But what to do if you found out about the existence of a mistress? Today we will not go into details, whether it is necessary to take revenge on the opponent, deal with her husband or herself.

The women's site sympaty.net has prepared an article for those women who have already clearly decided that they want revenge. So, if the soul requires revenge, but you do not know how to take revenge on your opponent, use our hint.

How to take revenge on an opponent

The most logical thing is to turn to the Internet for help. At the request “How to take revenge on a mistress”, the Yandex search engine on the second line will give out a wonderful site that offers a rather sophisticated way of revenge - to send a piece of manure to the offender, beautifully wrapped in a gift box.

Next, we turn to the advice of people on different forums. The most successful ways to take revenge on my mistress seemed to me the following:

Write on the door of the apartment where your husband's mistress lives, with indelible paint, the word "F***". Wait until she repaints the door. Then write "F***" again, and so on.

You can draw a chicken egg into a syringe and squeeze it out of the door trim. After 2-3 days, the egg will go rotten, and it will be impossible to get rid of the smell.

Photocopy a photo of your mistress in hundreds of copies and send them to her every day at work by mail with your eyes gouged out.

Go to the prayer house (church) of sectarians (Seventh-day Adventists, Jehovah's Witnesses and other lovers of God) and ask them for books like for a friend, leave them her phone number. In a couple of days, they will start calling her and pestering her with talk about the meaning of life, the Bible, and so on.

Find a site on the Internet where you can send SMS for free and start sending her messages on various topics that only come to your mind. This is very nerve-wracking.

Ways to take revenge on her husband's mistress if she has a car

If the opponent has a car and you know where it is and what it looks like, then revenge is noticeably simplified:

Pour the car doors, hood and roof with valerian. Cats running from all over the area will not only stain the car, but perhaps even scratch it.

Sprinkle bread crumbs on the roof of the car. Birds will also stain the car and scratch it with their beak.

Give an advertisement in the newspaper about the sale of her car at an inexpensive price, for example: “I will sell a blue Citroen C3 in excellent condition, 2003, the price is 200 tr.” And write down her phone number.

Glue the wipers with superglue.

If it happens in winter, break an egg on the roof of the car. It will freeze tightly, and in the spring, as motorists say, it will come off only with paint. Another trick with an egg is to squeeze it out with a syringe behind the door trim, into the trunk, under the windshield. When the egg rots, you have to sell the car.

Squirt superglue into car keyholes and the key won't fit anymore.

A beautiful method of revenge is to superglue something to the car. For example, I found advice to stick a disposable cup, plate, fork and knife on the trunk lid. Pour beer into a glass, put watermelon on a plate. Nice and aesthetic

More easy ways to get revenge

To bring the opponent to white heat, and maybe to insanity, give a lot of ads with her address and phone number. For example: “I will meet a man”, “I am selling a used refrigerator”, “I am providing massage services”, “I am buying a cow”. Already feel sorry for the poor thing.

The Internet can also help. On forums and various dating sites, give an ad on her behalf, indicating her phone number, e-mail, address in Odnoklassniki or Vkontakte. Choose the text to your liking - “Mistress is looking for her slave”, “I am looking for sex for one night”, “I will fulfill any of your desires”, etc.

With the same text, post ads on the streets of the city. Even better - add a photo and post an ad in the places where she studies, works, lives. She gets a lot of attention.

More sophisticated ways to get revenge on your mistress

Here are some real revenge stories:

Wife:“The story is simple and as old as the world. We also had a mistress, but I forgave my husband and took him back. But the rival did not want to calm down in any way - she called, insulted, got it. And then I ordered a bouquet of flowers, a card, a set of hair shampoos and arranged for her home delivery on behalf of my husband. I only poured a depilatory cream into a bottle of hair balm, which works in 3 minutes. Let him wash to health!

Guest:“I also sent bouquets to my husband's mistress. And in the days when my husband spent the night at home with me and did not know anything about bouquets. The flowers were without cover letters, anonymously. After some time, the husband found out about this, began to ask from whom, but she could not answer anything. In general, their scandals began to happen more often. Moreover, she began to look around in search of "the one" who sends such expensive bouquets. My husband noticed it all. So they got it all wrong."

