The closer I get to forty, the more people I know my age are getting divorced. Some don’t go to young people, but most just leave. Because they can't do it anymore.

Because life with a modern emancipated woman does not justify the psychological costs of an adult and no longer hypersexual man.

The rest are patient. For reasons of responsibility and greed: what will happen to the children, what will the relatives say, and how will I live if I give away or divide the apartment, dacha, car “acquired in a joint marriage”?

Only a few are truly happy, and even then you can’t tell whether they are happy or have learned to deceive themselves so well.

I won't write nasty things about women. I'll just write about male happiness. Have you heard of this? I didn't hear it either.

"10 ways to make a woman happy." "20 opportunities to make her orgasm." “100 words your beloved wants to hear.” The “Women’s Happiness” brand creeps in from all the cracks - just dodge. As for male happiness, the social demand for this matter is under an unspoken taboo. About how to make a man happy, if anyone stutters, it’s again women. Either through the chauvinistic “hee-hee”, or through the glamorous “syu-siu”. I have never heard men themselves talk about this topic seriously, publicly and in Russian. We have convinced ourselves that such discussions are a sign of weakness. And to overcome this misconception, you need too much courage and political incorrectness - in the modern world there is not so much.

In fact, this presumption of silence is from an honorable collection of outdated gender stereotypes that still persist only because no one has thought to break them. If we transcribe this false courage into female discourse, we get something like: “Our female lot is to love and endure.” Since such statements were popular, women's emancipation has taken a huge step forward. So huge that it seems the time has come for the emancipation of men.

No, I’m not calling anyone to a rally, I’m not suggesting that they write proclamations and fight for men’s rights. I’ll just now suggest that both you, a man, and you, a woman, find a significant answer to one bad question. It sounds like this: “Why do we need a female person at all - with all his today’s cultural and ideological load - after this person turns 40 years old and he finally loses the only thing that was feminine about him - external attractiveness? What should we do with him now?

Judge for yourself,” another peer who filed for divorce yesterday tells me over a glass of non-alcoholic mojito. - Why should I continue to endure all this?!

Let's look at things with healthy cynicism, discarding all this love-carrot that the Jews came up with so as not to pay money. A full package of women's services in Moscow today costs from 30 to 100 thousand rubles per month, depending on their quality.

There are tons of options, and I can afford any. A secretary with sex, for example, costs 70-80 thousand. Add 10 thousand to some auntie for weekly cleaning at home - and the question arises:

“Why do I need this pale, inadequate hysterical woman, who also smokes in the apartment?”

Another option: I rent a good apartment for 30 thousand to some uninhibited student with the right to regular visits on Fridays.

Finally, you can simply become a regular client of an elite brothel.

What about family comfort? What about children? What about warmth?

Yes, it costs a lot. But there is nothing left - no warmth, no comfort, no mother instilling in her children respect for their father! - the peer suddenly became wound up as if he had not a mojito in his glass, but vodka and beer.

No and it cannot be! Because 90 percent of women in a big city, even if they grew up in the provinces, very quickly become like my wife.

And there are too few of those left to risk marrying them.

What can you do with her if she becomes inappropriate?

The law, cultural norms - everything is not on your side.

You can only leave. Having suffered great losses.

Why does a man get married? There is a romantic and incorrect answer to this question. In fact, in any union of a man and a woman, a certain economy of relationships inevitably turns on, a certain “you give me - I give you” - and the violation of this unwritten regulation inevitably leads, if not to the destruction of the marriage, then certainly to the disappearance of love.

Imagine, for example, that your man becomes unconditionally passive, loses the desire to dominate at least something in the field of life. What will be your actions?

That's right, he will very soon see the dull eyes of his wife. In the same way, if a woman loses everything feminine in herself except her genitals, sooner or later she will kill herself in the eyes of her husband. To be irresponsible towards a man is her right, given to her by the law of the Russian Federation and not challenged by cultural norms.

