direct the conversation in a neutral direction if an unpleasant person tries to offend you in any way.

   • Explain to a friend what you expect from him. Make sure he doesn't mind the role and that he doesn't feel insulted or taken advantage of.
   • Come up with a non-verbal signal that the two of you can use to apologize and tell everyone that you need to leave urgently.

4. Be polite to people you can't avoid contact with. If you can’t avoid meeting certain people, then you can always behave with them as politely as possible. Sometimes a kind attitude can overcome negative behavior in the people you are trying to avoid.

   • Resist the urge to be rude to people you don't like.
   • Be strong and confident. Think about your positive qualities and remember that you are a worthy person who deserves happiness.
   • Don't let negative people ruin your mood with their negativity. Rise above it by not taking part in such games.
   • If you want to be rude, say something polite, then apologize and leave. For example, you could say, "Your presentation was great. I'm sorry, I'll go get myself a coffee."

5. Stay strong and calm. If you dislike the company of a certain person, then with a high degree of probability this is a bad person. Such people usually try (consciously or unconsciously) to annoy you. They may call you a fool for trying to do something or belittle your hopes and dreams. When deciding to avoid such a person, you must remain strong and not allow yourself to be influenced.

   • Even without feeling strong and protected, it is important to maintain faith in your own strength. This way you can create a buffer zone between yourself and negative people.
   • Don't let other people's negative words or actions affect your perception of yourself or your life. By using positive affirmations and self-talk, you will be able to defeat the negative thoughts provoked by the other person.
   • Remember that you are a good person and you are dear to your loved ones. This means that you have positive qualities that a negative person simply does not want to see.

Part 2

Stop email communication

1. Block the phone number of an unwanted person. If you want to stop communicating with an unpleasant person, you can block his contact so that he cannot call you or write messages. This isn't necessary unless the person is pestering you on the phone, but it certainly won't hurt.

   Stop talking on social media. Even when you successfully avoid face-to-face contact with a person, they may reach out to you through social media. If you are on your friends list or follow a person on social networks, they will always be aware of your activities or location, and will be able to send you threatening or offensive messages.

   • If you are on your friends list or follow each other on social networks, you can unfriend or unfollow. You can also block a person so they can't see your posts or contact you.
   • If you are not on the friends list and are not subscribed to each other on social networks, or have already unfriended, then change your privacy settings so that only friends can see your posts.

2. Email filtering. If such a person has your email address, then you may be wary of aggressive or unpleasant emails from him. To prevent this, you can block messages from this person or set a filter on all messages from him (depending on the mail server used).

Part 3

Maintain your cheerfulness

1. Learn to identify the details that upset you. Sometimes there is no way to avoid the company of negative people. These may be your colleagues, relatives or neighbors, whom you periodically have to see or even communicate with them. In such cases, it is important to understand what details upset you in order to avoid such irritants.

   • Make a list of people, places, and things that might upset, anger, or annoy you.
   • Understand why these people, places, or things provoke a negative reaction.
   • Consider how these irritants might manifest in everyday life, and then create a plan to prevent or minimize these situations.

2. Learn not to complain about people you don't like. Even if it seems to you that it saves you from feeling hopeless, such actions can lead to the fact that you generally move away from other people. It can be friends of people you don't like, or people just get tired of you constantly talking bad about others. If you constantly complain about a person, then friends and colleagues with whom you spend time may want to move away from you.

   • Instead of complaining about someone you don't like, agree not to discuss them in your conversations with other people.
   • Talk about things that make you happy. Otherwise, the person you don't like will eat up too much of your time and energy.

3. Take responsibility for your words and actions. By blaming others for your own negative words and actions, you give them power over you and even lose self-control. It doesn't matter how much the other person upsets you, it's up to you to decide to get angry and lose your temper or just let it go. Your words and actions, even if prompted by another person's attitude, are your own choice and responsibility.

   • Your words and actions do not exist in a vacuum. You can't blame others for what you said or did, even if you've been upset by a person you don't want to hang out with.
   • Try to change your thoughts about this person. Thoughts determine your words and actions, so identifying and holding back negative thoughts will allow you not to give them so much importance.
   • Once you learn to ignore the upsetting person, stop thinking about them. Stop wasting your time and energy thinking about the person you don't like.

Part 4

Fill your life with positive people

1. Identify and display your best qualities. Positive people are usually attracted to each other. If you want to fill your life with positive people, then it is important to show them that you are also a positive person. You can subtly deal with this when you learn to control and show your best qualities.