Lily:“I decided to create an unbearable fragrance in my rival’s apartment. It so happened that I found out the address of my husband's mistress and made a duplicate of the keys that he had. Once I climbed into the apartment and scattered everywhere under the sofa, behind the furniture, under the baseboards and carpets, fish heads, pieces of meat, broke eggs. I can imagine how she suffers from this stench ... Probably, because of this, they then broke up ”

In addition, if the rival is from your social circle, then you can start dirty rumors: they say that she decided to get pregnant and then shake out alimony from her lover. I wonder who will fall? (it is understood that you seem to be unaware of the connection between the rival and the husband). Be sure to tell your husband about this rumor in between.

Spread the rumor that the rival is a walking woman and sleeps with anyone, so it is not surprising to catch an infection from her. She herself often visits veterinary dispensaries. The news will work great if the opponent is also married. Such gossip spreads quickly and will surely reach both her and your husband.

As you can see, there are many ways to take revenge on an opponent, it would only be a fantasy. But do not get carried away with this matter, since the most touchy persons can go to court or the police on the basis of slander, damage to property, etc. So the best option is to make your rival look funny, and take care of yourself and build relationships with your husband.

Damage to a rival is a category of rituals popular among women that are used to eliminate spouses' mistresses. But in the presence of strong love, the rite can turn against the suggestive one.

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Types of damage to an opponent

Often rites are used as an alternative. Unlike similar rites from another category, corruption has an additional effect. A love spell does not always work: a person subconsciously understands that his behavior is controlled, and resists. If the victim has great willpower, and the rite is performed by an inexperienced magician, witchcraft will not work.

The effect of damage lies in the fact that if a man keeps his mistress in every possible way and resists magic, the consequences will be catastrophic. The damage is done due to the fact that the man does not return to the family. If the spouse comes back, the effect on the opponent becomes less strong.

Most often, rituals affect:

• appearance (damage to beauty);
• the ability to build relationships - (the victim will become unattractive to men).

Rites that destroy are less commonly used:

• career (financial condition);
• kind of woman;

Before inflicting damage on an opponent, they weigh all the pros and cons, be sure to put protection against rollback. If the victim can and slander, the negative program is returned to the caster.

How to get rid of your mistress yourself

It is easy to spoil a mistress if the woman has a superficial relationship with a man. Protection from any magic - love when there is not enough of it in the union, little will interfere. To disfigure an opponent, a simple ritual is performed. Take:

• a ball of thread;
• mirror;
• a small wax doll;
• image of a homeowner (if any).

They go with prepared attributes to an open field, find a windy place. If there is a picture of a mistress, they cut out the face and attach the doll to the head. Wrapping threads slowly volt, saying:

I will confuse you with chains, (name), I won’t let you live, I won’t let you sleep. So that your body suffers, so that the disease overcomes you, so that your beauty is taken away, so that your body becomes ugly. So that (the name of the spouse) stops loving you, so that you never find a husband forever.

The text is repeated while the figure is wrapped with thread. You can crush the chrysalis so that the volt becomes crooked and ugly. During the procedure, they imagine how the beautiful body of a woman has become ugly, with swollen joints and crooked fingers.

When the first part of the ritual is over, put the volt on the mirror and shout:

Wind, wind, I appeal to you! I beg you, take away from (name) her youth and beauty!

The phrase is repeated three times, after which they bury a volt in a wasteland, turn their backs to the west and say seven times:

I will face the east, I will lock myself with the royal key, whoever wants to harm me, the demons will turn him around. Do not get rid of grief, do not get away from demonic torment. I said forty words to close myself from any malice. Word, deed. Amen.

While they are saying the words, they join their palms together to protect themselves from the rollback action. The used mirror of the house is wiped from dust and thrown up or given to the homeowner. The ritual will take effect soon. It is better to get rid of the mirror before the next dawn. If there is no time to put an attribute on a mistress, the mirror should be broken and the fragments should be buried.

Ritual for constant illness

If the ex-spouse no longer returns to the family, if they want to punish the new girlfriend of the husband, they use a rite that provokes the appearance of diseases in the rival. The sorcerer does not choose how the defeat is dealt. A negative program will independently find a weak spot and begin to destroy. For the ceremony take:

• apple;
• wax candle.

candle apple knife

The apple is often used in witchcraft rituals. Often, but it is possible to damage the fruit. They put a burning candle on the table, take an apple in one hand, a knife in the other. They imagine that this is not a fruit, but the body of a rival. Focusing on anger, they represent what they want for the homeowner. A knife makes several cuts and holes on an apple, saying:

As this apple will rot, so the servant of God (name) will not be in good health.