But after 35-40, a period of illusions dying away begins, nature puts everything in its place. The vast majority of men now have no reason to sincerely continue a permanent relationship with such a woman. Those who managed to get into trouble begin to feel an irresistible desire to leave. Because the only “I am for you” that this woman had was her unearthly beauty, which no longer exists.

This means - unless her life partner has manic patience - such a woman is doomed to divorce. The man simply cannot help but leave her. Staying with a woman without the slightest “I am for you,” he loses in his own eyes the right to be called a man. But from the point of view of law and morality, he ends up in complete crap. The same modern law and modern morality that do not object to the irresponsible attitude of a woman towards a man.

A package of women's services as an alternative to marriage with an emancipated person is, of course, a barbaric view, but increasingly popular, and therefore worthy of reflection. It is better for faint-hearted women not to read further, because now I will turn on the cold shower of male pragmatism at full power.

This is a problem that for some reason we men are silent about, like a fish on ice. Show me an article in some glossy magazine with this headline: “100 reasons to tolerate a woman in your home after 40 years.” Or this: “10 reasons to tolerate a woman in your home after 40 years.” Or at least this: “5 reasons to tolerate a woman in your home after 40 years.”

There are no such publications. And there are no such reasons. Except for the only one. But it is not customary to write about her in glossy magazines.

You can tolerate a woman after 40 years in your home only if after 40 years she does NOT lose her feminine attractiveness. And at the age of 50 she does not lose her feminine attractiveness. And at 60, and even at 90.

If she understands that female attractiveness is not only about the face, breasts and buttocks. And not even common views and spiritual kinship - concepts that an emancipated woman loves to manipulate. Female attractiveness is the ability to charge the air.

Harmonize the world at least within a single home. Do not rape male and female nature, but give your chosen one what without which he cannot feel like a happy man: respect, slight dominance, peace. And without hysteria, demand from him everything without which not a single woman in the world can be happy, no matter how she positions herself. This feeling of security and everything that follows from it - tenderness, generosity, fidelity.

Dear girls and women, you, of course, can continue to experiment and indulge yourself with the illusion that your experiment is successful. I won’t even be surprised that your opinion will be confirmed by your husband. But are you sure that he has never entered the phrase “secretary with sex” into a search engine? Or “rent an apartment, pay in kind”? Really, are you sure? Exactly, exactly? We'll talk in ten years.

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Girls in love idealize their partners, considering them impeccable, and for their sake they are ready to do many crazy things. But often, the beloved turns out to be unworthy of such sincere and tender feelings for his sweet girlfriend. Over time, he will leave her, and, having wounded her heart, will leave her life forever, and even insulting, more than once, the poor fragile girl. In order to avoid such a situation, it is worth knowing six basic rules of male love, with the help of which you can easily determine whether your partner’s love is pure, or whether you are just another hobby that will be forgotten over time.

Psychology of love. Officially, there is no such science, but everyone understands perfectly well that even love has its own character. Signs of love can be equated to one of the chapters of a non-existent science that talks about true understanding and respect for a partner. But, unfortunately, none of the scientists dares to undertake the study of this subject - love! As you know, women know everything about love, and following logic, the psychology of love, as a science, can be developed by the fair sex, because no one forbids doing research in this area. Girls are experts in this matter.

Let's imagine that psychology already exists as a science. Let's begin our study with the main signs of male love.

Sign 1 – physical attraction.

The engine of humanity is the sexual instinct. Based on this, there is nothing strange that the first and main sign of a man’s love is sexual attraction to his partner. The main thing is not to confuse the presence of physical intimacy with the presence of physical attraction. Having the first one does not guarantee love and a sincere relationship on the part of a man. Therefore, it is premature to consider that love is present only in the presence of sexual contact.

Sign 2 – a man’s desire to establish a spiritual connection.

