Valeria Protasova

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Often, future daughters-in-law, following the advice of their friends, prepare for a protracted war with their mother-in-law. Despite the fact that your man's mother may be a golden person, you will set yourself up for conflict. You shouldn't listen to someone. You can have a wonderful relationship with your mother-in-law. The main thing is to be able to learn how to say “no” in time and gently, as well as to know some ways and techniques of communication.

• Reasonable Refusal

If you are tired of your mother-in-law's advice and moralizing, try talking to her about it. Gently say that you are not ready to fulfill her requirements and tasks. Be sure to say why: “My dear mother-in-law, I appreciate your advice, but I can’t do this because ...”. The main thing in this method is a brief statement of the reason.

In the event that your mother-in-law is a very persistent person, you can apply the method of three reasons. Prepare your speech in advance, analyze and come up with 3 main reasons. Usually the mother-in-law takes your place and understands your refusal.

• Straightforward failure

A daughter-in-law who has a more aggressive mother-in-law must learn to defend her opinion. In the case when the second mother begins to climb into the life of the young, you should clearly set the boundaries and make it clear that the mother-in-law's advice will not work on your territory.

Straightforward refusal can be soft. For example, address like this: “Sorry, mom, I can’t do as you ask,” “Mother-in-law, I don’t have free time now to do ...”.
Of course, the mother-in-law should quickly understand that you don’t need her advice, you yourself can do an excellent job with housework and solve all the problems of your family life.

In the event that the mother-in-law goes on the offensive again and again tries to teach her daughter-in-law, it is worth using a different technique. It's called the Broken Record Technique. You can repeat the above phrases to all the requests and words of the mother-in-law.

You should listen to her opinion, and then, without asking questions, repeat and repeat “no”. This technique should be used when dealing with assertive and stubborn people.

• Delayed Rejection

The essence of this method is to agree with the advice, analyze it, and then decide whether it is worth taking it. You don't need to come up with any reasons for not doing the requests, you should directly say that you need to consider the offer.

For example, answer something like this: “I need time to think. Let's discuss this proposal later", "Before deciding, I should consult with my husband", "I want to think about new information for me."
Having explained the mother-in-law in this way, the daughter-in-law wins additional time not only to think over the proposal, but also to help close people-advisers.

• Compromise refusal

Learn to answer your mother-in-law so that she understands you the first time. If you are not ready to fulfill her demands and requests, try to find a compromise solution for you.

Example: mother-in-law lives with your family together in the same area, asks you to give her a lift every day to work. In order not to be late, not to swear every morning, “go” towards the second mother, say this: “I can give you a ride only if you are ready at 7.30 in the morning.”

Another example: the mother-in-law does not live with you, but asks her son to call on her every day. Talk to her, say: “Mother-in-law, we would love to visit you every day, but we do not have such an opportunity. We will be able to visit you on Saturday and Sunday.”

Learn to find compromises, without them in family life - nothing!

• Hidden refusal or "do it, but do it wrong"

You may agree with the mother-in-law's advice, but you will not put it into action. Using the hidden “no” technique, you can avoid a conflict situation with your second mother, or a husband who may agree with her.

Listen to her carefully, agree, but do it your way. Example: you and your husband moved into a new apartment and decided that you would do the repairs yourself. The mother-in-law suggests that you make yellow walls in the kitchen. Go towards her, agree, and then decide with your husband what color the wallpaper in the kitchen will be.

When she asks why they decided not to do what she wanted, you can simply say that you changed your mind.

• Hidden refusal or "promise and don't do"

Do not forget, if you do not want to destroy the good ones, agree with everything that she tells you and advises you. You can always analyze the situation, sort out the problems and decide whether or not to follow the advice of the second mother.

You can answer like this: “OK, I’ll do it”, “Of course I’ll buy it”, “I’ll definitely do it one of these days”, “I’ll go soon”, etc. It is important to say and agree, but it is not necessary to do.

• Rejection with irony

All the advice of the mother-in-law can be translated as a joke. For example, when asked to have a dog or a cat in the house, answer that you will get 10 kittens at once. The mother-in-law may continue to persuade you, then tell that cute kittens will interfere with the squids that are already living in the bathroom. Thus, you can translate any request or advice as a joke.

Treat the rules and requirements of the mother-in-law with a smile on your face and happiness, then you will definitely never have a conflict!