   • Think about what makes you a positive person? Are you kind to people or do you show kindness in other ways?
   • Make a conscious effort to show your good qualities more often. Not only to get noticed, but to form your own positive lifestyle.
   • When it comes to your character and lifestyle, your actions should speak for you.

2. Learn to find positive people among your acquaintances. Surely you already know very strong and positive personalities. Moving away from people you don't like, it's important to replace them with people you enjoy talking to. Stay a positive person, always take care of loved ones, as they become good friends and encourage you to improve yourself.

   • Think of friends, family, and co-workers who have a positive attitude in any situation. Also, don't forget about the people who show you the most kindness, consideration, and compassion.
   • Reach out to these people. Try to spend more time with them and invite them to all social events so that you can see each other as often as possible.

3. Meet and spend time with new positive people. In addition to existing friends, you can actively look for new acquaintances. By finding new positive and compassionate people, you will further cement your social circle, filling it with good friends. So you yourself can become a good and desirable friend for others.

   • You can meet new people at the gym, church, sports club (like the travel club), and other places that positive people visit.
   • Become a volunteer. If you do good to others for free, then you will feel great and will be able to meet people who are aimed at a good cause (they are always friendly and compassionate).
   • Even a short conversation over a cup of coffee or breakfast will improve your mood.
   • Take the initiative in your own hands. If the people you enjoy spending time with are often busy, then stay in touch with them and plan your time so that the meeting is convenient for both of you.

• When you meet a person you don't like in a store, you can pretend that you haven't noticed him. Slow down, stop or turn to the side. If they turn to you, then you can say that you are in a hurry. If the above options don't work, then just stay calm.
• Having social relationships doesn't mean you have to put up with negative behavior. If you feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable in the company of a person, then you have every right to politely and respectfully stop communication.
• Don't act rude or ignorant. This will not fix the past in any way, but you yourself may well turn into a bad person.

The complexities of communication between the sexes sometimes seem insurmountable. For example, a girl meets a guy, but at some point she realizes that they are not on the same path. A person who only recently aroused sympathy, now only annoys. At the same time, any explanations with him do not give the desired result - he still considers the girl his own and does not give her a pass. If you find yourself in a similar situation, it will help to completely ignore the very existence of this person, but how to ignore a man so that he understands everything correctly and finally leaves you alone?

End the conversation with a frank conversation

If you decide to get rid of a man, gradually reducing communication to nothing, and he stubbornly continues to call and write to you, it means that he does not correctly understand your actions. Maybe, he assumes that you are moving away on purpose to kindle feelings in him. If this is not the case, put an end to the relationship by saying that you are not suitable for each other, that you are not pleased with his attempts to achieve you. Ask to be left alone forever. A smart person will accept your refusal and stop annoying.

Cut off all contact with this person.

If the guy does not leave you behind, then he draws his hope from something. Your words, actions, even views can inspire him to further conquest. For this source to dry up, you must completely disappear from his life: do not answer calls, do not meet, blacklist him on a social network, do not talk about him with anyone, especially those who communicate with this man.

Any emotion must be extinguished

This person must understand that he does not cause any feelings in you - neither positive nor negative. If he continues to follow you, he is either not very smart, since he cannot understand your words, or he is mentally ill. If this is the second option, then he will try to evoke any emotions in you, because his inferior personality is fueled by them. You may have to deal with it every day, in which case when communicating, control yourself and do not respond to his provocations, be cold and condescending to this person. When meeting, keep a businesslike tone, do not look away. In such cases, many feel awkward, but you don’t owe this person anything. If you show your embarrassment, he will definitely put pressure on guilt.

If you are not mutually in love

There is no disaster in this. Your feelings are not vicious, they just exist, you just need to try to move away from the person you love. And for this, try to disappear from his life yourself. Do not run on the first call, do not answer SMS and do not fulfill his requests if possible. Communicate less with him so as not to give yourself hope. A the best way out of this situation is to start a new relationship with the stronger sex, not necessarily romantic - friendship is enough. The main thing is that you do not get hung up on the pathological nature of your feelings and on the object of your sighs.

Not every person with whom you have to communicate makes you want to maintain this communication with him. And it also happens that any contacts with someone we know bring us only pain, disappointment and resentment. Well, some "girlfriend" likes to ruffle our nerves, and that's it! And when the nerves fail, you ask her to remember her conscience - she is offended, begins to be rude at every opportunity, and even spreads gossip about what was and what was not!