An equally significant sign is the partner’s openness to his beloved and the desire to make friends with the girl and find common interests. In such cases, the man usually begins to seek the girl’s attention in various ways. For example, making phone calls or communicating on social networks. It may seem that such behavior is slightly commonplace in our time and it is not surprising that a guy writes or calls a girl. But we shouldn’t look so superficially at such things, because what is important to us is his desire and desire to establish contact and find a common language with the girl, without a hint of sexual relations. The presence of aspiration guarantees the presence of high feelings.

Sign 3 – a man allows a woman into his personal space.

Men have always been conservative, and when they invade their personal space, they believe that a girl is limiting his freedom, which any man will not like. Following this, if a loved one not only let his girlfriend into his personal life, but also tries to make her a part of that very life, this means that he absolutely loves his soulmate. Although in most cases, the girl does not become the focus of his life, she is guaranteed one of the main roles.

Sign 4 – a man is ready to sacrifice.

If a young man makes concessions for the sake of your shining smile, is ready to correct himself, change his principles, and change things that are familiar to him, then he really loves the girl. Sacrifice for the sake of the other half is the main manifestation of love.

Sign 5 – a man shows concern.

If a lover strives to help in some way, solve all problems, take responsibility and take care of the girl’s future life, then she can proudly tell her friends that he really loves her, with all his heart, very purely and openly. The exception to the rule is whims. Even the most patient and calm person is unable to withstand the constant pressure of whims and demands. In the end, the guy may not be able to stand it and leave. In addition to the 5th sign, one can attribute the desire to give a smile and joy.

Sign 6 – a man seeks to protect a girl from hurt and pain.

A lover will never hurt. Will not intentionally offend. It's simply not possible for him. If situations occur when a loved one brings discomfort to a girl, then we can firmly state that the young man is not doing this on purpose, and causing trouble initially had completely different goals and intentions. You should not be fleetingly offended by a man, or burst into tears deliberately, to challenge him to act, since a man may understand that you are manipulating in this way. Perhaps the guy will stop trusting his beloved. And soon the love relationship will sink into oblivion, and the girl will not find anyone to blame for the breakup except herself.

If a guy is indifferent to the pain of his other half, this means that he does not love her, and, therefore, such a guy is not worthy of the attention of the fairer sex, and it is simply necessary to part with such a person.

In this article, we have given six main signs by which a girl can determine the sincerity of the intentions and words of her idealized lover.

With their help, any “princess” can make sure that her boyfriend is not just another heartthrob who enjoys the attention of women and takes advantage of their weakness.

Every girl should love and be loved! After all, they are so skilled in this difficult science called “Love”. For most girls, knowledge of the above factors will be necessary only at first, then the ability to recognize the feelings of young people will appear on a subconscious level. Without straining, the girl’s consciousness will push her to do the right thing towards the young man. More than one womanizer will not be able to fool a girl who knows these rules well, and, therefore, will not be able to break another heart.

They say that a woman has the ability to instill manifestations of love in a man, even if he had not previously seriously loved. Women are priestesses of love!

Finally, we wish our readers to meet good guys on the road of life!

What nasty things does your zodiac sign hide behind? What, you think this doesn't concern you? How concerning! After all, bastardism is inherent in everyone without exception....

Men. Look into the eyes of your Aries friend carefully - the person has been exhausted for a long time... Aries men adore sex and are confident in their Sexual Professionalism. They go crazy in bed, if you manage to get there, of course. If you have an Aries lover, get ready to copulate with him in the elevator, on the bus, and in the cinema. Don’t be alarmed, because many consider Aries to be a real paradise for the fair sex - they will hurt themselves trying to impress their woman. However, you shouldn’t joke about Aries - they don’t like it, and they have a “special” humor. Aries's own opinion on any (even unfamiliar) subject will be defended to the last. Even if he knows that he is wrong, he will still argue and swear out of principle. Aries loser is a terrible bore and grumbler, stay away from them.