• Rejection Through Compassion

Any woman can be made to empathize. The “Calling for Compassion” technique is needed for those daughters-in-law who want to attract attention to themselves and show their mother-in-law that they have absolutely no free time to follow certain rules.

Treat your mother-in-law as a friend, tell her about your problems, share the things you do every day, explain that you simply won’t physically have time to do what she asks for.

As a rule, the second mother will understand you and will no longer pester you with her requests.

• The Open Door or Consent Technique

When communicating with the mother-in-law, one should clearly distinguish between criticism and emotions. You can agree with criticism, facts, while saying that you agree and are really doing something wrong.

Leave the emotional side behind. Your answer should be short and clear. You should not make excuses and explain to your mother-in-law why you are doing it this way and not in another way.

During the conversation, you should not be offended or indignant, you should not even translate criticism into a joke. It is better to agree, and with every remark of the mother-in-law. The technique is called so because the mother-in-law wants to break the door to you, and you open it yourself.

• Policy of containment or polite refusal

In order not to argue with your mother-in-law, you can follow a containment policy. Do not take comments, advice, requests too harshly. Learn to respond correctly to what is happening - do not be offended, thank, explain.

In some situations, you should say this: “I am grateful to you for your advice, I will take it into account, perhaps I will even use some. In any case, the decision is made not only by me, but also by my husband”, or “I can’t solve your problem on my own, my husband and I will try to deal with it in the near future”, or “I don’t know what to do in this situation. Thank you for your advice and recommendations, I will listen to them.

Sometimes even the most tender relationship of spouses can be destroyed by the mother of the husband - the mother-in-law. For some reason or simply out of jealousy, the husband's mother does not accept her daughter-in-law, harasses her with constant nit-picking, whispers nasty things about her wife to her husband, and then conflicts constantly arise in the family. How to solve the problem, what folk conspiracies help to pacify the militant elderly woman?

Conspiracies from the mother-in-law are necessary in order to rid the house of the newlyweds from the uninvited guest, to avoid her moralizing.

Types of rituals

Sometimes the ingenuity of intrigues against the daughter-in-law knows no bounds, but it happens that even the children do not stop the divorced mother of the husband, she goes to great lengths to destroy the marriage. Having tried unsuccessfully to build a relationship, the daughter-in-law decides to turn to ancient rituals, prayers or conspiracies in order to get rid of the hated mother-in-law.

A conspiracy against the husband's mother is a text endowed with magical power, its energy has been verified for centuries. Its task is to attract positive energy, which will help to gain mutual understanding and normalize relations between two different people.

But which ritual should you choose? It all depends on what kind of relationship develops in the family, for each case there are different options:

• There are conspiracies that help get rid of regular annoying notations and moralizing.
• Others are aimed at ensuring that the husband's mother does not interfere in personal relations between spouses. They are performed if she has a great influence on her husband, so that he can get away from psychological dependence and listen first of all to his wife.
• Sometimes a young woman even dreams that her mother-in-law will forget the way to her house forever.

In each family, situations are different, another daughter-in-law just wants peace in the house, she decides to improve relations with her husband’s mother and restore peace with the help of a conspiracy. Such a ceremony is performed so that the mother-in-law can see and appreciate the dignity of the daughter-in-law, after which love will reign in the family.

The choice of a ritual should be taken with all responsibility, it is necessary to understand exactly what problem needs to be solved, what results to achieve. It is worthwhile to objectively think about your behavior, maybe the daughter-in-law herself is to blame for the bad attitude towards her. After all, building harmonious relationships is a hard and long work of people. Probably, youth should give way to age and compromise, then there will be no need to resort to magic.

For peace in the house

When all efforts are in vain, and both women fail to find a common language, and conflicts and swearing constantly arise, it is best to perform the ritual in order to make peace with the mother-in-law. It will not be easy to stop swearing and quarrels, it is possible that after a while love for her daughter-in-law will wake up in her heart.

To perform the ritual correctly, you will need to buy 7 candles in the temple and bake a delicious and beautiful cake yourself.

Sometimes it seems that nothing will help to find the love of the mother-in-law: gifts, attention, only conspiracies remain.

The most convenient time is the full moon, but if it does not come out, then the sacrament is performed during the growing moon.