Pronounce the plot 40 times. After that, they take a candle and drip 13 drops of wax onto the fruit. An apple is buried in a wasteland. As the fruit rots, diseases develop in the victim. When the fetus completely rots, the strongest disease will overcome the lovebird. Corruption will not bring a person to the grave: if desired, they resort to other rituals.

The mistress is disgusted after lining

To make a rival unhappy in a relationship, do lining. An important condition is observed: the lining should not be detected. If it is found and burned, not all recoil protection will be able to protect.

For the ritual you will need:

• black wax;
• branches (preferably those from which you can weave a wreath, not very dry).

Late at night they come to the intersection of two paths. They sit down near the chosen place and begin to weave a small wreath from the collected branches, saying:

I weave a wreath for you (name), happiness - I will take joy.

Repeat the phrase until the wreath is ready. Then a black candle is lit, and the wreath is poured with melted wax. The more wax the better. Accompany the action with the words:

Evil spirits, help, take away love from life (name). From now on, she will not be loved. Don't want her. Let him toil, wander, and wash himself with tears. Let it be so!

When the wax has cooled, they take a wreath, leave the candle at the crossroads. Turning their backs to the place of the ritual, they throw coins over their left shoulder with the words:

They go away. On the same night, the finished lining is thrown into the home of the homeowner. It is easier to fulfill if the woman lives in the private sector. When a mistress lives in an apartment, a wreath is placed in a slot in the house. After the ritual, the woman will not be lucky in relationships with men, she will become disgusted with them.

A simple conspiracy to eliminate an opponent

If you want to ward off your mistress from your spouse, you will need 2 stones for the ceremony. You need to take them near the house where lovers meet. Stones are brought home and hidden in the farthest corner from the front door for 6 days.

Then with stones at one in the morning they go to a deserted intersection of roads. Standing in the center of the designated place, say loudly:

Neither during the day, nor at early dawn, nor at sunset, nor at the late moon. Do not be together with the servants of God (names). Do not sit next to the servant of God (name) next to the evil woman (name of the rival), do not be near him, be with me only. The slaves (the names of the husband and the homeowner) no longer look at each other, do not meet with each other, but quickly scatter on opposite sides of the road. As two roads diverge in different directions, so my husband (name) will part with the slave (name) forever and will never converge back. May it come true what is said. Amen.

The theme of male infidelity is probably inexhaustible. Happy are those women who have never experienced this! But what to do if you found out about the existence of a mistress? Today we will not go into details, whether it is necessary to take revenge on the opponent, deal with her husband or herself. So, if the soul requires revenge, but you do not know how to take revenge on your opponent, use our hint.

How to take revenge on your opponent.

The most logical thing is to turn to the Internet for help. For the query “How to take revenge on a mistress”, the Yandex search engine on the second line will give out a wonderful site that offers a rather sophisticated way of revenge - to send a piece of manure to the offender, beautifully wrapped in a gift box.

* Write on the door of the apartment where your husband's mistress lives, with indelible paint, the word "F***". Wait until she repaints the door. Then write "F***" again, and so on.

* You can draw a chicken egg into a syringe and squeeze it out of the door trim. After 2-3 days, the egg will go rotten, and it will be impossible to get rid of the smell.

* Photocopy a photograph of your mistress in hundreds of copies and send them to her every day at work by mail with your eyes gouged out.

* Go to the prayer house of sectarians (Seventh Day Adventists, Jehovah's Witnesses and other lovers of God) and ask them for books like for a friend, leave them her phone number. In a couple of days, they will start calling her and pestering her with talk about the meaning of life, the Bible, and so on.

* Find a site on the Internet where you can send SMS for free and start sending her messages on various topics that only come to your mind. This is very nerve-wracking.

Ways to take revenge on her husband's mistress if she has a car

If the opponent has a car and you know where it is and what it looks like, then revenge is noticeably simplified:

* Pour car doors, hood and roof with valerian. Cats running from all over the area will not only stain the car, but perhaps even scratch it.

* Pour bread crumbs on the roof of the car. Birds will also stain the car and scratch it with their beak.

* Give an advertisement in the newspaper about the sale of her car at an inexpensive price, for example: “I will sell a blue Citroen C3 in excellent condition, produced in 2003, the price is 200 tr.” And write down her phone number.