Women. Well-mannered Sheep women love to have sex, push men around and read romantic porn. In bed they love obscene poses and indecency out loud. In the morning, the Sheep can easily pretend that it was not she who screamed yesterday during orgasm, and that you are strangers in general. In anger or resentment, she will do any stupid thing - including cheating with the first handsome guy she meets. He is capricious like a child, crying and stamping his feet. At this moment there is no use talking to her. For the sake of good sex, a chaste Sheep will easily leave a good man, but will tolerate the antics of some cretin, as long as he completely satisfies her. Confident in their unwritten beauty, Aries rarely overuse cosmetics. Expect violent sexual turmoil, jealousy, betrayal and intolerance; in general, you will not regret it.

Men. The Taurus man thinks to himself: “Unlike some, I can achieve everything anyway if I want. Why bother in vain? A sense of humor is not valued by these suspicious pessimists, which is why they often become the butt of jokes among their many friends. It's good that Taurus is slow, stingy and boring enough to be angry with these fools. Some bad habit (such as fiercely picking their ears or tirelessly breaking their fingers) brightens up their intense thoughts. A typical Taurus idyll: like a trophy seal, he is lazy in front of the TV, leisurely chewing or sipping, thoughtfully fiddling with his hair.

Women. Have you contacted a Taurus Woman? Give in or break up before it's too late! You still can’t overcome her stubbornness, and the scene with breaking dishes on your stupid head is not far off. If you screw up, it won't be easy to beg her forgiveness. They themselves are sometimes scared to what extent they become wild. However, between us, Taurus females, just like all of us, are no strangers to obsessive thoughts about sex, which they clumsily cover up with banal romantic tales. They are purposeful freeloaders, sensible and extremely “stubborn” in matters of the young ladies’ family. In other words, if you would like to have a large, strong family and a bunch of children, look for a Taurus Woman and get ready. I'm sure you will have a good time together.

Men. Geminis always hang out from place to place, changing friends, professions, despising schedules. They love to fool people, stir things up and make fun of people. Conceit is at the highest level, although they can list their shortcomings for hours. Don't try to win a verbal battle with them - they have a great tongue. Don’t be offended by their cruel jokes, it’s all a complete circus - in fact, envious Geminis think much worse about you. Like a true friend, a Gemini will immediately call you when he needs your help or a car. Property slips through your fingers, the future with them is unreliable, but the present is funny. Beware if your partner is a Gemini: if he is not with you now, he is probably flirting with your girlfriend in the next room. After such a boyfriend, other men will seem a little fresh to you for a long time.

Women. Although Geminis tend to sleep around in their youth, many men consider them cold. With them you could make your deepest dreams come true if you were able to realize a quarter of their fantasies. Their new ideas and eccentric antics can drive any Capricorn or Taurus crazy. Although it is believed that spiritual intimacy and money are more important than sex for a Gemini, she will happily sleep with the man she likes (even if her husband or boyfriend is sleeping in the next room). Like any ideal wife, she always prefers Career to housekeeping. Rarely speaking the truth face to face, Gemini prefers to play and speak in half-hints. The loss of a loved one or loved one awakens in her a keen interest in getting him back. I knew a couple of twins who easily combined family, work, friends and a couple of lovers.

Men. Cancer is lazy but erotic. Always with money, yet whines that he has nothing. He can be eloquent. He considers women inferior, but prefers young ones. He tends to become very attached to one and painfully experiences the breakup (sometimes even for a whole week). If he is contradicted, he may become furious and even briefly blush with anger. No one is capable of playing such an insulted “virtue” when he is actually guilty. He can easily get entangled in two pine trees himself and at the same time confuse everyone around him. Cancer husband - wasted youth and no emotional return. Anyway, good luck ladies (and gentlemen?).

Women. There is nothing more boring and whiny than the gentle Cancer Woman. If you feel sorry for her, the snot will spread to her knees. She is excited by the role of an innocent girl who is possessed by a slutty man. She is terrified of criticism, especially if they make fun of her at the same time. Just one hint of insufficient interest in her - and Rakinya is in the abyss of such depressions that neither Pisces nor Scorpios have ever dreamed of. However, do not think that this is a weak woman - she is not only vindictive and touchy, but also loves (and IS ABLE) to play on our weaknesses, dear! And he achieves considerable success in this matter. And also, don’t swear uselessly - in this case you can achieve something only with affection.