Closer to 12 o'clock at night, you need to place candles on the floor to make a vicious circle. Light candles at midnight. Put the pie in the middle and stand up yourself. Read the text exactly 7 times. You must first write it yourself on a sheet of white paper. The words are:

“Now I have my own mother, the one who gave birth to my beloved! So that there were no barriers between us, calm reigned and everything went smoothly! I attract the forces of goodness and love to the hearth, the envious enemy will not penetrate there! Let us get rid of anger and hatred, and get rid of hostility! I cooked a delicious cake, when you taste a sweet piece, So you will love me and call me your beloved daughter-in-law! From now on and forever you will be like a lawful mother to me! Candles will help me in the semi-darkness, a conspiracy to love, sending you! Amen!".

After that, a quarter of an hour should be devoted to visualization, imagining how the relationship will develop further. The candles must burn out completely. Wrap the cinders in paper on which the plot is written, and then bury them in a place where there are no people.

The pie must be eaten together with the husband's mother.

There is another version of the pie conspiracy:

• for this, you will additionally need any thing of the husband’s mother;
• another item of clothing, donated by the mother-in-law;
• both things need to be well tied together or secured.

During the ritual, the knot should also be in a circle along with the pie, then it is hidden in a secluded place so that no one can find it. You don’t need to show or tell anything to anyone, let it be a secret. If the symbol of a strong relationship is lost, then they can deteriorate again.

How to get rid of mother-in-law

Sometimes the mother-in-law interferes too actively in the affairs of the family, and puts a lot of pressure on her son, even if she lives separately.

To get rid of her influence, sometimes there is no other way out than to drive her away from home so that she does not constantly come to visit and does not climb into the family. The ceremony is simple, but they do it during the waning moon, and is performed early in the morning, at sunrise. Take a handful of salt in the palm of your hand. Holding it in their hands, pronounce the words:

“Salt salt, white salt, loose salt! Help the servant of God (name) to drive away from my house, so that she lives her life, does her own business, and she was not interested in mine and her husband’s and didn’t climb. Help get rid of her advice and complaints. Save from anger and hostility. Make her forget the way to our house, Yes, she stopped going to us! Amen!".

You need to repeat them 9 times. After pronouncing the magic words, salt is scattered near the threshold of the mother-in-law's house. The effect of the ritual will soon be noticeable. To be sure, it should be done again in a month.

For a mother to separate from her husband

Sometimes difficulties arise in a young married couple when the son cannot yet become completely independent and depends on the opinion of his mother, runs to her for advice on any occasion. But this is not the main thing. The bad thing is that the husband follows the mother’s lead, and the whole life of the young spouses is subject to the wishes of the mother-in-law, and the husband is always on her side, and the wife’s opinion is not taken into account. In such a situation, magic can help, it breaks the strong psychological connection between the husband and his mother.

For a daughter-in-law, marriage can be a nightmare if the mother-in-law constantly interferes. Various methods will help you, including a conspiracy.

The ritual is performed on the waning moon, at which time it will be endowed with the greatest power, it is possible to achieve the desired goal quite soon. Late at night, you need to put 3 church candles on the table and light them. An ordinary onion will need to be cut in half and immersed in a glass of water.

“As an onion unites with water, so do we, the servants of God (your names with your spouse), And no one and nothing can quarrel us and not separate us! So that my beloved husband listens to me and listens. To always support me, to be a mountain for me! To be on my side in disputes with my mother, Yes, he was not a sissy, but he could get rid of everything mother-in-law! Amen!".

The plot is repeated 7 times and a glass with an onion is placed on the windowsill, where it should be for 7 days. Then bury its contents in a deserted place.

The result will soon begin to affect, the woman will choose another object for her patronage, or she will have other interests.

Prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker

Living with a mother-in-law is difficult in any case, but if she constantly interferes in family life, gives orders, forgetting that it is not her word in the family that should be the last, prayer to the Miracle Worker Nicholas will help.

You should not be offended, angry and cursing, but you should:

• go to the Orthodox Church and buy 3 candles;
• write a note about the health of the husband's mother;
• put candles to the icons of the Savior, the Blessed Matrona and the Wonderworker Nicholas.

Approaching the image of the Pleasant and putting a candle, cross yourself and say a prayer:

“The miracle worker Nikolai, let the mother-in-law not be angry, our marriage will be preserved. Amen".