* Glue the wipers with superglue.

* If it happens in winter - break an egg on the roof of the car. It will freeze tightly, and in the spring, as motorists say, it will come off only with paint. Another egg trick is to squeeze it out behind the door trim, into the trunk, under the windshield. When the egg rots, you have to sell the car.

* Squeeze superglue into car keyholes and the key will no longer fit.

* A beautiful revenge method is to stick something to the car with superglue. For example, I found advice to stick a disposable cup, plate, fork and knife on the trunk lid. Pour beer into a glass, put watermelon on a plate. Beautiful and aesthetic.

More easy ways to get revenge

To bring the opponent to white heat, and maybe to insanity, give a lot of ads with her address and phone number. For example: “I will meet a man”, “I am selling a used refrigerator”, “I am providing massage services”, “I am buying a cow”. Already feel sorry for the poor thing.

The Internet can also help. On forums and various dating sites, give an ad on her behalf, indicating her phone number, e-mail, address in Odnoklassniki or Vkontakte. Choose the text to your liking - “Mistress is looking for her slave”, “I am looking for sex for one night”, “I will fulfill any of your desires”, etc.

With the same text, post ads on the streets of the city. Even better - add a photo and post an ad in the places where she studies, works, lives. She gets a lot of attention.

More sophisticated ways to get revenge on your mistress

Here are some real revenge stories:

Wife: “The story is simple and as old as the world. We also had a mistress, but I forgave my husband and took him back. But the rival did not want to calm down in any way - she called, insulted, got it. And then I ordered a bouquet of flowers, a card, a set of hair shampoos and arranged for her home delivery on behalf of my husband. I only poured a depilatory cream into a bottle of hair balm, which works in 3 minutes. Let him wash to health!

Guest: “I also sent bouquets to my husband's mistress. And in the days when my husband spent the night at home with me and did not know anything about bouquets. The flowers were without cover letters, anonymously. After some time, the husband found out about this, began to ask from whom, but she could not answer anything. In general, their scandals began to happen more often. Moreover, she began to look around in search of "the one" who sends such expensive bouquets. My husband noticed it all. So they got it all wrong."

Lilia: “I decided to create an unbearable fragrance in my rival's apartment. It so happened that I found out the address of my husband's mistress and made a duplicate of the keys that he had. Once I climbed into the apartment and scattered everywhere under the sofa, behind the furniture, under the baseboards and carpets, fish heads, pieces of meat, broke eggs. I can imagine how she suffers from this stench ... Probably, because of this, they then broke up ”

In addition, if the rival is from your social circle, then you can start dirty rumors: they say that she decided to get pregnant and then shake out alimony from her lover. I wonder who will fall? (it is understood that you seem to be unaware of the connection between the rival and the husband). Be sure to tell your husband about this rumor in between.

Spread the rumor that the rival is a walking woman and sleeps with anyone, so it is not surprising to catch an infection from her. She herself often visits veterinary dispensaries. The news will work great if the opponent is also married. Such gossip spreads quickly and will surely reach both her and your husband.

As you can see, there are many ways to take revenge on an opponent, it would only be a fantasy. But do not get carried away with this case, since the most touchy persons can go to court or the police on the basis of slander, damage to property, etc. So the best option is to make your rival look funny, and take care of yourself and build relationships with your husband.

Men tend to cheat on their wives. Unfortunately, about 75% of women are faced with infidelity of their husbands. Moreover, husbands do not always decide to leave their ladies by marriage, while they do not limit themselves to having affairs on the side. And here, wives who find out about the betrayals of their husbands want to. How to punish the one who is often addressed with such words as “whore”, “razluchnitsa”, “kept woman”, “scoundrel”, etc.?

The women's magazine site understands the psychology of a woman at the moment when she finds out about her husband's infidelities. As soon as it turns out that the husband has a mistress, the woman immediately wants to get even with her for her suffering. Here, of course, you can go to a meeting to fight, tear out a tuft of hair or insult with the last words. But it should be understood that this meeting will be told to the husband in all details.

If a woman wants to take revenge on her mistress, while not losing her husband, and perhaps even showing him what a lady of a worthless breed he met, you need to act gracefully and beautifully.