Men. The arrogant Leo is too generous to remember insults or promises. After all, he is a true Man of the Word and will definitely fulfill his promises (unless, of course, he forgets). Proud Leo does not like conflicts, but has a talent for getting into all sorts of troubles and stories. The worst thing Leo can do is bark, and his happiness is to play big in the casino. In bed he always tries to prove that he is the most tireless lover. Or maybe that’s how it is, the flattered, beautiful girls think.

Women. The vain and domineering Lioness has an enviable talent for inventing her own misfortunes. When her pride is hurt, she will not make all sorts of malicious plans, but will simply immediately express what she thinks about you and pout. A lioness often falls in love with men who don't care about her at all. Having felt love from her partner, she can mercilessly leave him. The Lioness modestly considers herself the center of the universe and her motto is simple: “You must come to me yourself.” Don’t even think about criticizing the Lioness!!! It will be worse for you. Want to please? Buy her some more expensive scrofula and tell her that she has the character (face) of an angel, that you don’t need anyone except her. Three or four days a week, the Lioness is “loaded” with depression, and the rest of the time she rightly considers herself a gift from fate for you, my friend.

Men. Teaching and secretive Virgos usually do not show their emotions, even if they have them. Thinking that they have a sense of humor, they like to tell fables from their lives, which they themselves then believe. When drunk, Virgos can cry about their first love, which, naturally, was the strongest, the most real and certainly unhappy. It's lucky that they usually don't become bosses. Woe to the poor people who fall under their subordination, for Virgo has a cash register in their head, and they only like to work to the point of exhaustion. Women, be careful: sweet-tongued Virgos know When and What to say to a woman, but this is only a manifestation of gallantry towards the entire female sex in general, so do not flatter yourself. Things usually don’t go beyond words. Virgos also like to pretend to be just friends if things don’t work out.

Women. Among the stubborn and self-confident Virgos there are many unmarried ladies, since it is difficult for them to find a person who meets their highest standards. The Virgo woman is a disaster: she is usually unfaithful, and her favorite answer is an objection. The manic desire for cleanliness is enhanced by the constant readiness to criticize you for your own good. However, Virgos are capable of sharing the roof with slackers and losers, with whom not a single decent Gemini would even sit down at the table. Girls have enough fantasy in sex for no more than three and a half poses, although they can be persuaded to do almost anything, thanks to the absence of complexes in this regard. Get to know a Virgo, at least to get to know yourself from the outside.

Men. The phrase “all life is a theater, all people in it are actors” is said specifically about Libra, who plays even when completely alone. Soft-bodied creatures of the Libra sign can more easily understand complex abstractions than everyday life. When things don't go the way they want, they become petty and irritable. A woman who decides to make a scene may consider the argument won before it even begins due to Libra men's aversion to scandals. Even if he is right, he will not prove it, but most likely retreats, maintaining his peace of mind. It is strange that among women there is an opinion that Libra men are complete hemorrhoids. In terms of friendship, they are pretty cool, although women know better.

Women. Libra women are confident in their irresistibility. At first it’s a thrill, but then it becomes boring... Over time, sexual activity gets on Libra’s nerves, since the only things that really excite them in life are applause and their own unimaginable beauty. The Libra woman is not interested in men as such; they need them only as admiring fans and spectators. If what is required is present, any of our nonsense will be listened to and our sins will be forgiven. Libra avoids unpleasant responsibilities, considering it beneath their dignity, and demands luxury. Do not try to order Libra, otherwise they will become unpredictable and even dangerous. All their lives they are looking for a person who would be their ideal partner. I hope it’s you, colleague.