You can pronounce it as much as you want. Then, thanking the saint, crossing himself for the last time, leave the temple.

For prayer at home, buy 12 candles and icons that were used for candles in the church. You will need to collect illuminated water in the temple for a home ritual. It is carried out as follows: you need to stay alone in the room and close the door, but it is best if there is no one at home. Light candles and place icons in front of you. Fill the bowl with holy water.

First, you need to imagine that the mother-in-law is the kindest and most accommodating woman, in the family there is peace, tranquility and excellent relationships. Now you can begin to pray, repeating it many times, turning to the Pleasant Nicholas:

“Wonderworker Nikolai, I trust in your protection, and forgive me if I do evil. If my mother-in-law is very angry with me, let her calm down quickly. So that discord does not destroy the family, I beg you very much. Let it be so. Amen".

“Wonderworker Nicholas, Defender and Savior. I beg you, do not measles, but give my family a way. Let the mother-in-law not gloat more, everything goes according to the Divine will. All scandals in the family will stop, evil spells will return back. I believe that grace will come, and the mother-in-law will not make you suffer. Let it be so. Amen".

After praying, you need to cross yourself from the heart and drink some water. Put out the candles and remove the wax residues, and then take them to the church, where they know what to do with them. Icons are removed to their permanent place. The holy water left in the bowl is imperceptibly added to the mother-in-law's food or drink.

Saint Nicholas will certainly give protection if there is no evil in the heart.

So that the mother-in-law does not pester

This conspiracy will not awaken love in the heart of the mother-in-law, but it will be possible to get rid of nit-picking and harassment. What to do? For magic, you need a photo of the mother-in-law. In the morning (preferably on a big Orthodox holiday) you need to go to the temple and buy a new bible. The one that is stored at home will not work. The book must be sacred. For the health of the mother-in-law, put a candle. Arriving home, immediately take her photograph, cover it with your left hand, say the words:

“In the name of the Lord and His Mother! I take away all the malice of the servant of God (the name of the mother-in-law), I lock it in the Holy Book! Be kind and caring! Amen, amen, amen."

The photo is hidden between the pages of the bible, and the book is removed so that no one finds it and pulls out the photo. Soon the house will be calm.

As you know, the mother-in-law can destroy the family of her son, bringing her daughter-in-law to leave the family with her nit-picking.

For mother-in-law's love

There is also an old conspiracy to love the spouse's mother. For a long time, on Trinity, a young wife went to the field for herbs, which were famous for their ability to protect the house from evil spirits. Among them there is a herb that could forever drive an angry demon out of her mother-in-law. It grows along roadsides and is known to everyone - it is a plantain. They take from him only arrows on which there are buds and flowers, if seeds have already appeared, then it will do. They must be collected, dried and put into tea leaves. Mix well and at this time say:

“I cook a decoction - mother-in-law broth! Let the evil be afraid, the servant of God (the name of the mother-in-law) will not be useful! Drink this tea, but come to the threshold with good! Let the fire-bird peck anger, and fly away. And my mother-in-law no longer expresses dissatisfaction! Amen! Amen! Amen".

You can give this collection to your mother-in-law, or make tea for her when she comes to visit. After the time has elapsed, she will stop pestering.

There is one important condition for the magical rite for the love of the mother-in-law to work, you need to read it in the house where the evil and annoying mother-in-law lives.

What you need to know

The power of magical knowledge has not lost its relevance in our days. It is important to make some efforts, comply with the necessary conditions and believe in a positive result. Therefore, in order for the ritual to work flawlessly, you should know some of the nuances:

• We must remember that magic helps only those who believe in it.
• The situation should be constantly visualized in maximum detail and in a positive way.
• All manipulations are carried out in solitude, you can not tell anyone about them.
• After the ritual, you must thank the higher powers.

The conspiracy is aimed at the harmony of human relations. If there is anger and resentment in the heart of a young woman, it will not be easy to help the higher powers and the result can not be expected.

For young women who have decided to invoke peace in the family with the help of magic, they must be forgiven and understood, because the mother’s behavior is based on love for her son, she wants him to be happy. Indeed, in years the situation may repeat itself, only the daughter-in-law will become the mother-in-law. And then it will become much easier for her to understand her husband's mother.