The hardest thing is to get rid of the annoying courtship of a man when he is unpleasant to you, but with his persistence again and again he tries to melt the ice of your hostility. How to ignore the guy in this case? How to convince a man of the futility of all his attempts by his behavior? And how do you learn to ignore the guy you like, but he behaves too dismissively with you?

Different situations arise when a person becomes extremely unpleasant to us. We are offended, we worry - and we get a new portion of negativity at each meeting. Often we try to somehow influence such an acquaintance of ours, to find out the relationship with her. But there is nothing more effective in such a situation than to ignore the person with whom communication brings us so many unpleasant emotions.

We have not discovered any America now, right? But think for yourself: how many of us know how to respond to insults, gossip and insults correctly? After all, what do most of us do? Each has its own way; but not every one of them makes it possible to avoid suffering, and some only further irritate the soul. Someone does not pay attention to the offender and lives on as if nothing had happened, but there are very few of them.

And someone is crying in the corner, experiencing every unfair word addressed to him. Someone retreats into himself, becomes very closed and non-contact, someone constantly feels irritated and transfers this irritation to others who are not to blame for anything. These are the most common reactions and the list could go on. But all this is wrong behavior. And what is the right way, you ask? This is what we would like to teach you!

How to behave?

The most correct thing is to show the unpleasant person that you do not want to communicate with him anymore. That is, just stop noticing all his antics, and even himself. And here's how to do it:

• Ignoring a person is a serious decision, so consider your move and try to understand if you really want to end the relationship with the abuser forever. You should not resort to ignoring for a day or a week just to attract attention and make the person who offended you feel guilty.
• Before you end the relationship, try to understand the motives of the behavior of this person, to see not only what he did, but also why he could do it. Have you done something that could have provoked this behavior? What if you yourself offended your friend with something, and she is just trying to defend herself?
• Try to ask about the reason for this attitude towards you (if you find it possible, of course). Maybe everything is not as bad as you think, and you can resolve the situation peacefully. In any case, it is worth talking first, trying to discuss your problems, and not just throwing a person out of your life without any warning.
• Be direct. If it was not possible to establish relations, firmly tell your friend that you no longer want to know her. Don't get angry, just state your decision with courtesy. Some people do not immediately understand that such a decision can be considered and final, and continue to try to communicate. Be consistent - stop taking calls from them and don't read their messages. Don't give in to attempts to provoke you into a response. Do not argue at meetings if they cannot be avoided (if this is your employee, then do not change jobs because of an intriguer!). If the pestering is too persistent, firmly and clearly say that you want to be left alone - now and forever!
• You must understand what the consequences will be. This bore will be angry, because getting rebuffed for your intrigues is not so pleasant. Prepare to withstand the siege. Let mutual friends and acquaintances know that you are going to ignore the offender. If they ask you questions, answer them. Do not try to convince them to take your side, let them form their own opinion about the situation. Just let them know about the essence of the problem and about your position.
• Refrain from any kind of contact with the person you are ignoring. If it is a man, then it will be much easier to ignore him. But if this is a woman, then it will be more difficult! At first she will be angry with you, and then she will intensively look for an opportunity to show how bad you are, since you decided to make an empty place out of her. If you do not pay attention to all her attempts, then she will seek sympathy from other people. And what she will say about you now may even be much more painful and offensive than the one that caused all the fuss and flared up. What can be done about it? If you have the courage, keep ignoring her. With people whose opinion is important to you, you have already discussed your position, and their sympathies will quickly bow to you if you behave with dignity - unlike that scandalous person who pours dirt on you. And if she goes beyond all limits, threaten to bring her to justice for slander and insults. Sometimes it works!
• When meeting, do not be tormented by embarrassment, not knowing whether it is necessary for the sake of etiquette to greet an unpleasant person. Defiantly turning away, of course, is not worth it, but you are not obliged to say hello either. And if he turns to you, or you need to tell him something (for example, if it is necessary for work), then keep communication to a minimum as possible. And if you run into somewhere on the street or in a store, then you can generally pretend that you simply did not notice him. It’s not worth changing the pace of walking or crossing to the other side of the street - this is stupid, you see. And it will look like you are afraid of him (or her). Just look through the person, as you look at people you don't know. You did not see, and that's it! And if he wants to tell you something, pretending that nothing has happened - say that you are in a hurry and cannot linger.
• Remember to restrict access to yourself and to your personal data and social networks. Adjust your privacy settings and block your Pages so that only close friends and family can see your information and photos.