When a woman wants revenge, she turns to the Internet for advice. Here, numerous sites offer their own options for "punishment" with a mistress. But, as it turns out, not all of them are good and worthy of the behavior of an adult woman. If you are not a teenager, then you definitely do not need to do:

1. Find out the address of your mistress in order to write an indecent word on her door.
2. Turn to fortune-tellers and sorceresses so that they send a curse on their mistress. It's a waste of time. There is no magic and lapels-love spells. By pure chance, a mistress may fall ill or break a heel on her way to work. However, all these manipulations will definitely not cause her any harm.
3. Damage the property of a mistress. Understand that this is, firstly, an illegal act. If you damage her car, she can charge you a fee to restore her property. You are only hurting yourself in this case. Secondly, damage to property will not discourage the mistress, will not bring her significant harm, and the husband will generally begin to think of you as crazy.
4. Address sectarians, convincing them that the mistress is a "fallen woman." Most likely, the sectarians will be interested in you, because it is you who need help and support.
5. Dissolve unpleasant gossip about your mistress. Of course, you will be pleased to talk about various nasty things about your mistress. However, understand that the truth may come out. As a result, people will begin to distrust you, and even consider your mistress right.
6. Become friends with your mistress. Why are you such a friend? You will definitely not be able to make friends with a rival, and every time you will experience pain inside when you start to imagine how your husband hugs and kisses your new girlfriend. If you want to influence your mistress through friendship, then you will not succeed. Most likely, the mistress definitely does not want to be friends with you.

Safety regulations

If you decide to take revenge, then always make decisions with a cold head. Otherwise, you will only do stupid things that will affect your reputation and ruin your relationship with your husband and other people. The safety rules when committing revenge will be:

• Always remember the law. Do not take actions that violate it.
• Do not act impulsively, always think carefully about each step.
• The plan should be simple and at the same time good.
• Keep calm, restraint, composure.
• Do not think constantly about your mistress. Perhaps she does not need revenge at all. Take some time to think about other issues in your life. It may turn out that the mistress is not worthy of your attention and strength.
• Take care of yourself. Do this as soon as you take revenge on your mistress or when you find out about your husband's infidelities. It is better to spend your energy on yourself so as not to waste time on someone else's life.

Through the Internet

You can take revenge on your mistress through the Internet. Here you can use social networks, free Internet offers and more. We create a fake page on which we post a photo of our mistress, after which we indicate her phone number and offers of sexual services.

If you decide to sit on a dating site or social networks, then you can communicate with men and offer them intimate meetings. Leave the phone number of your mistress, you can even indicate her address, if you know. Let men call and come to her with intimate intentions.

beautiful options

In life there are situations in different ways. To take revenge, it is not recommended to go the usual way that other people have already walked. Take advantage of the opportunities that you have. Beautiful options for revenge would be:

1. Become the mistress's boss. If you work at the same job, then you can do everything to become the main mistress. Then you can make her life at work unbearable.
2. . It can be a husband, her official boyfriend with whom she is dating, or a former boyfriend with whom she is still in love. If you know who the mistress values, start to beat this man away from her. In the easiest option, you can simply hint to the lover's partner that she has a lover.
3. Set up a meeting between the mistress's husband and her lover. If you know when the lover meets your husband, then invite the lover's husband (or her boyfriend) there at the same time. You can ask a friend to call his mistress on the phone so that her husband picks up the phone, and then communicate as if they were dating. If a husband is outraged that a lover is calling his wife, then you need to insist that they have been dating for a long time. By the way, this option can be done for your husband. Let your friend call his mistress when she is at a meeting with your husband, and introduce himself as her lover, with whom she has been dating for a long time.
4. Take pity on your mistress with an unkind word. For example, talk about how she has been unhappy since she started dating your husband. But nothing shines for her, because her husband is only having fun. If he wanted to leave you, he would have done it a long time ago.
5. Use sarcasm. If you are familiar with your mistress, then you can pretend that you do not know about her relationship with your husband, but say all sorts of unpleasant words to her, such as: “You look bad. Did something shine? .. You have recovered so much lately. Obviously fell in love unhappily ... I heard you are dating someone. This man clearly does not appreciate you, since he cannot even buy you a new dress.
6. Talk about "feminine". If you know your mistress, then one evening in the presence of your husband you can talk about another man with whom your mistress once met or is dating: “Yesterday I saw you with Vasya. Handsome man! So smart and attentive! Apparently, he gave you such a chic gift? ..». If the mistress refuses, they say, she has not seen anyone, then smile and wink (you understand everything and accept the right of the mistress not to talk about her personal life in the presence of third parties).
7. Hire a male tempter. Let him seduce your husband's mistress. Of course, this option may not work if the mistress is in love with your husband. However, if she is just unhappy with him, looking for love, money or sex, then another man can definitely distract her.