Hello!

My problem is that I have been living with my mother-in-law for 12 years.

At first, the relationship was good, then she tried to manipulate me and her husband in her own interests.

I shake internally when she is around. I am always ready for a negative attack from her side. She always took pleasure in pissing me off. Fought over trifles. There were many scandals.

I behaved very tough and my husband supports me. I have not communicated with her for many years, I don’t even say hello, living in the same apartment with her.

For many years I waited for her to die, she is 83 years old. Tired of waiting.

I do not like to be at home for a long time when she is around, although I am very comfortable.

Now I want to have a child, but I would be happy if it were not for her.

I am a little familiar with the Law of Karma, and do not want to turn to black magic. I ask you to give advice on what ritual can be performed for a positive outcome of the situation, and I would not be guilty of causing deliberate harm to my mother-in-law. I don't want to perform rites of destruction. I know everything pays off. I will not pay huge sums for uncertainty as a result. I myself can conduct rituals a little according to books, but I'm not sure if my strength is enough to realize my plan. Tell me, do I need to turn to professionals, and what should I do?

Hello Tatiana!

You correctly understand the law of the universe: what you give to God's world will return to you a hundredfold. Therefore, if you take on a sin and try to exterminate someone, it will be a heavy burden on you and your next generation, bringing failures, disasters and other troubles to life. You are not your own enemy, so you should not resort to the forces of black magic.

Your mother-in-law is an energy vampire, spoils your life, sucks out vitality, while getting satisfaction. Such behavior is from the unclean. Do not blame her, she will return the evil that she did with her behavior. In this case, you do not need to turn to professionals, you can cope with the situation on your own.

The hardest thing you have to do is forgive your mother-in-law. Understand that everything is visible in heaven, and she will receive what she deserves. You need to take her actions for granted and let go of resentment towards her. Talk to her. Let her be herself, letting her negativity and barbs pass by. Cleanse the apartment from the evil that has accumulated in the home and makes it uncomfortable. Just buy some incense from the church, light the houses and walk around the apartment, especially paying attention to the corners. I also advise you to conduct a ritual that will help you restore justice.

Rite to restore justice

Then get the icon of the Archangel Michael and conclude a "deal" with the saint. In the evening, light a candle in front of the icon and “talk” to the Archangel. Say something like this:

“I forgive my mother-in-law and give her to your judgment. Let her heart burn with fire at the slightest evil towards me. Let her understand that you can’t feel negative towards me. I conclude an agreement with you: you will protect me from the evil eye of my mother-in-law, and for this every Saturday I will light a candle for you in the church. Protect me. Your judgment is the truest."

This rite will help to triumph justice. The situation in your home will improve, and in the most unexpected way for you.

How to teach mother-in-law. Instructions for use

Dreaming of finding family happiness, the girls do not think about the train of relatives who reach out for the groom. Most of those who looked at you at the wedding are unlikely to meet on the path of life, but you will have to constantly communicate with your husband's parents.

It will not work for a long time to think carefully about every step and bother about the little things in order to please the second mom and dad. There will come a time when a sense of pride and independence will make your self come out. Modern girls often do not try to adapt to their husband's parents, hence the conflict of interest arises almost immediately after the honeymoon.

The confrontation between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, overgrown with stereotypes, should initially be considered as a war of two women who love one man. One cannot get used to the idea that her boy has already grown up and has long ceased to be an angel in the flesh, that it is time to stop nursing him and controlling everything and everyone in his life. Another cannot accept the care of her husband from another woman, her curiosity and pickiness. It turns out a situation from the category: two sheep on a narrow bridge. Naturally, you don’t want to bend under the mother-in-law. Therefore, we will try to tame the mother-in-law.

Straight Talk

Before taking decisive action, try discussing the current situation with your mother-in-law over a glass of wine or a cup of tea and kindly explain to her where she is wrong and that she should not worry about her son. Who knows, the essence of the conflict could be in a petty misunderstanding and natural maternal anxiety. Then you're in luck.

If, over time and the new actions of the mother-in-law, you realize that the conflict is still taking place, go on the offensive for now. Act confidently, do not stop halfway.

The most annoying thing is when your every action is accompanied by a comment: you feed the child in the wrong way, you don’t dress according to the weather, you don’t iron the clothes correctly, you cook the wrong thing ...