Men. The vindictive and narcissistic Scorpio struggles fiercely all his life, being active in sex until his very old age. Despising the snot of weaklings, he does not tolerate objections and excuses. Never cries into his vest. Knowing everything in advance, he achieves success in any field, kicking the whiners and the insecure. Loyalty is an empty phrase, although he always takes care of his unhappy family. He doesn’t count money, but he remembers very well how many times they forgot to rejoice at his gift. You can also add stubbornness and an inability to take other people’s opinions into account to your pleasant traits. In midlife, Scorpio men usually noisily divorce their exhausted wives. Enemies, do not expect forgiveness! Only death or failure will save you from the Evil Uncle Scorp.

Women. The insidious and mysterious Scorpio woman is depraved and despises tight-fisted gentlemen. She is demanding in the bedroom, and it is difficult for lazy men to meet her high standards. She doesn’t make small talk with a loser who left her unsatisfied, and in one time (two or three) you are unlikely to get rid of her. It's funny that in her heart Scorpio is absolutely sure that other women are zero in terms of sex compared to her. That's why she gets mad when people cheat on her, unless she doesn't care about it. She will, without hesitation, take her boyfriend or husband away from her unwary friend. To any new personality, a reaction like: “Whose slave will you be?” If you like thrills, annoy Scorpio. Her rage defies any description - it needs to be seen.

Men. Assertive Sagittarius men are distinguished by a barracks-like sense of humor, terrible outbursts of irritation and medieval gallantry that is surprising in our time. Women praise passionate Sagittarius lovers for their sensitivity and ability to ignite the lights of the big city in a local bed. They actively despise female jealousy and do not miss a single skirt - of any age, appearance and behavior. Sagittarians love to talk about high topics and adore black clothes. They rarely drink, they mostly drink and have a snack, and in their old age they write memoirs that are fictitious from cover to cover.

Women. The Sagittarius woman is a Casanova in a skirt, carefreely moving from one man to another. She is vain and considers herself a sexual gift to a man. Without being ashamed, he will tell his lover about his predecessors, and, if disappointed in him, he will say so without hesitation. It's funny that men, as a rule, cheat on them with terrible force. The Sagittarius woman is the dream of a romantic or a pervert, because she is the way a man sees her, if she wants him, of course.

Men. The Capricorn man is ambitious, but lustful, petty and incredibly boring. He rightly considers all women to be slutty and actively prefers anal sex. Confident that he knows life 100 times better, he picks our brains for hours, teaching us what and how to do. He is unscrupulous in his means, intolerant of frivolity, hates when he is refused and is a real fan of work. Capricorn believes that the main goal of those around him is the desire to complicate his already difficult life. If he is seriously offended by someone, this worthless little man will be deleted from the list forever. FOREVER. If you are lucky, you will definitely marry for convenience. It's funny that for all their “advantages”, Capricorns are excellent friends. No fools.

Women. The complexed Capricorn is careful and outwardly always keeps herself in control, while inside the fire of her passions burns. She is never bored alone with herself. You won’t understand her because of her constant mood swings - either everything or nothing - that’s such a simple choice. She is deathly afraid of falling in love, looking forward to real feelings, but she often makes mistakes in her choice. “I have to be myself!” - the calculating and prim Madame Capricorn repeats to herself. After numerous love affairs, she finally gets married, but she will never be completely satisfied. At times you hate them and, under the fire of their kind criticism, you slowly go crazy. It is believed that this is the only female sign that cannot be persuaded at all.

Men. Men of this sign are shy from a sexual perspective and usually expect women to make the first move. They say that they don’t know basic things in bed, so the young ladies have to strain and teach the incompetent Aquarius. Their sexual fantasies do not go anywhere, but their energy burns out in masturbation, and if they are lucky, then in simple masturbation. Incredulous, depressed bores, they are always sad about something, they love clothes more than women, they do not really strive for the heights of erotic art, they sniffle and groan a lot in bed, believing that this is how it should be. It is interesting that Aquarius’ sense of humor dominates over everyone else, which helps them out in such an unsuccessful, at first glance, situation.