non-standard

We continue to consider options for revenge on lovers, in particular on a mistress, in order to save our face and breed doves. Here you can act non-standard:

• Pavlov's dog Find out the name of the perfume your lover wears and start spraying it on the garbage bag. Let a man throw out the garbage every morning, hearing this perfume smell.
• Venereological diseases. Tell your mistress casually that you were recently tested for HIV diseases and something was revealed in you. Naturally, you got the infection from your husband, because you don't sleep with anyone else. “He probably got infected from a whore, but he is still silent about who.”

Of course, these options for revenge will not cause much harm to lovers. Understand that a mistress may get angry at your trick and begin to take revenge in response.

Through jealousy

In order for the mistress to start making mistakes in relations with your husband, why push him away from herself, you need to resort to jealousy. Start making your mistress jealous of a man for you. How to do it?

1. Seduce your own husband. Remember your feminine charms. Start dressing beautifully, make up, flirt with your husband, seduce him. Over time, the husband will become interested in you again. And then the mistress will definitely begin to be jealous of him, because he will cool off a little towards her.
2. Set an example of a good marriage relationship. Even knowing that, still remain friendly and kind to him. Continue to have a good marital relationship with your husband, showing that your mistress will not be able to destroy them.

You can take revenge on your mistress and even your own husband in various ways, if you know their individual characteristics and desires. However, first think about the following: is it necessary to take revenge? After all, you can scare away one mistress, but after her, a second and a third may appear. Will you take revenge on your mistresses every time, or will you still start to deal with your husband?

Lovers themselves are not to blame for anything. Here you need to take revenge on your husband, who allowed mistresses to appear in your life. You will take away one woman, but he will soon get another. Cheating only hurts the first time you find out about it. In subsequent times, you yourself are already starting to beat if the husband continues to cheat.

The most correct answer

If you want to take revenge, and not only your mistress, but also your husband, then start taking care of yourself. Become beautiful, successful, happy, cheerful. You may then want to leave your husband altogether, which will force him to leave all his mistresses, because he does not want to lose such a wonderful woman like you.

A stupid woman watches over her husband, while a smart woman prefers to watch herself. If you always remain independent, joyful, independent and beautiful, then your husband will be afraid to cheat on you. You will no longer worry about his betrayals, but he will begin to suspect you of a possible betrayal, since a beautiful woman is always interested in men.

How to proceed in the end?

Think about it, maybe no one needs to take revenge, and the best option would be to break off relations with her husband. Thus, you will save yourself from the traitor, his mistress, unpleasant feelings towards these persons, the need to take revenge, spend your time, effort and nerves on this. You will just break up and allow yourself to live a happy life instead of fighting other people.

When a wife does not forgive her husband, but is ready to leave him, then he begins to understand a lot. Perhaps in such a situation, the husband will break off relations with all his mistresses so as not to lose his wife.

Unfortunately, some women may face such an unpleasant situation as cheating on their spouse. Of course, at such moments it is very difficult to control yourself, and you want to at least slightly alleviate the pain that has fallen. Someone needs complete solitude and separation from her husband for this, someone is looking for an outlet in other relationships, and someone wants their mistress to experience similar suffering. What about women who belong to the latter category?

Revenge on a mistress and when it is appropriate

Of course, there are situations when revenge on the homeowner is more than appropriate - at least the offended wife sees no other way out for herself. We give examples of situations in which this is relevant.

When it's the only way to calm down

You have tried many ways to calm down and cross out that difficult period from your life. Perhaps your relationship with your husband has already improved, and he does not even remember that other woman. It may be that you broke up with your spouse and have been living your life for a long time. Whatever it was, but you still have not let go of that situation, and you don’t know what to do to forget about what happened. This is especially the case if the mistress initially knew about the presence of a spouse and plotted some kind of intrigue. In this case, the woman feels offended for another long period, and, undoubtedly, she sees only one way out - to deliver to the offender no less unpleasant moments than fell on her fate.