You can teach the adviser a lesson by completely ignoring her or agreeing with her in everything, but doing it your own way. We advise you to stock up on sedatives and patience. The mother-in-law will soon realize that you are indifferent to her monologue, you neglect advice, smiles and nods of approval are just a sign of decency. And who wants to talk into the void? A self-respecting mother-in-law will retreat.

A carefully pronounced phrase will also help calm the mother-in-law: “Anna Ivanovna, I do everything for the good of your son, and he is pleased with everything.” The situation for the mother-in-law will turn out to be a dead end: forcing you to do the opposite, she comes out, only harms her son.

There is one more method from opposite. The mother-in-law, who considers herself an ideal wife and mother, will always bother with advice and parting words. She just knows better. Based on this situation, we suggest turning to her for advice at every step. Constantly call her and ask how best to proceed. Ask her for help, because she is the best grandmother and mother.

Call day and night. The child's temperature has risen, consult with the mother-in-law. Let there be too many of you. She has her own household chores up to her throat, she does not need strangers. The mother-in-law will try to keep communication with you to a minimum.

Uninvited guest

Some mothers-in-law love to make surprises. For example, unexpected visits. No call, no text, just a knock on the door. Annoying when they suddenly burst into personal space and begin to spoil the nerves. Take a deep breath, calm down, and next time do not open the door - they were in the bath, they did not hear. Pretend you need to run.

Having kindly offered to have a bite to eat from the road, leave her at home alone, to wait for her son. Do whatever it takes to make her feel out of place. The mother-in-law will not so much be angry with you as she will regret the time spent. And call next time.

Themselves with mustaches

How to pacify the mother-in-law if she constantly makes comments about your uncleanliness, your inability to keep the house in order, organize family evenings? The next time you visit her, reproach her inadvertently for greasy stains on napkins, for plaque on the toilet, for a yellowed bathtub, for a dusty sofa. It won't sound right, but it works. Perfection does not exist.

cold war

You should not go into open conflict with your mother-in-law. It will only harm your family. You can teach a mother-in-law a lesson with kindness, affection, patience and cunning. Play underground and win. Get your father-in-law to your side, appease him with delicious food and beer while watching football.

An attack from the rear will be the most unexpected. Father-in-laws often take a neutral position, women's disassembly does not bother them much. The husband should initially be your ally. This factor is already a big blow to the pride of a negative mother-in-law.

And most importantly. Remember, the mother-in-law was once in your place. She may associate her attitude towards you with personal experience. Your husband's mother has a lot of life experience. In fact, she is one step ahead. You are predictable to her. Cunning, play a double game and take non-standard moves. That's the only way to teach her a lesson.

The conspiracy against the evil mother-in-law is magical texts that create the conditions for attracting the energy of mutual understanding, peace to the house, contribute to a calm, measured life of people who may not tolerate each other, they can even hate.

There are a huge number of conspiracies for the mother-in-law, if she interferes with the normal life of the son's family, most of which were created, honed over tens, even hundreds of years. After all, unfortunately, there are cases when a mother, who does not agree with the choice of her son, literally goes to any lengths to separate the disobedient "blood" from his chosen one.

The quintessence of magical knowledge of many generations works great today, the main thing is to make sufficient efforts to resolve the issue, really want to achieve success.

There are a large number of proven conspiracies to ward off the mother-in-law, allowing you to improve relations with the mother-in-law, corny to drive her out of the house with the help of magic, if nothing helps. Before resorting to magic, you need to try to reconcile with this person, or ask your husband to talk to her. If nothing helps, turn to the help of heavenly forces, most importantly, keep a firm intention.

When are these conspiracies pronounced?

There are many examples when the mother-in-law is able to create some problems in the family, interfere with life, create conditions that sometimes lead to a violation of the idyll and even divorce. The most difficult case is when the mother-in-law lives with her family and constantly incites her son to her daughter-in-law. They say that a lie repeated a thousand times becomes the truth, and this lie is especially effective against loved ones.

And if a young family does not have the opportunity to move to a separate apartment, or, for example, the mother-in-law, for health reasons, needs the constant care of loved ones, the likelihood of a marriage breaking up increases. Water and stone wear away, and the husband's mother is not a stranger to him, and he will listen to her opinion.