Women. Aquarius women are angry, but easy-going. They hate it when strangers look at them as an object of sexual desire, but eroticism is present everywhere for them, even in the way you hand her a coat. If you are with her for the first time today, it is unlikely that things will end in bed, but there is simply NO better FRIEND for a man (almost anyone). If it’s really bad, she’ll give it and won’t even ask who you are or where you’re from. Aquarius women do not object to men's work and can easily work as plumbers or drivers if need forces them, but, oddly enough, they do not like housekeeping, and especially cooking. They spend their whole lives searching for the perfect companion and often get married late, and the nationality, skin color and religion of her chosen one can be stunning even for herself. Of his colorful wardrobe, he prefers jeans.

Men. Embittered men of this sign do not like those who poke their noses at them with advice. Due to the lack of strong convictions and secrecy, no one understands how they really relate to people and life (and do they relate at all?). Ordinary things (for example, tying shoelaces) seem to be painful responsibilities to Fish. They may go into long periods of thought before moving a finger. It is believed that nosy fish men are good gentlemen who know how to show a woman how beautiful she is.

Women. Pisces women live in a world of illusions and incessant chatter, putting up with the constant feeling of being betrayed. They are gentle sexual partners, but almost always with a “skeleton in the closet.” Don't lie to Pisces - they have crazy intuition. Others are an open book, and Pisces have a great sense of humor about their problems. They are indifferent to alcohol, but still drink, although they are suspicious and always worry about their health.

Women are patient creatures. Especially when it comes to love. For the sake of love, we are ready to endure a lot, however, these sacrifices do not always benefit us. The ability to compromise is a wonderful quality, but compromise should in no case develop into sacrifice. A happy and strong relationship always brings joy to both partners. If you feel discomfort, think about whether the man is next to you? Here are 25 things women shouldn't tolerate from their men.

1. Lack of respect

Relationships between mature individuals are based on mutual respect. When we experience love, we automatically elevate a person’s feelings and desires to high positions. If you understand that your partner neglects your needs, hurts your feelings or causes you pain, there can be no talk of any love. Perhaps he is not yet ripe for a serious relationship or you are simply not suitable for each other.

2. Lie

You shouldn’t justify a man after catching him in a lie. Lying on his part is a sign that he doesn't trust you enough to let you into his life. And this can only mean one thing - he does not love you and does not plan to connect his life with you.

3. Aggression

A person’s level of aggressiveness depends on his temperament and upbringing. However, even the most “explosive” man easily pacifies his ardor in front of the woman he loves. If your partner regularly raises his voice or insults you, run away from him immediately. Tolerating an aggressive person is the same as poisoning your life with your own hands.

4. He never apologizes

There are no ideal people. Even the happiest couples experience conflicts and disagreements from time to time. However, loving people are ready to admit their mistakes. If in your couple apologies can only come from your lips, this relationship is unlikely to make you happy.

5. He always argues with you

If he does not agree with your opinion even on the most trifling matter and always does everything “his own way,” it means that he considers himself smarter than you. Perhaps you are in a relationship with a narcissistic egoist who will only care about himself throughout his life.

6. Betrayal

He who betrays you once will betray you throughout your life. You should not tolerate betrayal in any form, be it betrayal or neglect of your feelings. In the end, a relationship with a traitorous man will destroy your self-esteem, bringing only suffering.

7. You cry often

Do the actions, words or deeds of a man make you want to cry into your pillow? Don't deceive yourself - this is not love, but addiction, which makes no sense to endure.

8. Physical or psychological abuse

Violence in relationships is unacceptable. The manifestation of physical or psychological dominance indicates that you have connected your life with an unhealthy person who solves his internal problems at your expense.

9. Manipulation

“If you leave me, I will die!”, “If you cheat on me, I will kill you!” - and other similar phrases speak of a person’s internal immaturity. By manipulating, a man tries to tie you to himself. In fact, in a relationship he loves not you, but himself.