After you have done all this, you can protect yourself from communicating with a person whom you no longer want to see in your circle of acquaintances. Celebrate freedom and enjoy the tranquility!

How to Ignore a Guy Who Disdains You

There are also situations when a person does not cause rejection in you, and yet it is rather difficult to communicate with him. For example, such a situation: you quite even like a guy, but his behavior is sometimes quite offensive to you. He seems to say that he has warm feelings for you, but nevertheless he pays too little attention to you, and sometimes he is generally rather dismissive. How to properly ignore a man in such a situation to make sure that his feelings towards you are sincere?

1. Don't stay close to him when he starts acting like this. You don't deserve to be treated like this! True, you should not defiantly move away from him: in this way you will only provoke a man into a conflict. You should just calmly tell him that you do not want to spend all your free time waiting for him to choose a few hours to communicate with you, or that you do not like the way he talks or behaves with you, and therefore today you want to be without him. (just don't lose sight of the fact that sometimes a man behaves rudely or dismissively with a girl simply because of the desire to attract her attention).
2. In turn, ignore it for two or more days. Don't call him first, don't text him, don't catch his eye. If he really loves you, he will definitely get worried and try to find out where you have disappeared and whether everything is in order with you.
3. When he wants to find out what happened, talk to him calmly, without tears or reproaches. Nothing is more capable of pushing a man away than female tantrums. In addition, do not start to sort things out as soon as he approaches you. If this happened in a fairly crowded place or when you are quite busy (for example, at work or at a break between couples at the institute), then resist the temptation and do not start a conversation. The best time and place for such a conversation is when you are alone and not in a hurry.
4. Ask your friends for help. Tell them that you want to stop talking to your boyfriend for a while. They will help with advice and try to keep you from situations where you might accidentally meet the man you are trying to ignore. Only you should trust exactly those friends of yours in whom you are confident, because you want to get support from them, and not gossip about you, right?

Be patient, do not rush a man, provoking him into scandals and showdowns. It is much more effective to let him really feel that you are very unhappy with his behavior. But first, try to convey to him how you feel when he behaves inappropriately towards you. Imagine: guys never have an idea how girls feel when they are neglected!

How to ignore a guy if you're in love with him

Have you fallen in love with a man, but are afraid that your feelings can hardly find a response in his heart? Well, get it out of your head! Believe me, there are guys who are much better than the one you like now. And among them, there is probably one who is now furtively sighing, looking at you. Therefore, you can start to ignore this particular man in order to free your heart for true love. Moreover, the situation may develop in such a way that you need to cool down your feelings for a guy who is either your friend at the same time, or you just know each other visually.

If he is one of your friends

• Don't blame yourself for falling in love with your own friend or buddy. This can happen to anyone. Just start taking the first steps towards moving away from him a little.
• Do not respond to his appeals at the same second as he called you or wrote SMS. For example, you can send a response message only after two or three hours.
• Never address him first, and if he asks you about something, then answer him in monosyllables.
• If he asks you for something, tell him that you are busy. Do not allow yourself to communicate with him for a long time. This will only worsen the situation.
• And best of all - get yourself new friends, and preferably of the opposite sex.

If you just know

• Try not to go where you can meet the guy you decide to ignore.
• Don't smile at him. A smile can betray your feelings.
• Do not ask your friends and acquaintances about it.
• Try not to think about the guy at all, since you've decided to ignore him.

What if they ignore you?

Everything happens in life. It may happen that you yourself are guilty of something. But what can I say - each of us was in such a skin when someone was pouting at us and pretending that we did not exist in the world. Brr, I don't want to remember! And if it did happen again - how to choose an attitude towards a person ignoring you in order to somehow influence his desire not to have business with you?

It all depends on whether you want to fix the situation yourself. If you don't value your relationship with the person who pouted on you, you can do the same and stop noticing him. And if you feel guilty about yourself and want to make peace, then you should settle your dispute so as not to aggravate the confrontation. Remember that it is far from always wise to continue to keep the brand and insist on your position!

One of the best things to do if you want to avoid hostility is to have a direct and open dialogue. If a person is too offended and still keeps a distance, start small - say "Hello!" at the meeting, smile. But for now, don't try to forcibly cross the border he has set. Show with all your behavior that you are sorry about your breakup. You'll see, he will thaw.

Whichever side of the crack that has arisen between you, you may be, remember - ignoring someone, very often you thereby harm yourself. It is always better to try and find a common language!