When does it make sense to fight for a husband

The husband has not fully decided with whom he wants to stay in the future - with you or with his mistress. You understand that your chances with another woman are approximately equal, and no matter how offended you are by this fact, you want to save the family. In this case, you, of course, need to somehow eliminate the opponent. By choosing the right revenge plan, you can certainly unsettle your mistress or make her significance to your spouse noticeably increase. It is also possible that the lovebird is not as interested in your husband as he is in her, and that woman simply does not need unnecessary problems - it will be easier for her to abandon this man than to confront his wife.

When revenge is a way to return a spouse to the family

The husband was too carried away by this special person, and now, unfortunately, there is practically nothing left of your family. Nevertheless, it is very difficult for you to come to terms with this circumstance - you want to return the interest of your spouse to yourself. Of course, you could hope that one day your husband will get tired of another woman, and he will want you back, but every day the waiting becomes more and more unbearable. In this case, it is not surprising if you decide to act actively and take certain steps in an attempt to win back an unfaithful spouse. One such step may be an elaborate plan for revenge on a mistress.

How to punish your husband's mistress to win

You should act and look like you are a completely happy person. Believe me, such behavior will greatly infuriate the potential homeowner and confuse her. Mentally, she believes that since your husband is cheating on you, then there are problems in your marriage, and, for sure, you are a real miser or just a gray mouse. Your task is to show your mistress (you can through social networks, for sure, she looks through them) that you live a full and eventful life. Work on your style, take care of the figure, the image. Find exciting hobbies, look mysterious and peaceful. Such changes will not only piss off your mistress, but also make your husband look at you differently. The main thing is not to deviate from the intended course, but to try to really change your life, no matter how hard it is for you.

How to take revenge on your mistress so that your husband does not suspect anything

Send offensive SMS to your mistress with unpleasant content

No matter how confidently the husband’s mistress behaves, offensive words will be unpleasant for her - even if she does not show it. Of course, in this situation, you need to act anonymously.

If you want to act openly, you can write to her that, of course, you know about her existence, and you feel sorry for her, you would not want to be in her place. Add: “Well, hang on there, your position is unenviable. I guess there was no other choice." Such compassion on your part is likely to confuse your opponent. In addition, she will feel stupid if she finds out that you feel sorry for her. Yes, and the sharpness of feelings from secret dates with your husband will come to naught.

How to humiliate your husband's mistress with clever words

You can write her a short but caustic phrase. It does not matter even if these words are somewhat different from the truth. A woman who is in the status of a lover is subconsciously very vulnerable, she understands that in general, such persons are usually condemned and not respected, no matter how hard she tries to prove the opposite. Mentally, she is constantly trying to justify herself, and any reproaches or ridicule will be painful for her. Examples of similar phrases:

• It must be unpleasant to be second rate.
• When God created decent women, he decided to save money on you.
• Surprisingly, you don’t shine with your mind and didn’t come out with a face. The only thing left is to cling to men with other "talents".
• It's not easy for you to be a disgrace to your family, is it?
• Delicious leftovers or are you used to it already?

Examples of SMS text to an opponent from her husband's wife

• A sheep that decides that it can take a man out of a family can only take a ram.
• In line for female dignity, you were probably the last.
• I wanted to write you something humiliating, but I thought that the status of a mistress is already humiliating in itself, that's enough for you.

Frame her or slander her through acquaintances or through the Internet

If you somehow obtained intimate photos of your mistress (for example, on your husband’s phone) or other facts discrediting her, then, of course, you can send this information to close people and possible enemies of a potential competitor. All women she knows can be recommended to look after the chosen ones well, because their friend is very greedy for other people's husbands. You can write something similar to her former classmates or classmates - as a rule, girls tend to look impeccable in front of such acquaintances, to show that they have achieved something since their last communication, and, of course, a tarnished reputation with a relationship with a married man will seriously upset them. Of course, it is worth acting anonymously. However, note that later you may very much regret your act, because, no matter how you look, such behavior does not paint a woman. Such a step is justified if the mistress behaved frankly meanly, openly offended and insulted you.

Get your mistress with calls, knowing her phone number

By the way, you do not have to get her calls personally. Use all her phone numbers that you know (personal, work, home). After that, hang ads in any area, in which indicate its data (name, phone number). The announcement can be for every taste: “A pretty girl will brighten up the evening for a pleasant man”, “I provide erotic massage services”, “I will rent an apartment by the hour and by the day”, and so on.