10. He treats you consumeristly

Some people gladly accept love, but give absolutely nothing in return. As a result, one-sided relationships acquire a consumer nature. This means that the man is next to you not because he loves you, but because it is so beneficial for him.

11. He doesn't compliment you.

A loving man is ready to shower the lady of his heart with beautiful words and compliments around the clock. If you hear absolutely no “pleasants” from your partner, most likely his feelings are not deep enough.

12. He doesn't notice your mood.

Are you angry, upset or nervous? In such a situation, a man who loves you should at least take an interest in your affairs. If your partner does not notice changes in your mood, this indicates his indifference. You just don’t occupy an important place in the ranking of his life interests.

13. He saves money on you

Cheap gifts for the holidays, separate restaurant bills and lack of financial support can indicate many things. Firstly, about the stinginess of a man, and secondly, about his disinterest. It is possible that the man does not want to “invest” in you because he is not interested in the further development of the relationship.

14. Relationships don't work out

You've been dating for several months or even years, but it seems to you that your relationship has frozen at one point? If a man doesn’t understand your feelings and hints at all, you shouldn’t waste time on him. Most likely, this format is convenient for him and connecting his future life with you is not part of his plans.

15. He hides your affair

Reluctance to advertise a relationship does not always indicate the presence of a stamp in the passport. If a man is in no hurry to introduce you to his circle of friends and family, perhaps he has not yet decided what place you occupy in his life. Sadly, he does not make far-reaching plans for you.

16. He controls you

Total control by men often flatters women's self-esteem. It may seem that if a man literally watches your every move, it means that he is afraid of losing you. In reality, this is just an unhealthy manifestation of love. It’s just that a man perceives you as his property, which should always indulge his desires.

17. He flirts with other girls

Innocent flirting is not a reason to break up. But if flirting and “playing around” with others is constantly present in a man’s behavior, it’s time to think seriously. This behavior suggests that the man still considers himself free and continues to “search.”

18. He spends a lot of time with friends

You are not the only person in his life. It also has a place for relatives, friends, colleagues and acquaintances. And that's completely normal. It’s not normal if he puts communication with friends and acquaintances above spending time with you. This format of relationship is very superficial, because he lets you into his life only when it is convenient for him.

19. He is not involved in your life.

In relationships with women, men strive to demonstrate their strength and masculinity. If your partner shows absolutely no initiative to improve your life or solve your problems, this indicates his indifference. Why tolerate next to you someone who is not ready to do absolutely anything for you?

20. Emotional instability

Today he swears his love to you, tomorrow he insists on breaking up, and the day after tomorrow he dreams of spending the rest of his days with you? This man himself does not know what he wants. He doubts, which means that he is not sure of his feelings.

21. You don't feel grateful from him

You do something for a man, but he takes your efforts for granted and doesn’t even say “thank you”? Here is a typical egoist who is ready to take, but not ready to give. A person of this type is capable of loving only himself.

22. Lack of care

Caring is manifested in small things - in calls, interest, help and support. If all this is missing, the man does not have deep feelings for you. He is dating you for some reason of his own, but not because of love.

23. Laziness

Unlike an egoist, a pathological lazy person is capable of love. But, unfortunately, love is unlikely to inspire him to fight laziness. A lazy man will always go with the flow, pulling his partner with him.

24. Equality

If a man promotes equality in relationships, it means he is not ready to take on additional responsibility. In such a relationship, you will have to solve all your problems yourself, and sooner or later the question will arise - why do I need this man?

25. He remembers his ex

Frequent mentions of an ex-girlfriend or wife indicate that the man has not yet ended his previous relationship. It is possible that he started dating you only to assert himself or to drown out internal grievances.

You yourself determine the limits of your patience. You may be able to close your eyes to some nuances, but do not forget that any discomfort destroys love, making you unhappy.