Therefore, if you do not want to lose your loved one, you need to take the initiative into your own hands and try to resolve the issue.

If the husband's mother refuses to compromise, you need to resort to the help of heavenly forces from her intrigues. One of the most effective means to solve this problem is a conspiracy to love the mother-in-law. If you just want to improve relations with your mother-in-law, then a white conspiracy will suit you. And in order to permanently ward off the mother-in-law, if you need to drive a woman out of your house, you will most likely need to use black magic. In this case, the lapel of the husband from the mother-in-law, made on their joint photo, or a ritual with wax dolls, is suitable.

How to be in a difficult situation

The life of a young family often depends on many factors, among which relationships with parents occupy a fairly significant place. Therefore, if you are tired of the constant presence of your mother-in-law in your home, it is you, the daughter-in-law, who needs to solve the problem.

To perform the following conspiracy from the evil mother-in-law, you need to prepare an onion, three candles and a glass of water. The ceremony is held on the waning month. At this time, the words of the conspiracy to get rid of the mother-in-law can with maximum force affect the woman who bothers you, and the goal will be achieved in the shortest possible time, life will become easier. Light candles late at night, put them on the table, cut the onion, dip it in a glass of water and read the words of the conspiracy to the mother-in-law.

Conspiracy "For the mother-in-law" for the waning month

“As an onion unites with water, so do we, the servants of God (your names with your spouse), And no one and nothing can quarrel us and not separate us! So that my beloved husband listens to me and listens, To always support me, to be a mountain for me! To be on my side in disputes with my mother, Yes
he was not a sissy, but he was able to get rid of everything mother-in-law! Amen!"

The words of the ritual are repeated seven times, after which the glass is left on the window for seven days.

After a week, give water and an onion to the ground in a deserted place.

In a few weeks, a conspiracy to get rid of the mother-in-law should work, because no protection will help from it.

What to do if the mother-in-law disliked

Even if the mother-in-law lives separately, she can create a number of problems simply because she does not like her daughter-in-law. She can occasionally mischief, casually noticing something unpleasant in your address when meeting. Fortunately, even in such a case, there are rituals, spells, conspiracies from an evil mother-in-law.

The following ritual will not only improve relations with the husband’s mother, but will make it so that the mother-in-law can see your positive aspects and love you. In order to carry it out, you will need seven candles and a very tasty cake.

It is recommended to perform the ritual on the full moon, and if it does not work out, then at least for the growing month. At midnight, candles are lit, of which a vicious circle is made on the floor, in the center of which a pie is placed. The following conspiracy is written on a piece of paper so that the mother-in-law falls in love with you, it is read seven times over the pie.

Conspiracy "For the mother-in-law" on the full moon

“Now I have my own mother, the one who gave birth to my beloved! So that there were no barriers between us, calm reigned and everything went smoothly! I attract the forces of goodness and love to the hearth, the envious enemy will not penetrate there! Let us get rid of anger and hatred, and get rid of hostility! I cooked
delicious cake, when you taste a sweet piece, So you will love me and call me your beloved daughter-in-law! From now on and forever you will be like a lawful mother to me! Candles will help me in the semi-darkness, a conspiracy to love, sending you! Amen!"

Spend the next 15 minutes visualizing a positive relationship with your mother-in-law. The candles must burn out to the end, after which the wax is wrapped in a sheet with a plot and buried in a deserted place. Pie, of course, you need to treat your mother-in-law, for example, by inviting her for tea.

If you want to use "heavy artillery", turn your husband away from his mother. Choose any: with a photo of the waning moon, with volts and a knife - which one you like more. But remember that higher powers will require a high fee for the use of black magic. The husband may start drinking, he may have health problems. You break not a simple connection, but a blood one, and this is dangerous for all participants in the ritual, voluntary and involuntary.

What does it take to make the ritual work?

To achieve success in the goal, you need to follow some rules. The most important thing is to choose an attainable goal, to strive for it, not paying the slightest attention to fictitious obstacles. Visualize the situation you want to achieve, preferably in as much detail as possible.

Remember, the heavenly powers help only believers, those who are trying to create their own destiny. It is impossible to imagine a situation where, after a strong quarrel, the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law reconcile, becoming best friends. A good relationship is the result of long-term, productive work of two individuals who work daily to bring about positive change in existence.