Use magic to punish the lovebird without hurting yourself

Some women are convinced that the power of magic can put the woman in her place. Someone independently searches for suitable spells on the Web, others rely on the help of specialists who offer their participation in such resolutions of family problems. If this approach is close to you or you are desperate and see no other way out, of course, it is quite possible to turn to people involved in magic for help. However, it is better to opt for a white magician whose reputation you have no doubts about.

Write an anonymous letter to her husband if she is married

Think carefully before taking such a step. Of course, you want to harm your mistress, but such an act can turn against you. Let's take a closer look at when it is appropriate and when it is better to choose a different method.

So, if you are reunited with your husband again, and he doesn’t even want to hear about his former mistress, then you may well take revenge on her for your suffering by introducing a “fly in the ointment”, or even completely destroying her family.

Also, this method is appropriate if you yourself broke up with your husband, and you no longer want to reunite with him - then you have nothing to lose.

It’s another matter if you want to save the marriage, but your husband hasn’t decided yet, and he still has warm feelings for his mistress. In this case, your letter to her spouse can accelerate the collapse of her family, and nothing will stop her from reuniting with your spouse - she will even strive for this. As long as this woman does not leave her family, you are more likely to keep yours.

In the event that nothing is holding you back in writing a letter, and you have nothing to lose (you don’t want your husband to return or you know for sure that he is no longer interested in his former lover), then, of course, you can “hit” her quite painfully like this step. Write to the spouse of the homeowner, how his chosen one did, and, if possible, provide any evidence.

What to do if the ex-lover of her husband does not leave alone

Talk face-to-face in person

It is possible that your spouse's mistress is a confused woman who either does not know what she needs, or does not have complete information about the life of your family and other nuances. You can arrange a meeting with her and bring her to an open conversation. Find out what her goals are, what she achieves. Tell that you live well with your husband, and he considers his relationship on the side a mistake. Ask if she is really tempted by the status of a potential homeowner and does she really not understand how her husband's family will treat her later. If you have children in common, mention this, specifying that even if the spouse left, you are already forever connected with him by children, and he would still take part in their life, perhaps even in secret. Is she tempted by such a prospect. Note that you are not in the mood to break up the family, and are ready to fight for what you have created, and if this woman is set up for a long confrontation, then you can only sympathize with her.

Make it clear that she is a page-turner in her husband's life.

In this case, social networks can help you. Surely, the mistress has viewed your page more than once for one reason or another, and will periodically do this for a very long time. Your task is to demonstrate to her that everything is fine in your marriage, your family is happy. Even if she thinks that all this is for show, it will still hurt her and repel her from your husband. You can add optimistic entries from various groups, the general meaning of which is that in the life of any family there are difficulties, but all this is overcome. Or something about a new bright streak in your life. You can also pick up records that make fun of lovers.

Of course, posts from various communities are indispensable. Add photos to the page - with your husband, with flowers, with your family, and so on. Perhaps it is not even worth mentioning that in these pictures you should look happy and serene. Of course, this will not be too easy to do if everything is still difficult in your family, but if the husband really wants to save the family, then there will be enough “material” to maintain such an optimistic page.

How to behave with your husband

If you want to save the family, then give your husband a certain period of time so that he decides with whom he will stay - say that you still have feelings for him, so you give your family a chance, let him decide in the allotted time what to do next. Calmly tell him that whatever choice he makes, let it be final - at least for you it will be so. Then act according to the development of events. If the spouse chooses another woman, then gather your strength (it is better to prepare mentally for such an outcome in advance) and let him go. No matter how painful it is, understand what a life test is like for you, and you need to go through it with dignity so that in the future you will not be ashamed of your behavior. Read articles on how to come to terms with the departure of your husband, attend trainings, but in no case do not hold him back - such behavior can only bring a temporary effect, amuse your mistress and provoke only pity or irritation from your husband. Show them that they underestimated you and that you are stronger than anyone thought.

If the husband wants to save the family, and you are also set on this, then try to cross out all the talk about your mistress, like a bad dream. It is important that the husband understands that you will make any decision, and do not demand to leave your mistress. His return should not look like a favor or a sacrifice - let him make the final choice on his own. Determine why problems occurred in your family, what was missing in your marriage, and together begin to build new harmonious relationships.